http://articles.getacoder.com/relationships/post_divorce.htm Free Content For Your Website http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/2.0/ If you have been or are currently in the process of divorce, do you have a good support system? Do you have friends that truly understand what you are going through? Do you know people who can recommend a good divorce attorney, mediator, counselor/therapist, financial planner or do you feel at a loss? Alone? Defeated? Hopeless? Emotionally drained? Angry? A divorce recovery support group may be your answer. Wed, 01 Oct 2008 23:18:46 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/7_Benefits_of_Participating_in_a_Divorce_Recovery_Group_1553602x1222917526.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/7_Benefits_of_Participating_in_a_Divorce_Recovery_Group_1553602x1222917526.htm One result of divorce is that your children now experience "parenting time." This is a weird concept for them and the switches between houses can be a really difficult time for everyone. Learn 6 great tips to make this transition time go more smoothly. Fri, 19 Sep 2008 19:10:58 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_After_Divorce_-_Easing_Those_Parenting_Time_Transitions_1553860x1221865858.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_After_Divorce_-_Easing_Those_Parenting_Time_Transitions_1553860x1221865858.htm No one gets married to get a divorce, and one of the most costly, heart breaking and frustrating aspects of a divorce is the Michigan child custody case. We want to believe that the court acts in the best interest of the children. Tue, 29 Jul 2008 22:17:03 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Michigan_Child_Custody_Case_1428250x1217384223.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Michigan_Child_Custody_Case_1428250x1217384223.htm Did you know you could change your past? Whatever pain or problem you've had can be eliminated by re-writing your story. Tue, 29 Jul 2008 08:39:25 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Tip_For_Women_-_5_Easy_Steps_to_Replace_Your_Pain_With_Peace_and_Happiness_1428211x1217335165.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Tip_For_Women_-_5_Easy_Steps_to_Replace_Your_Pain_With_Peace_and_Happiness_1428211x1217335165.htm In order to win your child custody battle you must first put into perspective the whole win/lose mentality of child custody. Obviously, there is a lot of emotion surrounding child custody as it affects the most important thing in your life; your children. But you must also remember that to win anything, even child custody, you must first get your emotions in check. Sun, 27 Jul 2008 13:44:04 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Custody_-_Winning_the_Most_Important_Battle_of_Your_Life_1428201x1217180644.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Custody_-_Winning_the_Most_Important_Battle_of_Your_Life_1428201x1217180644.htm Do you know the secret to emotional happiness and success? It seems obvious yet it's elusive for many. The answer is simply self-esteem. Read on to find out what steps you need to take to attain this personal empowerment. Fri, 25 Jul 2008 15:50:46 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Tips_For_Women_-_Five_Steps_To_Building_Healthy_Self-Esteem_Post_Divorce_1428228x1217015446.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Tips_For_Women_-_Five_Steps_To_Building_Healthy_Self-Esteem_Post_Divorce_1428228x1217015446.htm Despite the wide range of "expert" divorce dating advice, there is surprisingly little good guidance on dating someone who in that category. In this day and age, where so many marriages fail, there are a lot of divorced people on the dating scene. Keeping a few things in mind can often help increase the likelihood of a good relationship. Thu, 17 Jul 2008 20:08:35 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/About_Divorce_Dating_and_Dating_Someone_Who_is_Divorced_1428208x1216339715.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/About_Divorce_Dating_and_Dating_Someone_Who_is_Divorced_1428208x1216339715.htm How often do you acknowledge your victories? Do you focus more on where you fell short instead of congratulating yourself for your accomplishments? And oh boy does that negative self-talk start to chatter - it's sooo annoying, isn't it? Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:45:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Tip_For_Women_-_#1_Way_to_Avoid_Low_Self-Esteem_After_Divorce_1428212x1216230343.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Tip_For_Women_-_#1_Way_to_Avoid_Low_Self-Esteem_After_Divorce_1428212x1216230343.htm Something horrible has happened between you and the person you fell in love with and got married to. You've decided to divorce. Your children did not have the same experience with your ex and should not be subjected to your evil feelings about him or her. Sat, 12 Jul 2008 08:55:27 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/When_You_Badmouth_Your_Ex_1452712x1215867327.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/When_You_Badmouth_Your_Ex_1452712x1215867327.htm Divorce is always bad news for the whole family but there is good news. Children are amazingly resilient and can adapt to a new way of life when they have the right support. Here are some pointers to what can make the difference between just surviving and starting a new and rewarding life together after separation or divorce. Fri, 11 Jul 2008 21:06:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_Beyond_Divorce_-_Creating_the_Best_Life_For_Your_Children_1428277x1215824781.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_Beyond_Divorce_-_Creating_the_Best_Life_For_Your_Children_1428277x1215824781.htm One of the hardest things you can go through is getting divorced and also realizing that you need to start dating again. There can be a mix of emotions when you start to think about dating again and if it has been a long time you may not even remember what it is like. If you have children it can also be difficult to start dating because they will feel like you are trying to replace there mother or father. Sometimes they are still trying to accept the fact that there parents have been divorced, this is a hard thing for kids to get over. Fri, 11 Jul 2008 19:55:18 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Do_You_Know_When_It_May_Be_Too_Soon_to_Date_After_a_Divorce_-_Dating_After_Getting_Divorced_1428269x1215820518.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Do_You_Know_When_It_May_Be_Too_Soon_to_Date_After_a_Divorce_-_Dating_After_Getting_Divorced_1428269x1215820518.htm Co-parenting can be one of the toughest adjustments to be made after a divorce. What is co-parenting? Well, it's developing a way that you and your ex-spouse can work together in parenting your mutual children. Fri, 11 Jul 2008 02:36:54 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Co-Parenting_-_Choose_Your_Parenting_Battles_Wisely_With_Your_Ex-Spouse_1428218x1215758214.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Co-Parenting_-_Choose_Your_Parenting_Battles_Wisