http://articles.getacoder.com/self_improvement/self_improvement.htm Free Content For Your Website http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/2.0/ How do we change our Selves, or the world around us? To begin with, we need to recognize that the symbolic world is every bit alive as the physical world. Mon, 13 Oct 2008 13:18:45 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_is_a_Living_Idea_1557244x1223918325.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_is_a_Living_Idea_1557244x1223918325.htm I recently decided to give up swearing. It began as a goofy bar bet that my friend Ryan thought I'd never be able to win. I had bet him a beer that I wouldn't say a four letter word for a week straight. Thu, 02 Oct 2008 08:55:34 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Son_of_a_Hitch_-_Tips_to_Prevent_Road_Rage_in_2008_1553383x1222952134.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Son_of_a_Hitch_-_Tips_to_Prevent_Road_Rage_in_2008_1553383x1222952134.htm Feeling all your emotions is very important in creating a life you love. Many of us avoid feeling emotions we tend to think of as negative; for instance, anger, sadness, fear, hate, and shame. These emotions (and many others like them) become especially toxic in our lives when they are not fully experienced. When we feel all of our emotions, we regain our authenticity, energy, creativity, power, and inner guidance. So go ahead--feel your emotions, and create a life you love! Wed, 01 Oct 2008 19:47:56 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Feel_Your_Emotions_and_Create_a_Life_You_Love_1548537x1222904876.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Feel_Your_Emotions_and_Create_a_Life_You_Love_1548537x1222904876.htm How you feel about something is so incredibly important that you should base every decision you need to make on how you feel about it. When you noticeably feel good and when you think about making a certain decision, that is the path you should always follow. Your gut instincts and your feelings about that particular decision will always lead you to something that will bring you more joy. Sun, 21 Sep 2008 05:47:20 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Your_Emotions_Lead_the_Way_1460366x1221990440.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Your_Emotions_Lead_the_Way_1460366x1221990440.htm Are you engaged in self-defeating and self-sabotaging behavior? Do you tend to end up with a mess when things started out so well? I am a big believer in the idea that every action we take is done for reason. Fri, 19 Sep 2008 02:45:54 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/8_Tips_to_Stop_Self-Sabotaging_and_Self-Defeating_Behaviors_1460384x1221806754.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/8_Tips_to_Stop_Self-Sabotaging_and_Self-Defeating_Behaviors_1460384x1221806754.htm We highlight several emotional drawbacks that do not contribute to living responsibly with yourself, such as possessiveness and jealousy. We also highlight the five basic principles of right-living. Thu, 18 Sep 2008 17:56:55 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Living_a_Responsible_Life_and_Right-Living_1556914x1221775015.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Living_a_Responsible_Life_and_Right-Living_1556914x1221775015.htm They have come to learn how to change their lives. They each have heard about Anon and his gatherings that have enabled others to fulfill their dreams, change their lives, become all that they wanted to be. Now it was their time. The first night there are only four but more will come. Anon knows that more will come to his gathering. Thu, 18 Sep 2008 13:07:45 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Secret_Something_Within_-_A_Life_Changing_Novel_1550510x1221757665.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Secret_Something_Within_-_A_Life_Changing_Novel_1550510x1221757665.htm Where the title of a website is not simply a title. Lost skies are lost souls. Thu, 18 Sep 2008 04:42:03 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dark_Skies,_Not_Only_a_Web_Site_Name_1554084x1221727323.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dark_Skies,_Not_Only_a_Web_Site_Name_1554084x1221727323.htm Unfortunately, no matter where you go and what you manifest, you'll still be taking yourself along with you. If you manifest more money, but in the past you've been poor at budgeting and you spend frivolously, then what you'll find is that nothing changes at all. You'll still be spending money left, right and center and you'll still be without money because nothing has changed within yourself. Wed, 17 Sep 2008 04:33:42 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Manifesting_Money_Made_Easy_1460367x1221640422.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Manifesting_Money_Made_Easy_1460367x1221640422.htm The trouble with perfectionism is that there are no concrete guidelines against which to measure bona fide perfectionism. Each purist stakes out an area to focus on. In that sector of life the need for perfection takes over, yet in other parts "good enough" is tolerated. Perfectionists tend to fall into different categories, but all share the burden of having unreasonably high expectations. Who is to judge? Sat, 13 Sep 2008 11:20:44 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Perfectionism_-_Its_All_in_the_Eye_of_the_Beholder_1555402x1221319244.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Perfectionism_-_Its_All_in_the_Eye_of_the_Beholder_1555402x1221319244.htm The body follows what the mind conceives. The condition of the mind often affects how the body performs, which explains why people who are stressed often suffer from accelerated aging and health problems. There are techniques that can help avoid or at least minimize stress. Follow these top 10 ways to relax and give your mind and body a good break. Sat, 13 Sep 2008 06:42:06 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_10_Best_Ways_to_Relax_1460372x1221302526.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_10_Best_Ways_to_Relax_1460372x1221302526.htm We are used to thinking about the passage of time as being the equivalent of having our lives go downhill. But time can instead be our friend, helping us achieve what we could never do before. Tue, 26 Aug 2008 12:46:06 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_Improves_at_60_1539867x1219769166.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_Improves_at_60_1539867x1219769166.htm A few years back my mother and I were hooked on a hugely popular TV show in the UK called "Faking It." Each episode featured someone in hot pursuit of a crazy dream. An example that sticks in my mind is the person who wanted to compete in a high level show jumping event, when they'd never sat on a horse before. Fri, 22 Aug 2008 13:25:10 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Just_Say_Yes,_and_the_Fine_Art_of_Faking_It_1548089x1219425910.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Just_Say_Yes,_and_the_Fine_Art_of_Faking_It_1548089x1219425910.htm The article speaks about the Most Seductive Intoxicating Addictive Drug. It is not the ones that the addicts consume but what is inherent in each one of us. Thu, 07 Aug 2008 21:57:32 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Most_Seductive_Intoxicating_Addictive_Drug_1553629x1218160652.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Most_Seductive_Intoxicating_Addictive_Drug_1553629x1218160652.htm For me, an intention means something I want to have happen in my life or business. As I write them down each day, I really try to feel that the goal or intention is happening now. Then I watch to see if any positive evidences of that set intention appear. Thu, 07 Aug 2008 00:56:37 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_is_Your_Daily_Intention_1552583x1218084997.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_is_Your_Daily_Intention_1552583x1218084997.htm You can either accept your life the way it is now, or, you can get on the path to where you really desire your life to go. I am going to challenge you to follow a simple exercise for three weeks. If you do, you will initiate a major change of focus in your mind that will help you greatly in achieving your dreams and desires. Mon, 04 Aug 2008 00:49:32 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Where_Is_Your_Life_Going_1400948x1217825372.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Where_Is_Your_Life_Going_1400948x1217825372.htm Have you ever had one of those days where nothing seemed to go right? When those days occur, we have choices in how we'll react. Walk through one such day with me and let's see what options we have. Sun, 03 Aug 2008 06:31:22 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Get_Your_Slipped_Plans_Back_on_Track_1552336x1217759482.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Get_Your_Slipped_Plans_Back_on_Track_1552336x1217759482.htm The misconception out there is that we need to get rid of our ego... In actuality, we are supposed to have an ego, it just needs to be balanced and not altered. Sat, 02 Aug 2008 22:32:53 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_#1_Most_Common_Goof_in_Personal_Development_is_Trying_to_Get_Rid_of_Your_Ego_-_Part_2_1400859x1217730773.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_#1_Most_Common_Goof_in_Personal_Development_is_Trying_to_Get_Rid_of_Your_Ego_-_Part_2_1400859x1217730773.htm Staying focused is difficult for many of us. Some of us get side-tracked by the events of life going on around us. We allow ourselves to be pulled this way and that, sometimes not knowing where to go next. However, staying focused is primarily an issue of time allocation and programming that time. But it does take practice to make it a habit. Let's look at some ways to stay focused until you succeed. Sat, 02 Aug 2008 12:18:01 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Stay_Focused_Until_You_Succeed_1400925x1217693881.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Stay_Focused_Until_You_Succeed_1400925x1217693881.htm Dealing with elements of what Carl Jung calls the Shadow helps us deepen our awareness of the current moment. Find out what the Shadow is, how it effects your experience as a human, and what you can do to go beyond it. "It's really true that you are free of the past and free of the future and open to this pure present and the pure present seems to have no boundaries and is wide open and is free of most anxiety and free of most depression and clearly that's a place where one would like to live and certainly the mystics agree. But as you start doing that as a practice, you will notice that you will be aware of the now moment and then at some point, you'll realize you are not." Fri, 01 Aug 2008 10:34:19 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Ken_Wilbur,_Bill_Harris,_Carl_Jung,_and_TOOL_on_Present_Moment_Awareness_and_the_Shadow_1460378x1217601259.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Ken_Wilbur,_Bill_Harris,_Carl_Jung,_and_TOOL_on_Present_Moment_Awareness_and_the_Shadow_1460378x1217601259.htm A vivid memory is an invaluable tool for speed readers. How can it be developed? Thu, 31 Jul 2008 04:39:07 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Good_Reading_Habits_1548416x1217493547.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Good_Reading_Habits_1548416x1217493547.htm We all know exactly what people mean when they describe someone as having a big ego. They are describing someone who is very self-referenced and self centered, often with mind-bending hubris, and perhaps someone who thinks we should worship gratefully at their feet. Wed, 30 Jul 2008 06:15:13 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Big_Ego_Identities_1552813x1217412913.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Big_Ego_Identities_1552813x1217412913.htm People say it all the time: "Maybe I'll be somebody, someday." What most do not realize is that distinction is not something you wait for. It is the result of right choices. At this point, I would like to continue our quest by making it clear that our present actions (how we prepare, plan, and execute today) closely determine any level of distinction in our future. There is unmistakable proof that those who are clear about where they are heading do something; and they do it deliberately, in calculated, measurable increments. What's their secret? These folks map out a plan - a predetermined, structured plan. This chapter presents a series of practical steps, keeping that objective in mind. Tue, 29 Jul 2008 06:05:44 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Whats_Your_Blueprint_For_Success_1551893x1217325944.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Whats_Your_Blueprint_For_Success_1551893x1217325944.htm Are you a victim of your outside circumstance? What has happened to you that has kept you from your dreams? I know, if you just would have gotten that new promotion then.....! You had to file bankruptcy because your wife....! If that car wouldn't have been driving so slow you would have....! What excuse will you come up with next? Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:03:32 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/So_Whats_Your_Excuse_1400874x1217261012.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/So_Whats_Your_Excuse_1400874x1217261012.htm You might be amazed when you read this article how much of the past you are dragging into today's conversations and interfaces. You might cringe to learn how you are losing your present to your past. This old, not-working habit deserves your attention in changing it. Mon, 28 Jul 2008 00:32:28 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Does_Your_Past_Ruin_Your_Future_1400923x1217219548.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Does_Your_Past_Ruin_Your_Future_1400923x1217219548.htm Sometimes when you walk down your path the crossroads can be very confusing. Not all birthdays take me to crossroads but this last birthday lead me to a place where there were crossroads leading to directions that all have promise but of course there are no signs saying where they lead beyond the distance. There's was a movie I was watching tonight that made me think about a quote: "Isolation exists only in isolation, once shared it evaporates" . Sun, 27 Jul 2008 23:11:03 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Crossroads_and_Mirrors_1400904x1217214663.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Crossroads_and_Mirrors_1400904x1217214663.htm How you use the resources you are given makes the difference between feeling in control and feeling more like a fish than fully alive human. What 2 things must we learn to manage in order to live the life we say we want? You'll have to read it to find out and trust me, you'll be amazed at what you are made of Sat, 26 Jul 2008 15:23:51 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Precious_Resources_1417735x1217100231.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Precious_Resources_1417735x1217100231.htm The content of this article is psychological and spiritual. It introduces people to the idea that the hurts we all endured as children still affect many areas of our lives such as our relationships, finances and contentment, until we consciously heal them. When we heal the soul wounds and limiting beliefs from childhood, more joy and abundance fills our lives. Sat, 26 Jul 2008 09:13:45 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Healing_Soul_Wounds_-_Personal_Growth_To_Change_Your_Life_1400941x1217078025.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Healing_Soul_Wounds_-_Personal_Growth_To_Change_Your_Life_1400941x1217078025.htm You have found and been using Personal Development. People tell you it works. We all have heard the terms: Be, Do, Have. You have heard about it on Oprah,in books. Seminars discuss it and there are businesses that teach it. Fri, 25 Jul 2008 21:40:41 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Taking_Action_Gets_Massive_Results_1460386x1217036441.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Taking_Action_Gets_Massive_Results_1460386x1217036441.htm We should never give up on life. I was told that one day I would wake up and find that life had passed me by. Well, we all miss some opportunities in this life, and some are bigger than others. The important thing is to keep living. Just keep moving forward with a positive attitude. Fri, 25 Jul 2008 00:12:50 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Keep_Living_Life_1400888x1216959170.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Keep_Living_Life_1400888x1216959170.htm This article focuses on what it really takes to experience success with personal growth. It discusses the advantages, commonly made mistakes, and reveals what we can do to produce positive change. Thu, 24 Jul 2008 23:06:00 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Whats_the_Real_Deal_with_Personal_Growth_1460382x1216955160.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Whats_the_Real_Deal_with_Personal_Growth_1460382x1216955160.htm Have you ever found yourself hanging in limbo, waiting for something you desperately want - no, NEED - to manifest, but it's just not happening no matter what you do? You visualize, you imagine, you affirm, you believe - and yet it's still not coming. So you visualize a bit harder, more often, more intensely. Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:09:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dealing_With_Manifestation_Delays_1400905x1216915783.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dealing_With_Manifestation_Delays_1400905x1216915783.htm When we analyze this life, we realize that there are only a few things in life that truly matter. There are only six areas in life where we can focus on and expect to have happy and fulfilling lives. Unfortunately though, the most important things are usually the most neglected; drowned out in a sea of a lot of meaningless things. Consider this a timely reminder to kick the noise out of your life and focus on that which is truly meaningful. Wed, 23 Jul 2008 12:42:42 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/If_You_Dont_Focus_On_These_Areas,_You_Will_Never_Be_Happy_Or_Fulfilled_In_Life_1400945x1216831362.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/If_You_Dont_Focus_On_These_Areas,_You_Will_Never_Be_Happy_Or_Fulfilled_In_Life_1400945x1216831362.htm God gave us, one mouth to do two jobs: eat and speak, but he gave us two ears to do just One job: - LISTEN; which indicates that Listening is more critical than Speaking isn't it? Hence it is necessary to improve the ability to listen emphatically but we can improve our Listening Skills only through conscious efforts. Tue, 22 Jul 2008 23:56:39 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Art_Of_Listening_1529219x1216785399.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Art_Of_Listening_1529219x1216785399.htm In today's modern world apathy is becoming increasingly prevalent. We are constantly and consistently bombarded with all sorts of bad news, leaving many of us with a feeling of indifference and the thinking, "I can't make a difference" or "I can't change anything, I am just one person." Thoughts like these, and others, are causing more and more people to avoid becoming involved with the world around them and preventing them from pursuing their goals. Mon, 21 Jul 2008 20:33:37 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Transform_Apathy_Into_Motivation_1460401x1216686817.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Transform_Apathy_Into_Motivation_1460401x1216686817.htm My life was never easy. Diagnosed with depression and anxiety when I was 17 years old, I have been living a life of self destruction, suicidal thoughts and darkness. I trained myself to never expect anything like love or a relationship because those were things that happened to "normal" people, not me. I began to think differently for the first time in my life when I met John last year in September. He was the charming Greek waiter who spoke with a romantic Greek accent, he flirted with me while taking my order and slipped me his phone number as I was leaving. Mon, 21 Jul 2008 14:04:30 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/I_Am_Normal_1400882x1216663470.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/I_Am_Normal_1400882x1216663470.htm Want to live the good life? One with no worries or problems? There's no guarantee that it'll be paradise, but if you're one girl who just can't seem to avoid crying or troubles --- read on for a few things you should avoid to make a better life for yourself. Sun, 20 Jul 2008 06:22:31 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/5_Things_Women_Should_Avoid_in_Their_Life_1400914x1216549351.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/5_Things_Women_Should_Avoid_in_Their_Life_1400914x1216549351.htm Mind power is not something that is easy to learn about. There are many courses conducted at educational institutions that position you to work in a certain career field but no real courses that help you to better utilize your own inherent creative powers. Sure there are books about the power of positive thinking and using affirmations to attract what you want but these approaches are somewhat shallow and limited. Sat, 19 Jul 2008 15:59:33 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/7_Mind_Power_Secrets_to_Unleash_Your_Creative_Potential_1400887x1216497573.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/7_Mind_Power_Secrets_to_Unleash_Your_Creative_Potential_1400887x1216497573.htm Learn how to live a better life. Learn from some of the greatest minds on the planet. Learn to be free of debt and to live the life you truly wish to live. Learn as a student or earn and learn at the same time. Sat, 19 Jul 2008 11:11:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Success_University_1460388x1216480303.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Success_University_1460388x1216480303.htm Change your thoughts and put emotion behind them. This will change your vibration to attract what you want in life. See how staying in that vibration will help you attract even more good into your life. Sat, 19 Jul 2008 10:04:05 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Feel_the_Emotion_Now_-_The_Law_of_Vibration_1556659x1216476245.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Feel_the_Emotion_Now_-_The_Law_of_Vibration_1556659x1216476245.htm A life discovery. Among the most important sources of power, we have mind energy. Without energy, there is no movement - there is no power. Many of us already know the importance in synergy. As we invest our time more and more each day on certain routines and arising situations, the conclusion of wanting more is most often inevitable. Sat, 19 Jul 2008 04:43:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Human_Mind_-_Energy!_1533853x1216457020.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Human_Mind_-_Energy!_1533853x1216457020.htm It's summer and many of us are scheduled to take some time off, but some of us feel guilty when we aren't productive. Can you take a vacation? Really? I recently returned from an 11 day vacation in Costa Rica with my husband. This was a real vacation. No computers. No cell phones. No plans for spiritual or work retreats. No one to meet. Nothing to do but play for 11 days. I was so looking forward to it that I wasn't expecting what happened two days into the trip. Fri, 18 Jul 2008 23:11:29 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Down_Time_1460402x1216437089.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Down_Time_1460402x1216437089.htm It is said that many pastors offer their resignation every Monday morning. Understanding the stages of ministry will bring the needed perspective to turn those resignations into resolve that will ultimately lead to enjoy the rewards for ministry. Fri, 18 Jul 2008 14:12:57 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Stages_of_Ministry_1460398x1216404777.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Stages_of_Ministry_1460398x1216404777.htm Music is commonly used to help induce certain states and feelings. Some music can make us feel more aggressive, or completely relaxed, and still other types of music can induce feelings of nostalgia. We also know that music and exercise has been going hand in hand since long before Jane Fonda's aerobic videos hit the scene. Fri, 18 Jul 2008 09:42:52 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Your_Music_May_Be_Destroying_Your_Performance_1400875x1216388572.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Your_Music_May_Be_Destroying_Your_Performance_1400875x1216388572.htm In today's IT society, please be careful not to be over "input". Some researches revealed that someone in the ancient time may use a lifetime to collect a certain amount of information. However, for the same amount of information, we can collect today in just one day. Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:58:16 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Purpose_of_Input_is_For_Output_1460392x1216270696.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Purpose_of_Input_is_For_Output_1460392x1216270696.htm The human body comes equipped with some features that we know nothing about! And there's one especially fantastic feature that we should all take the time to learn about and even study the manual! Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:32:14 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Seventh_Sense_-_A_Breakthrough_in_Human_Technology_1400869x1216139534.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Seventh_Sense_-_A_Breakthrough_in_Human_Technology_1400869x1216139534.htm On a preliminary note, it's of outstanding import that you observe what your personal mode is, in addition to your own technique of getting things done if people are to see your worthiness. To converse absolutely well, your audience have to be kept conscious with an arresting gaze as it makes them come across as duty-bound to pay attention to; they get the sensation that they are pertinent and they are due to the fact that you wouldn't be speaking if they are not there. Sun, 13 Jul 2008 20:23:56 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Heres_What_I_Found_About_Self_Improvement_1400876x1215995036.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Heres_What_I_Found_About_Self_Improvement_1400876x1215995036.htm Sometimes movies do reflect real life and sometimes they give us true insight into what we should be doing when we are not. Sometimes the movies help us to better understand ourselves and the direction we wish to be heading in. Sat, 12 Jul 2008 23:34:02 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Can_a_Movie_Really_Reflect_Real_Life_1400879x1215920042.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Can_a_Movie_Really_Reflect_Real_Life_1400879x1215920042.htm Very many people especially youths, with a lot of energy and time give up on life even before they get started. After all, they say, "Life begins at forty." Over the years however, I have come to believe that life actually begins when you want it to begin. Sat, 12 Jul 2008 12:57:59 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Positioning_Yourself_1460400x1215881879.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Positioning_Yourself_1460400x1215881879.htm There are lots of self-improvement advice available, but which ones are the best? Everyone would want to know what the best-kept secrets are to improving the self. All you have to do is to look in the right places. Fri, 11 Jul 2008 20:49:22 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Best_Self_Improvement_Advice_the_Gurus_Never_Tell_You_1400919x1215823762.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Best_Self_Improvement_Advice_the_Gurus_Never_Tell_You_1400919x1215823762.htm To advise others about various choices in our lives and to choose their options wisely on any matter of importance to them is very easy. Each of us is guilty of offering such advice to our friends, relatives and others every now and then, whether they are seeking such advice from us or not. Thu, 10 Jul 2008 17:51:25 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Choose_Your_Options_Wisely_1460368x1215726685.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Choose_Your_Options_Wisely_1460368x1215726685.htm A life without purpose is a life that has been abused. Here's your first step. Thu, 10 Jul 2008 10:51:02 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Its_Time_to_Live_on_Purpose_1551685x1215701462.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Its_Time_to_Live_on_Purpose_1551685x1215701462.htm Many people seem to think that they need people to like them. The truth is that you don't. All you need to is to like yourself. When you like yourself, and are comfortable in your own skin, it doesn't matter if people like you or not. When you like yourself you are secure within yourself and this translates into attraction. People are more likely to like you. Wed, 09 Jul 2008 19:32:05 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Why_Needing_to_Be_Liked_Causes_People_to_Not_Like_You_1417717x1215646325.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Why_Needing_to_Be_Liked_Causes_People_to_Not_Like_You_1417717x1215646325.htm Carl Jung referred to people who need to be needed as "the wounded healer." He was referring to the analyst/patient relationship, but many people today find themselves being needed by their parents, their kids, their spouse, and they may have let it go too far. Are you relationship addicted? Find out if you need to be needed and how to develop and maintain healthy, meaningful relationships. Wed, 09 Jul 2008 11:37:59 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_You_Need_to_Be_Needed_1400910x1215617879.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_You_Need_to_Be_Needed_1400910x1215617879.htm Are you often absent-minded or can't remember a face, a name or your shopping list? Find out what is your strongest perception sense and use it to improve your memory. Wed, 09 Jul 2008 05:30:16 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Find_Out_What_is_Your_Best_Perception_Sense_and_Use_it_to_Improve_Your_Memory_1460373x1215595816.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Find_Out_What_is_Your_Best_Perception_Sense_and_Use_it_to_Improve_Your_Memory_1460373x1215595816.htm Self-subversion is the ability to learn from experiences and events. This learning influences our way of life. When we try out new things for the first time, we are scared. Tue, 08 Jul 2008 23:31:02 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Learning_Behaviors_-__Self-Subversion_to_Propensity_in_Learning_1400889x1215574262.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Learning_Behaviors_-__Self-Subversion_to_Propensity_in_Learning_1400889x1215574262.htm If you've ever been stuck in a rut before, you probably know the sense of helplessness that takes over your life. You want your life to change, but you feel powerless to do anything about it yourself. You may find yourself constantly making plans to improve your life, but never quite getting around to taking action because it seems so intimidating. Tue, 08 Jul 2008 18:40:37 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Use_Your_Super_Mind_Power_to_Get_Out_of_That_Rut_1460385x1215556837.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Use_Your_Super_Mind_Power_to_Get_Out_of_That_Rut_1460385x1215556837.htm If you can not see something that does not mean it does not exist. This is the common belief in which people deny the existence of angels, spirit guides, and other unseen helpers. If you have encountered such unseen helpers, you know that they exist, albeit you can not 'prove it.' Tue, 08 Jul 2008 11:43:51 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_You_Dont_Know_-_Doesnt_Mean_it_Doesnt_Exist_1460387x1215531831.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_You_Dont_Know_-_Doesnt_Mean_it_Doesnt_Exist_1460387x1215531831.htm Depression and boredom are often experienced together. There are six steps you can take to protect yourself from getting stuck in either distressful state. Tue, 08 Jul 2008 07:30:10 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Boredom_and_Depression_-_Top_6_Interventions_1400912x1215516610.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Boredom_and_Depression_-_Top_6_Interventions_1400912x1215516610.htm An article on self-help and what is involved in it. Talks about the nature of thinking and the necessity of self-awareness in daily living. Tue, 08 Jul 2008 03:29:34 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Know_Thyself_1417722x1215502174.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Know_Thyself_1417722x1215502174.htm Each individual possesses a self-image that can support or undermine one's efforts. A positive self-image offers a brighter outlook and motivation to gain further personal development -- but it must be nurtured. Mon, 07 Jul 2008 14:12:02 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Positive_Self-Image_-_It_Must_Be_Nurtured_1460389x1215454322.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Positive_Self-Image_-_It_Must_Be_Nurtured_1460389x1215454322.htm Every emotion - even anger - is here to serve you, to help you in some way. If you can learn what the emotion is there to teach you, you can access greater power, centeredness and resourcefulness. Mon, 07 Jul 2008 11:47:54 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Hello,_My_Name_is_Anger,_and_Ill_Be_Your_Server_Today_1400924x1215445674.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Hello,_My_Name_is_Anger,_and_Ill_Be_Your_Server_Today_1400924x1215445674.htm Are you prepared like lots of others with recession-proof income tricks that will virtually guarantee that you survive the impending recession. I found a great free audio that has provided me with all the recession-proof income tricks that I will personally use to ensure my financial future and that of my family in the coming years, I feel that this is to big not to share as we all need to get ready. Mon, 07 Jul 2008 01:41:02 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Recession-Proof_Income_Tricks_1400881x1215409262.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Recession-Proof_Income_Tricks_1400881x1215409262.htm Sometimes people expect great results in what they do, but they often fail to get the results they expect. The reason is that they have not acquire the knowledge of doing it yet. Many people do a lot of things but lack the real love and determination to do them and if they give up doing what they have set out to do after a few failures, the Chinese have a saying that such people are half-water barrels, or doing things without tail. If you have a goal make sure you have great love for it, otherwise don't do it at all. Sun, 06 Jul 2008 18:38:26 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_You_Think_You_Can_Help_This_Child_to_Succeed_in_Learning_Just_One_Word_1400938x1215383906.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_You_Think_You_Can_Help_This_Child_to_Succeed_in_Learning_Just_One_Word_1400938x1215383906.htm Are you going through a difficult time? Perhaps you didn't get a promotion you deserved, a friend has betrayed you, or you've lost a loved one. It's easy to get negative and bitter, and lose your enthusiasm for life. Here are some practical suggestions for overcoming adversity. Sun, 06 Jul 2008 01:24:11 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Overcoming_Adversity_&_Finding_Strength_in_Trying_Circumstances_1548123x1215321851.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Overcoming_Adversity_&_Finding_Strength_in_Trying_Circumstances_1548123x1215321851.htm What is the image you try to project to the world? If you are like most people, you spend a lot of energy maintaining your image in an attempt to convince yourself that you do not have the qualities you disapprove of in others. In preserving this illusionary image, however, you keep yourself from aligning with your own divinity. So with decades of inflation, how much is your image costing you? Sat, 05 Jul 2008 03:10:23 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Your_Image_Costs_You_More_Than_You_Know_1460361x1215241823.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Your_Image_Costs_You_More_Than_You_Know_1460361x1215241823.htm Snake oils and magic bullets are offered to depression sufferers by the dozen, offering plenty of hope but very little in conquering and managing stress, depression and anxiety effectively by delivering a definitive and lasting cure.When it comes to successfully managing depression, stress and anxiety I'm always in a state of alert regarding the latest (so-called) cures. I want to be aware of any new breakthroughs that happen and I also want to be equally aware of new solutions that simply offer false hope. Sat, 05 Jul 2008 01:23:53 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Manage_and_Conquer_Stress,_Depression_and_Anxiety_More_Effectively_1460404x1215235433.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Manage_and_Conquer_Stress,_Depression_and_Anxiety_More_Effectively_1460404x1215235433.htm Regular practice of Transcendental Meditation (TM) can treat your stress-related problems such as high blood pressure, improve your mental capabilities and help you improve your relationships. Overall, TM will make you a relaxed, happier and contented person. Fri, 04 Jul 2008 19:24:06 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Transcendental_Meditation_Helps_Me_Out_1554765x1215213846.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Transcendental_Meditation_Helps_Me_Out_1554765x1215213846.htm The path to becoming a narcissist begins in childhood. The parent(s) fixate on a child who they perceive as perfect and superior to others. The child who becomes a narcissist is not allowed to express his real emotions. On an unconscious level, the narcissist feels like an empty fraud. Fri, 04 Jul 2008 02:59:16 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Growing_Up_to_Be_a_Narcissist_Starts_Very_Early_1400903x1215154756.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Growing_Up_to_Be_a_Narcissist_Starts_Very_Early_1400903x1215154756.htm Firstly, 'impossible' is 1 word that keeps ideas from becoming reality, and has left different persons living lives filled with discontentment as well as frightening trials. You have to recognize what prompts you but the reality is still that no other person can discover it for you; you've to think about it correctly as it will obviously go a very long way in carving you into what you will become. Thu, 03 Jul 2008 19:40:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Procrastinate_on_Everything_Else,_But_Not_Self_Improvement_1400877x1215128443.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Procrastinate_on_Everything_Else,_But_Not_Self_Improvement_1400877x1215128443.htm How do you achieve the goals that you set? Try recalling the success images that you have from your past. Read about how to draw upon your past successes to bring future success. Thu, 03 Jul 2008 15:47:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Recalling_Your_Success_Images_1460397x1215114467.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Recalling_Your_Success_Images_1460397x1215114467.htm Do you want to be a better you? Or do you want to make the world around you a better place to be? Or do you want to influence others to make your day more pleasant. If the answer was Yes, then read on. Thu, 03 Jul 2008 09:05:48 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/You_Can_Create_a_New_Day_by_Creating_a_New_Reality_1417718x1215090348.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/You_Can_Create_a_New_Day_by_Creating_a_New_Reality_1417718x1215090348.htm Are regrets, bad memories, or losses keeping you from enjoying each new day? Is the past keeping you from moving into the future with hope and anticipation? Discover the five necessary steps to make peace with your past and enjoy life more than you have ever imagined possible. Thu, 03 Jul 2008 02:54:01 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Making_Peace_With_Your_Past_1417716x1215068041.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Making_Peace_With_Your_Past_1417716x1215068041.htm Are you at the point in your life when you feel like you need a healthy dose of Lucy's Vitameatavegamin? If you aren't just pooping out at parties, but pooping out altogether, perhaps you need to whistle a happy tune. If you can't whistle, then buy a kazoo. You are never too old to make a joyful noise with a kazoo. Wed, 02 Jul 2008 17:01:04 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remembering_My_Song_1417734x1215032464.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remembering_My_Song_1417734x1215032464.htm There exists a current debate over whether behaving in a socially caring manner, or social altruism, is a learned behavior or whether human beings are hard wired, or genetically predisposed, to behave in such a way. There are surely rational arguments for each side. However, some studies indicate that altruism is indeed hard wired into the human brain as well as the brains of several other species. In essence, humans can't help the urge to help. Tue, 01 Jul 2008 14:56:50 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Biological_Altruism_-_Are_We_Hard-Wired_to_Act_in_a_Socially_Caring_Manner_Or_to_Seek_Personal_Gain_1460394x1214938610.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Biological_Altruism_-_Are_We_Hard-Wired_to_Act_in_a_Socially_Caring_Manner_Or_to_Seek_Personal_Gain_1460394x1214938610.htm We worry about everything, whether in personal or business life. Generally, that doesn't make us feel good. Can we start to accept that life is the way it is? That's the key to feeling a lot better! Tue, 01 Jul 2008 13:27:37 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Accept_Life_As_it_Is_1553675x1214933257.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Accept_Life_As_it_Is_1553675x1214933257.htm It's the one word in your vocabulary that may be preventing you from reaching that goal, dropping that weight, finishing that project. This killer word takes good intentions--and completely destroys them! Can you guess what it is? Tue, 01 Jul 2008 01:57:17 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Killer_Word_1417720x1214891837.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Killer_Word_1417720x1214891837.htm The critical voice of Monkey Mind droning on in your head is often the biggest obstacle to creating a happy, fulfilling life. This article gives you a simple way to turn down the volume on that negative commentary so you can discover and create what you truly want in life. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 18:05:32 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Critical_Voice_How_To_Stop_Your_Monkey_Mind_1400944x1214863532.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Critical_Voice_How_To_Stop_Your_Monkey_Mind_1400944x1214863532.htm Phobias are defined according to the American Psychiatric Association, as an irrational and excessive fear of an object or situation. Phobias affect people of all ages, from all walks of life, and in every part of the world. Phobias can deeply impact a person's life. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 11:29:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Have_No_Fear_-_Phobias_Can_Be_Cured!_1526465x1214839787.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Have_No_Fear_-_Phobias_Can_Be_Cured!_1526465x1214839787.htm Any fashion consultant will tell you, your closet is full of lost gems. I give many professional image seminars a year and one of the biggest concerns my clients have is how to have a great look without spending a fortune. I am here to tell you today that you can find what you are looking for in your very own closet. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 09:52:35 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Double_Your_Wardrobe_Without_Spending_a_Penny_-_Use_What_You_Own_in_New_and_Creative_Ways_1400909x1214833955.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Double_Your_Wardrobe_Without_Spending_a_Penny_-_Use_What_You_Own_in_New_and_Creative_Ways_1400909x1214833955.htm I was walking up to the main library at UCSD one night, which is a long walk even when you pay for parking, when I noticed my absent minded condition. I had been walking wrapped in thought, pondering. I had been oblivious to my surroundings. Does it happen to you? Mon, 30 Jun 2008 05:27:58 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Our_Presence_is_Required_1400858x1214818078.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Our_Presence_is_Required_1400858x1214818078.htm While it is commonly known that good feng shui can bring good luck to the person who takes advantage of it, it is also important to understand that there is also bad chi. Basically, Sha Chi and Si Chi falls under the category of bad chi in feng shui. Sun, 29 Jun 2008 09:17:33 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Having_Good_Luck_in_Your_Life_-_Forever_1476262x1214745453.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Having_Good_Luck_in_Your_Life_-_Forever_1476262x1214745453.htm Mental manifestation is the name given to the first form of manifestation which happens in your life, in the form of ideas, thoughts, intuition, creativity, insight, plans etc. The mental manifestation is the precursor to physical manifestation, and changes in your state of consciousness will change the mental manifestations which occur, to therefore either propel or repel you from your goals. This article gives a brief introduction into mental manifestation, and how you can accelerate it, to therefore manifest the life of your dreams. Sun, 29 Jun 2008 08:58:46 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Mental_Manifestation_1548481x1214744326.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Mental_Manifestation_1548481x1214744326.htm Emotions play a part in every aspect of life. Being emotional is healthy and it is human. It defines us as a species. Perhaps one who does not acquiesce to this tenet is one who has not a soul... Sat, 28 Jun 2008 08:10:52 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Emotions_Are_A_Part_Of_Life_1400951x1214655052.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Emotions_Are_A_Part_Of_Life_1400951x1214655052.htm Today's current generations have a warped sense of reality when it comes to what is real or not real in life. How would you market to these self centered tech savvy generations who have been brought up by skeptical parents who feel their kids can do not wrong. Bill Gates sums it up perfectly. Fri, 27 Jun 2008 20:51:30 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Bill_Gates_Hits_It_Right_On_With_Todays_Generations_1520355x1214614290.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Bill_Gates_Hits_It_Right_On_With_Todays_Generations_1520355x1214614290.htm Many people wish the could earn more, loose more weight or stop smoking yet fail to realise there dreams. However by using the Japanese approach to improvement - Kaizen - we can all increase our chances of success. Fri, 27 Jun 2008 18:55:35 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/3_Essential_Pillars_Of_Self_Improvement_1400940x1214607335.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/3_Essential_Pillars_Of_Self_Improvement_1400940x1214607335.htm Your life is comprised of everything you do-showering, brushing your teeth and sleeping, with everything in between. However, there is often a plethora of busy work that distracts and keeps you from connecting with yourself. Experiencing your life from the inside takes time each day to be alone and quiet in the presence of your soul. Thu, 26 Jun 2008 19:02:07 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Are_You_Avoiding_Yourself_1472165x1214521327.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Are_You_Avoiding_Yourself_1472165x1214521327.htm The Awakening DVD is a 48 minute personal development movie written by the Lifepath Unlimited partners and features personal life coach speaker Patrick Combs. I watched the Awakening movie and then watched the movie, The Secret. Both are based on teaching the concepts of the Law of Attraction. Thu, 26 Jun 2008 13:24:59 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Awakening_And_The_Secret_DVD_Movies_1400947x1214501099.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Awakening_And_The_Secret_DVD_Movies_1400947x1214501099.htm There are 3 main stages that you will likely go through when learning how to speed read. The Beginning stage, Growth Stage, and the Power Stage. Tue, 24 Jun 2008 03:44:41 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Find_Out_What_the_3_Stages_of_Speed_Reading_Are,_and_How_You_Can_Speed_Your_Way_Through_Them_1557008x1214293481.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Find_Out_What_the_3_Stages_of_Speed_Reading_Are,_and_How_You_Can_Speed_Your_Way_Through_Them_1557008x1214293481.htm The narcissist's child was exploited as the puppet of his parents. He suffers severe psychological impoverishment. Children of narcissistic parents can benefit from psychotherapy that allows them to grieve the loss of not having a parent who valued and loved them. Fri, 20 Jun 2008 19:36:08 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Narcissists_Child_-_Left_Out_in_the_Cold_1552566x1214004968.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Narcissists_Child_-_Left_Out_in_the_Cold_1552566x1214004968.htm If you feel your world is becoming smaller, due to anxiety and depression...or depersonalization, you can begin to do something proactive about it. Yes, you have the ability to make positive changes. It's time to take a risk and make the necessary changes to make your life work for you. Wed, 18 Jun 2008 10:53:38 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Boredom_to_Burnout_-_Your_Natural_Remedy_to_Jumpstart_Your_Life_1468108x1213800818.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Boredom_to_Burnout_-_Your_Natural_Remedy_to_Jumpstart_Your_Life_1468108x1213800818.htm The majority of the people who cross your path will never discover their life purpose. As Thomas Carlyle says, "The man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder -- waif, a nothing, a no man. Have a purpose in life, and, having it, throw such strength of mind and muscle into your work as God has given you." Tue, 17 Jun 2008 02:16:01 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/7_Reasons_Why_People_Do_Not_Live_With_Purpose_1551791x1213683361.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/7_Reasons_Why_People_Do_Not_Live_With_Purpose_1551791x1213683361.htm So this past weekend Erin and I played house when we took my 6 & 5 year old cousins, Michael and Alex, for a night. These kids are insanely cute, but they're a handful. Erin quickly deciphered Michael's MO: if no one's looking, the rules don't apply. Sun, 15 Jun 2008 08:43:56 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Follow_the_Rules_in_Order_to_Break_Them_1550402x1213533836.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Follow_the_Rules_in_Order_to_Break_Them_1550402x1213533836.htm These tips will easily improve your reading speed and comprehension. See for yourself! Sun, 15 Jun 2008 07:26:23 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Top_5_Quick_and_Easy_Tips_to_Improve_Reading_Skills_1559172x1213529183.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Top_5_Quick_and_Easy_Tips_to_Improve_Reading_Skills_1559172x1213529183.htm In working with women and mothers, I have come to realize the prevalence of what I call the "Am I Enough?" Syndrome. Ask yourself, what areas in my life do I suffer from the "Am I Enough?" Syndrome. Thu, 12 Jun 2008 23:01:27 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Am_I_Enough_Syndrome_1547569x1213326087.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Am_I_Enough_Syndrome_1547569x1213326087.htm The very thought of flying in an airplane can send some people into a frenzy of fear. Despite advances in the field of aviation many of us still dread flying in those avian behemoths! It is a documented phobia and one needs to get over it considering the fact that air travel is almost next to impossible in these times. Sat, 07 Jun 2008 02:13:51 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Tips_to_Overcome_the_Fear_of_Flying_1558871x1212819231.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Tips_to_Overcome_the_Fear_of_Flying_1558871x1212819231.htm Even as our souls yearn for us to "play big," to discover our passion and live it to the fullest, our fearful self continues to seek out ways to hide and play small. "Our deepest fear," writes Marianne Williamson in A Return to Love, "is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." Perhaps even deeper than the fear she describes is the fear of experiencing and expressing our power out in the world, of being larger than life, of living beyond the self-imposed walls and barriers we create in the mistaken belief they will keep us safe. They can't and they won't. Wed, 21 May 2008 05:21:42 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Personal_Growth_-_Larger_Than_Life_1553214x1211361702.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Personal_Growth_-_Larger_Than_Life_1553214x1211361702.htm Fear is something we build up in our own minds, and we can also break down that fear. And when you stay in a hotel, wear pajamas! Tue, 06 May 2008 20:59:33 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/When_Staying_in_a_Hotel,_Wear_Pajamas_1552550x1210121973.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/When_Staying_in_a_Hotel,_Wear_Pajamas_1552550x1210121973.htm I have a childhood friend who remembers what she had for lunch in the 3rd grade. I, on the other hand can't seem to remember what I was wearing the day before. Well, maybe I'm exaggerating a little bit, but it never ceases to amaze me the little details she can recall of moments long gone. She asks me "Remember that time when...?" I most always just agree and say yes but sadly, I don't know what she's talking about. Tue, 29 Apr 2008 16:41:05 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Boost_Your_Memory_1556117x1209501665.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Boost_Your_Memory_1556117x1209501665.htm This may sound outrageous to some people, but I would argue that the Bible is the most powerful "self help" book ever written. It is true that most self help books are all promise and polish and end up helping the author to royalties and speaking fees more than anything else, but when it comes to the power to really transform lives, the Bible stands in a league of its own. Sat, 26 Apr 2008 11:58:04 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Big_Story_1527510x1209225484.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Big_Story_1527510x1209225484.htm Those who suffer from Social Anxiety Disorder, or S.A.D., feel they must hide from other people: "I can't let other people see me." While the intensity of those feelings varies widely, those who suffer from social anxiety disorder share one common underlying premise: "There's something wrong with me, and I can't be fixed." Fri, 25 Apr 2008 05:29:24 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Social_Anxiety_Disorder_(SAD)_1554578x1209115764.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Social_Anxiety_Disorder_(SAD)_1554578x1209115764.htm Innovation requires outside challenges to seed it. Handling criticism and suggestions well is critical to our success. Wed, 23 Apr 2008 14:10:31 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Stifle_Creativity_in_One_Easy_Step_1522860x1208974231.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Stifle_Creativity_in_One_Easy_Step_1522860x1208974231.htm A friend of mine asked me a question. She said, "I teach college English where I see students sabotage themselves and who also let others sabotage them. Why do friends and family members put obstacles in their paths?" She also mentioned how people will tempt their friends who are on diets with sweets and other "off-diet" foods. Mon, 21 Apr 2008 05:48:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Four_Reasons_Humans_Act_Like_Crabs_1528606x1208771301.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Four_Reasons_Humans_Act_Like_Crabs_1528606x1208771301.htm Gratitude in the Simplest Form. There is a proverb that states it takes a village to raise a child. In today's world of bi-continental relationships, electronic gadgets that reach us everywhere, year-round sports for our children and immediate access to data we find ourselves somewhat overwhelmed. This puts us in a position where working together, as a neighborhood, company, family or community becomes even more valuable. Sun, 20 Apr 2008 03:03:24 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Five_Ways_to_Show_Your_Gratitude_1557149x1208675004.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Five_Ways_to_Show_Your_Gratitude_1557149x1208675004.htm What happens when the one thing you can't live without is taken away? Will you lose yourself? Or will you be liberated? Sat, 12 Apr 2008 18:53:30 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Happens_When_What_You_Hold_on_to_is_Gone_1547533x1208040810.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Happens_When_What_You_Hold_on_to_is_Gone_1547533x1208040810.htm You were created to soar at altitude like an eagle not peck the dirt like a chicken. Your attitude is more important than your aptitude to achieve your success. Here we consider three key steps to set you on your way. Fri, 11 Apr 2008 00:33:29 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Aptitude_ _Attitude_=_Altitude_-_Part_1_of_3_1552507x1207888409.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Aptitude_+_Attitude_=_Altitude_-_Part_1_of_3_1552507x1207888409.htm The mind is a topic which many of us utilize, though we may not utilize it constructively. We may not realize the true power of our thoughts; as such we may go into every direction, apart from the direction we seek. Thu, 10 Apr 2008 06:23:10 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Power_Of_Thought_-_Your_Mind_-_And_How_To_Think_And_Grow_Rich_1523175x1207822990.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Power_Of_Thought_-_Your_Mind_-_And_How_To_Think_And_Grow_Rich_1523175x1207822990.htm Speed reading is an essential skill when you need to read large information quickly. It is one of the most useful assets of working adults in today's world. Wed, 09 Apr 2008 00:14:08 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Can_Speed_Reading_Be_Useful_1553144x1207714448.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Can_Speed_Reading_Be_Useful_1553144x1207714448.htm Your life is not over! There are things to discover; there are things to learn. What about the things you never dreamed you could do? You can do them! Mon, 07 Apr 2008 09:00:09 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Have_You_Reached_Your_Limits_1541228x1207573209.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Have_You_Reached_Your_Limits_1541228x1207573209.htm Sierra Leone is a country in West Africa that has suffered severely due to continuous rebel activities from 1991-2002. This nation relies heavily on its mining activities - diamond mining in particular - but progress has been particularly slow because of corruption and civil uprisings. Sat, 05 Apr 2008 22:35:31 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Diamonds_From_Sierra_Leone_-_A_History_Of_Violence_1375628x1207449331.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Diamonds_From_Sierra_Leone_-_A_History_Of_Violence_1375628x1207449331.htm Throughout every single minute of your life, your brain is constantly on the go and producing a series of electrical impulses. The speed of the current generated can be measured in Hertz (HZ) with an electroencephalogram, known in short, as an EEG. Sat, 05 Apr 2008 09:04:26 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Powerful_Are_Brainwaves_-_And_What_Exactly_Are_They_1381764x1207400666.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Powerful_Are_Brainwaves_-_And_What_Exactly_Are_They_1381764x1207400666.htm Just Like the human body, the human mind is always striving to maintain its health, and the many modern forms of psychological therapy, or "psychotherapies," aim to stimulate and support this process. Traditionally, compassionate personal interaction in soothing surroundings has been used to heal the mind. Alongside this, however, was often harsh treatment for the deranged, who were thought to have been touched by evil, struck down by the gods, or affected by the moon. Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:01:42 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Psychological_Therapies_Information_1375633x1207335702.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Psychological_Therapies_Information_1375633x1207335702.htm The Ego is a force unto itself. A powerful, often destructive force when ignored. And it can cause more trouble than it's worth. So, what if you chose to lose it? Just lose the Ego and get to your Highest Self? What then? Thu, 03 Apr 2008 21:19:14 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Have_You_Got_To_Lose__Ego_vs_Your_Self_1361055x1207271954.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Have_You_Got_To_Lose__Ego_vs_Your_Self_1361055x1207271954.htm A number of good predictions are ahead for 2008. Let us cross our fingers that all these will come true. As for the Chinese feng shui experts, the lucky number 8 shows infinity. When positive thinking, hard work and prayers are instilled in our every day living, surely we will have a worry-free and prosperous year. Tue, 01 Apr 2008 01:44:30 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/2008_-_A_Year_of_New_Hope_and_Struggle_1346331x1207028670.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/2008_-_A_Year_of_New_Hope_and_Struggle_1346331x1207028670.htm One of the many ironies of our world is that the most intricate, amazing and complex 'machine' in existence (the human body), comes with no instruction manual. "Here yer go Mr and Mrs Harper; one loud, screaming, kinda slimy small human - enjoy that. Er, him. I know you probably have lots of questions, but just take him home; you'll figure it out. You've got a while." Mon, 31 Mar 2008 16:01:02 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Operate_a_Human_1366595x1206993662.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Operate_a_Human_1366595x1206993662.htm Is your life spent running from things instead of moving towards what you want? Without intention, life is about avoidance. Find out how to transform your "Intention Deficit Disorder" into a relaxed and focused inner intention. Sun, 30 Mar 2008 18:49:52 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Are_You_Suffering_From_Intention_Deficit_Disorder_1529624x1206917392.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Are_You_Suffering_From_Intention_Deficit_Disorder_1529624x1206917392.htm Critical activities get to the core how of goal achievement. Without concentrating on critical activities, one is merely dreaming. Sun, 30 Mar 2008 10:37:08 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Critical_Activities_1346317x1206887828.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Critical_Activities_1346317x1206887828.htm Your ability to accept the challenges thrown in your path and take responsibility for your actions will define and create the map of your life's journey. Deciding to approach your daily life in a positive way will attract things and people who are positive towards you. It is that simple. Sun, 30 Mar 2008 07:23:42 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Gift,_Is_The_Present_1381761x1206876222.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Gift,_Is_The_Present_1381761x1206876222.htm Many people feel overwhelmed when they get a glimpse of what they want to do with their life. The task seems daunting, the road long and hard accompanied by an uncertain destination. They can't see the top from the bottom or the light through the fog. The road to success in obtaining one's goals is a stressful one that is often not enjoyed until one reaches their goal. Then what? The success is fleeting and then they are forced to distract themselves with ego desires like buying things that they don't need or take on another goal and become miserable in their pursuit of the next goal. Setting goals can be scary because of the enormous task at hand. Most of the time this prevents people from even starting. While others push through this fear they are still faced with obstacles to overcome. Life isn't meant to be struggle. One's mission is not a goal to obtain. For a goal has an end, while a mission never dies. If your mission is to be an example of unconditional love, you will continue this mission until the last breathe leaves your body. Fri, 28 Mar 2008 11:43:41 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Live_and_Find_Your_Mission_1526457x1206719021.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Live_and_Find_Your_Mission_1526457x1206719021.htm An increase in awareness leads to greater choices in life. And a viable escape from robotic behaviour. Thu, 27 Mar 2008 21:59:03 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/My_Computer_Has_More_Fun_Than_Me_1375637x1206669543.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/My_Computer_Has_More_Fun_Than_Me_1375637x1206669543.htm Feeling rejected can be very damaging to the self-esteem and self-confidence, if you do not have the tools to implement in such instances. Anger and bitterness are results of rejection, but they are very damaging to the spirit. Diminish Thu, 27 Mar 2008 10:50:58 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Rejections_Add_to_the_Return,_Not_Diminish_the_Return_1496741x1206629458.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Rejections_Add_to_the_Return,_Not_Diminish_the_Return_1496741x1206629458.htm Poor self confidence often starts with misguided parents not teaching their children to feel good about themselves. Fortunately, you as an adult can choose to build self confidence on your own. Thu, 27 Mar 2008 03:36:39 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Self_Confidence_and_Feeling_Your_Own_Worth_1513815x1206603399.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Self_Confidence_and_Feeling_Your_Own_Worth_1513815x1206603399.htm Just what is self-improvement? We see the term everywhere but can you really say what it means to you? Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:51:32 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Is_Self_Improvement_1531761x1206575492.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Is_Self_Improvement_1531761x1206575492.htm If you want to actually follow through on your resolutions, achieve your goals and manifest your dreams this New Year, this article offers a process based in the Jewish mystical tradition to help you do so. This process parallels the Law of Attraction as described in Rhonda Byrne's book, The Secret. Wed, 26 Mar 2008 11:28:20 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Seven_Kabbalistic_Steps_to_Achieving_Your_Goals_and_Resolutions_this_New_Year_1353583x1206545300.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Seven_Kabbalistic_Steps_to_Achieving_Your_Goals_and_Resolutions_this_New_Year_1353583x1206545300.htm Take a moment to take a break and allow the power of good, quality questions to continue your journey of self discovery and self development... 10 simple, thoughtful questions. It could be a new beginning or a simple enhancement of your personal development quest. Tue, 25 Mar 2008 17:54:16 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Questions_For_The_New_Year_-_And_Then_Some___(Shaping_My_Life_Through_Self_Discovery)_1346325x1206482056.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Questions_For_The_New_Year_-_And_Then_Some___(Shaping_My_Life_Through_Self_Discovery)_1346325x1206482056.htm A mounting problem exists both in our schools and in our culture. Teens gone wild, reckless spending and irresponsibility by adults, it's all coming to fruition in an economy and culture teetering on the edge of a serious downturn. Tue, 25 Mar 2008 09:25:58 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Three_Simple_Steps_to_Becoming_a_Compassionate_Human_Being_1369703x1206451558.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Three_Simple_Steps_to_Becoming_a_Compassionate_Human_Being_1369703x1206451558.htm Are there things in life that you have wanted but which have eluded you? Material things, physical attributes, human connections-that for one reason or another you've simply been unable to achieve? My wife Angela and I made what I call a 'vision board' when we were looking for a new home. Tue, 25 Mar 2008 02:51:30 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Genie_In_A_Bottle_-_Your_Universe_in_Pictures_1369704x1206427890.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Genie_In_A_Bottle_-_Your_Universe_in_Pictures_1369704x1206427890.htm Every year as the days get shorter and the weather turns cooler, I find myself less able to think positively-even when using affirmations-and more inclined to prefer solitude and darkness. It sounds crazy, but I just want to hibernate!! Mon, 24 Mar 2008 19:52:15 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Affirming_-The_Healthy_Mind_1504911x1206402735.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Affirming_-The_Healthy_Mind_1504911x1206402735.htm If you are feeling overwhelmed, stressed or out of sorts, maybe it is because you have neglected to spend full attention to connecting with your emotional needs. Consider how you can create time to have a balance between work and projects. Creating time to be with loved ones is easier than you might think. It is a matter of putting family and friends on your list of priorities. Mon, 24 Mar 2008 14:26:48 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Are_You_Neglecting_Your_Emotional_Needs_1494150x1206383208.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Are_You_Neglecting_Your_Emotional_Needs_1494150x1206383208.htm Often in anticipation of a windfall like a money gift, loan or refinance, the more impulsive people may see the future finances as a sure thing and be devastated when the funds fall through. Creditors are vicious in their voracity to obtain funds even if paying them means literally to deny food from your children. Here are three important rules to help keep your finances in order. Mon, 24 Mar 2008 07:21:48 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Buyers_Remorse_1357669x1206357708.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Buyers_Remorse_1357669x1206357708.htm Many people have been indoctrinated to believe that in order to do well in the world, we are subjected to suffering and sacrifice. This indoctrination stems from a mind-set, passed down from generation to generation. Fri, 21 Mar 2008 18:25:42 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Poverty_Mentality_-_Are_You_Carrying_It_1357678x1206138342.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Poverty_Mentality_-_Are_You_Carrying_It_1357678x1206138342.htm The start of a new year is an opportunity to plan changes. It takes more than resolutions to see those changes to fruition. Fri, 21 Mar 2008 09:07:09 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Stop_Making_Resolutions,_Start_Making_Plans_1312364x1206104829.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Stop_Making_Resolutions,_Start_Making_Plans_1312364x1206104829.htm How many people in this world posses good character? How many people make a sincere attempt to use those qualities? How many times has someone's actions caused you to say "I can't believe they would do something like that?" Fri, 21 Mar 2008 06:12:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Does_Good_Character_Still_Exist_Within_The_Human_Race_Anymore_1297313x1206094341.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Does_Good_Character_Still_Exist_Within_The_Human_Race_Anymore_1297313x1206094341.htm Sometimes it pays to be a "jill of all trades" when you're a service business owner, but ultimately you probably discover that there are some things you like to do for clients better than others. Figuring out what you truly love to do in your work with your clients is key to your success -- and theirs. Fri, 21 Mar 2008 03:24:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Client_Attraction_-_6_Questions_to_Ask_to_Discover_Your_Brilliance_1525165x1206084280.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Client_Attraction_-_6_Questions_to_Ask_to_Discover_Your_Brilliance_1525165x1206084280.htm Do you know what you want out of life? Getting what you want out of life involves knowing what you want out of life. It's the "knowing" that separates the winners from average folks. Fri, 21 Mar 2008 03:16:28 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Answer_These_7_Questions_To_Gain_A_Better_Life_1375638x1206083788.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Answer_These_7_Questions_To_Gain_A_Better_Life_1375638x1206083788.htm Events-the New Year, completing a project, finishing school or beginning something anew- often compels us to be introspective, with a desire for deeper insights about oneself. You might want to understand the origins of your desires, overcome limiting behaviors, or seek a better understanding of your motivations. Thu, 20 Mar 2008 09:53:05 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Inner_Wisdom_1346323x1206021185.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Inner_Wisdom_1346323x1206021185.htm Get ahead! Learn to manage your life successfully! Wed, 19 Mar 2008 05:43:16 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Manage_Your_Life_Successfully_1513724x1205919796.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Manage_Your_Life_Successfully_1513724x1205919796.htm Each year people make New Year's resolutions as a declaration of commitment to themselves to make changes in their lives. Have you wondered how effective resolutions are? Do you achieve your New Year's resolutions? If you achieve your New Year's resolutions you are in the minority. Surveys suggest that less than one percent of New Year's resolutions are achieved. It is merely a ritual people have followed for decades. The question is, "Do you want to make changes in your life?" Making a resolution to accomplish something without a plan to achieve it is like putting gasoline into a car that doesn't have an engine. Tue, 18 Mar 2008 21:04:57 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/New_Year_-_New_Beginnings_1346324x1205888697.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/New_Year_-_New_Beginnings_1346324x1205888697.htm Have You Ever Read a Book That Changed Your Life? Most of us can recall the name of a book that influenced us at a critical time in our lives. Think about your favorite books...have you ever read a book and wanted to share it with a friend or family member? How many times have you heard or said the following phrase - "You've got to read this book!" Tue, 18 Mar 2008 19:45:48 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Books_Will_Accelerate_Success_and_Relieve_Stress_1346328x1205883948.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Books_Will_Accelerate_Success_and_Relieve_Stress_1346328x1205883948.htm To judge a person there are various tests. Accordingly the person is labeled as intelligent or not. Now-a-days emotional intelligence is considered more important tool than the other intelligences. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 13:41:55 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Multiple_Intelligences_vs_Emotional_Intelligence_1297317x1205775715.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Multiple_Intelligences_vs_Emotional_Intelligence_1297317x1205775715.htm As human beings we have a tendency to ignore or fight against using our natural gifts. Natural gifts are as simple as intuition or artistic ability to psychic/medium. Many success stories start with an individual who is ignoring the call of his/her gifts. There are many possible reasons for this resistance - fear that the calling will be too difficult to a disbelief in the very work one is being asked to do is egotistical. Sun, 16 Mar 2008 11:10:28 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Gifts_-_Claim_Yours_1332476x1205680228.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Gifts_-_Claim_Yours_1332476x1205680228.htm Being truthful to yourself is the key to unlocking the treasure within you. The path to the incredible riches that lie inside of you is to go beyond the veil of repressed emotions, past failures and disappointments. In order to get there, let us try and find the answer to a simple question. Are you in control of your thoughts? Before you rush in with a resounding YES, take a moment to make the buzz in your head stop. Listen to the voices, sounds and sentences bouncing off the walls of your mind. Do you hear angry screeches, screams, groans and criticism? Do you hear guilt, pain and reproach? Do you hear the suppressed whispers of sadness and loneliness? If you do, is there any wonder that you are NOT a Self Rich person yet? Sun, 16 Mar 2008 05:34:18 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Control_Your_Thoughts!_1372689x1205660058.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Control_Your_Thoughts!_1372689x1205660058.htm It's the New Year. Typically a time when people promise to start anew. So, how do you start? Do you say, "Okay, today is a new beginning." Sun, 16 Mar 2008 00:17:10 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Another_Auld_Lang_Syne_1339485x1205641030.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Another_Auld_Lang_Syne_1339485x1205641030.htm Fantasies and fairy tales are ingrained in our memories, and many of us are stuck in the fantasies, waiting for magic. In reality, our minds are infinitely more capable than genies or wizards in finding solutions to our problems. We can better unleash our true powers when we subdue the fantasies that imprison us. A way to do this is to expose the real Cinderella for who she is, let her die, and never try to be like her. Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:06:11 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Killing_Cinderella_1353584x1205604371.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Killing_Cinderella_1353584x1205604371.htm Too many people stop living vibrantly in their second half of life. This article gives ideas on how to keep yourself from withering. Fri, 14 Mar 2008 21:46:17 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Self-Improvement_-_How_to_Keep_Yourself_From_Withering_1521607x1205545577.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Self-Improvement_-_How_to_Keep_Yourself_From_Withering_1521607x1205545577.htm Personal affirmations are like little elevator speeches that you give to yourself to help you along the success path in life or in business. The right affirmation at the right time will boost you forward to doing what it takes to bring you success instead of getting stalled in overwhelm. It will immediately change your mindset. You will notice your attitude change, the fears dropping away, your shoulders and jaw relaxing, the added depth to your breath, and maybe even a little smile coming to your lips. Fri, 14 Mar 2008 06:00:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_You_Have_A_Personal_Elevator_Speech_1375632x1205488821.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_You_Have_A_Personal_Elevator_Speech_1375632x1205488821.htm The Silva Life System is a revolutionary program that will teach you to slow down your brain waves to the alpha level-the brain frequency associated with meditation-at will, in a short amount of time. Slowing your brain's rhythm to the alpha level is called "going to level", and it involves closing your eyes and following the steps taught in the Silva Life System. One of the many benefits of the Silva Life System is that it can help you to do better on tests, as is explained in this article. Fri, 14 Mar 2008 02:32:35 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Get_Better_Grades_with_the_Silva_Life_Systems_Three_Finger_Technique_1511677x1205476355.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Get_Better_Grades_with_the_Silva_Life_Systems_Three_Finger_Technique_1511677x1205476355.htm When you feel true love for another, the love you have is not your own, but it is God expressing through you. You may feel anger, hurt and resentment because of your expectation of how that person should treat you. But when all those expectations and requirements are gone, what is left is the pure unconditional love that is always present beneath it all... Thu, 13 Mar 2008 03:34:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Perfect_Love_-_Loving_Without_Fear_Or_Expectation_1332470x1205393683.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Perfect_Love_-_Loving_Without_Fear_Or_Expectation_1332470x1205393683.htm With the right work you can get smarter, but there are also things you can do to appear to be more intelligent, and you can use some of them right now. So if you want to impress your boss or your friends with your intelligence, try a few of the techniques below. Some of them may actually improve your thinking skills too. Wed, 12 Mar 2008 09:34:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Get_Smarter_or_Look_Smarter_1369705x1205328887.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Get_Smarter_or_Look_Smarter_1369705x1205328887.htm Human beings are used to several bad habits. Most of these habits start in an early age perhaps in the childhood days. One such habit is the tendency to lie. Most of the cases are attached to child hood incidents. But there are different cases also. The habit may not sound so serious, but the after effects of this habit which can be better called as a disease is not small to neglect as such. Wed, 12 Mar 2008 02:13:18 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Compulsive_Lying_-_A_Disorder_Rather_Than_A_Habit_1508442x1205302398.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Compulsive_Lying_-_A_Disorder_Rather_Than_A_Habit_1508442x1205302398.htm Have you been focusing on creating something wonderful in your life, but it hasn't become reality? In this article, you will discover a simple shift to help you be open to receive your dream, so it can come more quickly and easily into your life. Tue, 11 Mar 2008 17:26:19 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Be_Open_to_Receive_What_You_Create!_1253823x1205270779.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Be_Open_to_Receive_What_You_Create!_1253823x1205270779.htm The fear of dentists or anything dental related is called dental phobia. The amount of people who suffer from the fear of dentists are quite appalling. People would rather feel the pain or allow their cavities to increase or stay away from root canal or the removal or treatment of wisdom teeth than visit their dentist. Most people do not even have a particular dentist that is because they hardly ever visit a dentist. More than 50% of the population of America does not go for regular dental check ups. This has serious ramifications on your personal health. Tue, 11 Mar 2008 11:44:46 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dental_Phobia_-_Everybody_Needs_To_See_A_Dentist_1508469x1205250286.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dental_Phobia_-_Everybody_Needs_To_See_A_Dentist_1508469x1205250286.htm You can view money in different ways. When you view it out of strength, you're probably building great financial integrity. You might be extremely stable, even with ADD, and that's great! But you may have that frantic feeling, that people with ADD often do, where you don't have enough and you're always worrying about where the next dollar is coming from... Tue, 11 Mar 2008 07:56:45 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/ADD_-_Double_Your_Income_1262154x1205236605.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/ADD_-_Double_Your_Income_1262154x1205236605.htm I am involved in an excellent and enlightening program called the "Happy, Healthy and Wealthy Game." During one of our earlier conference calls, one of our coaches talked about "tolerations" and how we should examine them and, in most cases, give them up. I asked him to explain what he meant and he gave an example of over-indulgence. If we are overeating, we do know that it is not healthy or good for our physical being, but we continue to tolerate this behavior of ours. Mon, 10 Mar 2008 22:36:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Toleration_-_What_Are_You_Tolerating_Is_It_Serving_You_What_Cant_or_Wont_You_Tolerate_1346319x1205203003.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Toleration_-_What_Are_You_Tolerating_Is_It_Serving_You_What_Cant_or_Wont_You_Tolerate_1346319x1205203003.htm So it's back to business... Now is the time to clear out the clutter, write out your goals for the year, plan what you need to do and then take action. All very simple to do isn't it? Yet is it easy to implement? Well the truth is, it isn't. Mon, 10 Mar 2008 22:01:52 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Solve_Your_Problems_With_The_Right_Solutions_1508918x1205200912.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Solve_Your_Problems_With_The_Right_Solutions_1508918x1205200912.htm Do you feel "stuck" in your rut "just existing"? Make a New Year's resolution to live your life, no longer as the studious observer event planner, forever the participatory player! Stop "processing" and start "progressing!" Mon, 10 Mar 2008 16:20:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/New_Years_Resolution_-_Stop_Just_Existing_and_Start_Living_Your_Life!_1353586x1205180443.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/New_Years_Resolution_-_Stop_Just_Existing_and_Start_Living_Your_Life!_1353586x1205180443.htm There are two sides to every story. This article encourages you to take stock of 2007 and look at it the (b)right way. Mon, 10 Mar 2008 08:23:11 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Christmas_Thoughts_and_The_Beginning_of_a_New_Year_1253826x1205151791.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Christmas_Thoughts_and_The_Beginning_of_a_New_Year_1253826x1205151791.htm A compliment that started life full of promise and pleasure morphed into overwhelming pressure. Tricia got the food she longed to feast on- acknowledgment and validation for her efforts. Yet compliments stuck in her throat and she spat them out. Why would she not let herself have her heart's desire? Sun, 09 Mar 2008 09:26:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Come_I_Never_Get_Validated_1357670x1205069181.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Come_I_Never_Get_Validated_1357670x1205069181.htm Being able to see challenging situations from a different perspective will open your mind to new possibilities and solutions. It is easy to become blinded by your situation when you are enmeshed in the struggle to figure it out. If you lift your focus higher and choose a different perspective, you can gain a greater sense of clarity about your circumstances. Sun, 09 Mar 2008 09:18:42 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Aha_Moments_-_Scientific_Evidence_1250260x1205068722.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Aha_Moments_-_Scientific_Evidence_1250260x1205068722.htm Almost everyone makes a New Year's Resolution but few actually follow through with them. There are some easy steps you can take to make sure yours succeeds this year. Sun, 09 Mar 2008 05:10:39 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Why_Do_New_Years_Resolutions_Fail_1346330x1205053839.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Why_Do_New_Years_Resolutions_Fail_1346330x1205053839.htm With all the lines of communication it seems that engaging in any other topic such as hate talk; joy talk; peace and pain talk are easily. Let the topic of saying I Love You come into the picture and a different tune begins to play. Sun, 09 Mar 2008 03:57:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Communicating_in_Development_of_the_Social_Self_Environment_1346322x1205049463.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Communicating_in_Development_of_the_Social_Self_Environment_1346322x1205049463.htm Dreams are the most exciting and intriguing part of our day-to-day life. We all see dreams every night. But very rarely, it so happens that we are able to remember them vividly after we wake up. Sun, 09 Mar 2008 00:51:45 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Dream_Interpretation_Can_Be_Used_For_Personal_Development_1539741x1205041905.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Dream_Interpretation_Can_Be_Used_For_Personal_Development_1539741x1205041905.htm Habits are invisible creatures that grow in the maze of the magical Synaptic Mind Forest, a very spooky place that's always growing and changing until it can't find any more Stimuli, which it feeds on. Now, the Habits come from the land of Potential (a very, very strange place). When Synapses join up they open the rabbit hole to Potential just a teensy bit. And every time they do, the Habits grow stronger. Sat, 08 Mar 2008 23:14:33 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Story_Of_The_Habit_1225069x1205036073.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Story_Of_The_Habit_1225069x1205036073.htm Have you ever heard someone say that the reason they don't have the success they seek is because IT or life is hard. The author agrees that IT is hard, but also contends that change is necessary and offers five success strategies to make success with IT easier. Sat, 08 Mar 2008 19:23:09 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Five_Strategies_to_Make_Tackling_It_Easier_1297315x1205022189.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Five_Strategies_to_Make_Tackling_It_Easier_1297315x1205022189.htm You must have the audacity to not conform to a culture that is not yours. The key to not conforming is carrying with you the convictions and principles you were created to live by. Sat, 08 Mar 2008 19:14:21 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Daring_to_Denounce_Defilement_1210568x1205021661.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Daring_to_Denounce_Defilement_1210568x1205021661.htm Another New Year, a reason to cheer! Many of us have managed to fulfill some of our dreams and have come up with flying colors meeting those little goals. This new year, why not try to merely get rid of our bad habits? Sat, 08 Mar 2008 02:10:44 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Replace_New_Years_Resolutions_for_2008_with_New_Habits_-_Find_a_New_Life_1346314x1204960244.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Replace_New_Years_Resolutions_for_2008_with_New_Habits_-_Find_a_New_Life_1346314x1204960244.htm I grew up in an affluent area in Long Island, NY. Although my parents were very rich with love, they struggled financially. At a very young age, I attached my self-worth to my family's net worth. From there, I went through several ups and downs. Fri, 07 Mar 2008 10:13:08 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Personal_Growth_-_Sharing_My_Story_1353582x1204902788.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Personal_Growth_-_Sharing_My_Story_1353582x1204902788.htm You know the world is full of those people that will always knock what you try to do, I call them the dream stealers because that what they do. They seem to think they know better than you what is good or bad for you, instead of getting on with their own lives. Fri, 07 Mar 2008 04:44:26 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Success_with_Positive_Mentors_1520277x1204883066.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Success_with_Positive_Mentors_1520277x1204883066.htm Being responsible for your thoughts and actions, is what I call spirituality. And it should work for you not against you. As you read this you say to yourself, "easy to say but I am working like a slave, and living like a stray dog?" And to top it off, my boss doesn't get off my back. Relax, you don't need to obsess. Fri, 07 Mar 2008 01:52:24 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Relax,_Let_Your_Positive_Energy_Work_For_You_1381766x1204872744.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Relax,_Let_Your_Positive_Energy_Work_For_You_1381766x1204872744.htm You can spend a lifetime, seeking success and happiness in your life. You can read countless books, spend hours sitting through seminars and presentations, and sit glued to your computer exploring the Internet for those vital clues to get you to where you want to be. But are the things you are aiming for really the answer? In this article you will discover that it may just be far simpler than you think to gain true happiness. Fri, 07 Mar 2008 00:21:46 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Why_You_Should_Say_Good_Morning_to_a_Stranger_1203504x1204867306.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Why_You_Should_Say_Good_Morning_to_a_Stranger_1203504x1204867306.htm Opps forgot your keys in the car? 41520...41570... what's Betty's phone number? What was Julian's brother's name? Missed your best friend's birthday? Missed the appointment with your doctor? Thu, 06 Mar 2008 23:29:34 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Everything_You_Need_To_Know_About_The_Human_Brain_Memory_1369706x1204864174.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Everything_You_Need_To_Know_About_The_Human_Brain_Memory_1369706x1204864174.htm How do you react to pain? Do you scream, cry, or become immobile? Most likely you have been responding to pain in the same way for so long, you're certain it is the only response you're capable of having. As the pain ripped through me I did just what it said: Instead of... Thu, 06 Mar 2008 16:41:57 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Reacting_to_Pain_1217706x1204839717.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Reacting_to_Pain_1217706x1204839717.htm You wanna be rich? But what is 'rich'? If it's so important then why is rich publisher Felix Dennis giving away ninety per cent of what he's got? Is there anything else in life? More important, is there something for you? What do you want? Wed, 05 Mar 2008 22:00:44 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Alternatives_to_Great_Riches_1253820x1204772444.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Alternatives_to_Great_Riches_1253820x1204772444.htm Did you know that the connection between your "emotional" heart and your "physical" heart impacts your overall heart health? This article looks at the way emotional trauma effects your heart, and your heart health. Wed, 05 Mar 2008 17:41:30 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Healing_the_Traumatized_Heart_1225072x1204756890.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Healing_the_Traumatized_Heart_1225072x1204756890.htm In business, people read a great deal into a handshake, and deals have been lost because someone doesn't seem confident when they shake hands. This article gives you 5 tips to a powerful handshake that makes the connection. Wed, 05 Mar 2008 06:41:41 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Body_Language_for_Networking_-_5_Tips_for_Handshakes_That_Connect_1486703x1204717301.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Body_Language_for_Networking_-_5_Tips_for_Handshakes_That_Connect_1486703x1204717301.htm When there is rapport between people, it is easier to reach understanding, to resolve differences, make decisions, and achieve cooperation and success. Rapport is a quality of the relationship between people. With it, relationships run easier and smoother. It feels good. If you were capable of building rapport in any circumstance, in any relationship that you choose, how would that affect your life? Your business? Tue, 04 Mar 2008 20:50:28 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Is_Rapport_-_And_Why_Should_You_Care_1375631x1204681828.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Is_Rapport_-_And_Why_Should_You_Care_1375631x1204681828.htm We all have our down moments sometimes. A healthy mind is also a fertile one. Once you set yourself free from the shackles of negativity and poor self-confidence, you'll feel a surge of new energy and your creativity will blossom. Tue, 04 Mar 2008 15:34:10 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Overcome_Nervousness,_Negativity_And_Lack_Of_Self_Confidence_And_Soar_1253822x1204662850.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Overcome_Nervousness,_Negativity_And_Lack_Of_Self_Confidence_And_Soar_1253822x1204662850.htm Everyday routines are great and help to bring some sense of order in our lives. But when it comes to getting new ideas and being creative, routines are our No. 1 enemy. Find out how you can think out of the box and come up with solutions to your problems. Tue, 04 Mar 2008 13:54:16 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_You_Can_Enhance_Your_Problem_Solving_Skills_By_Keeping_An_Open_Mind_1244495x1204656856.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_You_Can_Enhance_Your_Problem_Solving_Skills_By_Keeping_An_Open_Mind_1244495x1204656856.htm Whether your body has long been your enemy or friend, it holds spiritual and emotional wisdom that is uniquely yours. Learn three quick exercises to tap into your inner wisdom. Tue, 04 Mar 2008 08:18:45 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Wisdom_Of_Your_Body_1346332x1204636725.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Wisdom_Of_Your_Body_1346332x1204636725.htm Do you feel stuck in a rut? Do you feel like you have a million things to do, but you never have time for yourself? There is nobody to blame but yourself! Unfortunately, many of us don't take time for ourselves like we should. Read this article to find out two easy and quick ways to bring you energy, happiness, and well-being! Tue, 04 Mar 2008 05:39:24 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Finding_Your_Path_In_Lifes_Journey_1489459x1204627164.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Finding_Your_Path_In_Lifes_Journey_1489459x1204627164.htm What if the way you are being in your life isn't a function of who you are, but more a function of where you are stuck? Would you do things differently if you knew you could? Well, maybe you can! Mon, 03 Mar 2008 12:42:48 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Who_You_Are_-_Or_Who_You_Once_Were_1217711x1204566168.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Who_You_Are_-_Or_Who_You_Once_Were_1217711x1204566168.htm Ahh, a new year brings in new energy, new goals, and new beginnings! With a new beginning comes aggressive conscious New Year Resolution goals such as stop smoking, a new job, new relationships, losing weight, not being lazy and so on. On a conscious level, the person has made a decision to conquer their issue and has the energy and motivation to fuel this endeavor which is wonderful. Mon, 03 Mar 2008 10:19:16 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/A_Mind_Perspective_On_New_Year_Resolutions_1357668x1204557556.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/A_Mind_Perspective_On_New_Year_Resolutions_1357668x1204557556.htm Your fears and doubts about your ability to manifest what you desire can keep you from setting a goal. You may struggle to come up with creative ideas, as well as flounder about when to put an idea into motion. By reaching out to the universe for help and guidance on any project, you open the door to inspiration in the form of creative ideas, insights, and instruction. Manifesting grand projects can be a simple matter of listening closely to the guidance you receive and allowing your inspired outlook to carry you to the finish line. Mon, 03 Mar 2008 06:53:16 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Creative_Imagination_-_Manifest_Your_Desires_1357675x1204545196.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Creative_Imagination_-_Manifest_Your_Desires_1357675x1204545196.htm It may feel to many of us that we can do little at this point in time to help create peace in the world. However, by just being conscious of our thoughts we might, indeed, be able to move ourselves and the rest of the world just a little bit closer to this goal. We can find peace if we only become conscious of where we place our attention. Mon, 03 Mar 2008 01:21:29 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Be_the_100th_Human_to_Create_World_Peace_1503184x1204525289.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Be_the_100th_Human_to_Create_World_Peace_1503184x1204525289.htm Are you a leader or a budding leader? Make sure to cut out these common mistakes and see your career graph hit the roof. Mon, 03 Mar 2008 00:09:24 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Leadership_Mistakes_-_Do_Not_Kill_Your_Organization_By_Making_These_4_Common_Leadership_Mistakes_1304114x1204520964.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Leadership_Mistakes_-_Do_Not_Kill_Your_Organization_By_Making_These_4_Common_Leadership_Mistakes_1304114x1204520964.htm History is witness to many significant events that have resulted from one persons' ability to think positive. There is no limit to what a man can achieve by thinking right. Lets look into what all a human being is capable of if he/she possesses the right attitude in life. Sun, 02 Mar 2008 19:45:07 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Positive_Thinking_CDs_-_Understanding_The_3_Types_Of_Positive_Thinking_CDs_1297319x1204505107.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Positive_Thinking_CDs_-_Understanding_The_3_Types_Of_Positive_Thinking_CDs_1297319x1204505107.htm Feng Shui is based on change, the ebb and flow if life. An acceptance and understanding of this enables us to move through life's challenges with a greater sense of comfort and ease. Just as the river adjusts and shifts to the shape of the land. A sense of flexibility and the ability to 'go with the flow' allows us to move through our hectic, busy days and lives open to new opportunity and relationships. Sun, 02 Mar 2008 19:38:09 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Living_in_the_Moment_and_Going_With_the_Flow_1272153x1204504689.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Living_in_the_Moment_and_Going_With_the_Flow_1272153x1204504689.htm With Christmas behind you, it's easy to get overly stressed about your New Year's Resolution. Make sure it's practical and don't give up. Sun, 02 Mar 2008 19:18:37 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Taking_the_New_Years_Pressure_Off_1312369x1204503517.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Taking_the_New_Years_Pressure_Off_1312369x1204503517.htm The key to all manifestation is Intention. What we intend to get we always get! You have heard of the law of attraction, you know about visualization, affirmations and the power of your thoughts. Now let me show you how to put them all together and finally get them to work! Sun, 02 Mar 2008 05:48:22 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Personal_Development_Power_Begins_With_Intention_1366593x1204454902.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Personal_Development_Power_Begins_With_Intention_1366593x1204454902.htm You never thought about how this experience of life hangs on such a thin thread, how heavily it depends on your physical senses. And now you understand, but it is too late; you have not prepared yourself, and this is beyond what you can manage. The isolation is unbearable. Sun, 02 Mar 2008 05:22:10 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_is_a_Ball!_Or_is_It_1332472x1204453330.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_is_a_Ball!_Or_is_It_1332472x1204453330.htm Tell a pessimist their life is about to change and they will assume it is for the worst. Tell them it will be for the better and they will say it won't last. Ask them why and they will tell you that someone will take it away from them. It is this mindset that characterises a pessimist. Sun, 02 Mar 2008 04:13:48 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Pessimist_Or_Optimist_Which_Would_You_Rather_Be_1499898x1204449228.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Pessimist_Or_Optimist_Which_Would_You_Rather_Be_1499898x1204449228.htm Are you a perfectionist? Does everything have to be absolutely right before you can move on? If so, have you thought about how much opportunity is lost in your quest for perfection? Sat, 01 Mar 2008 10:49:06 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Excellence_Versus_Perfection_1375629x12043865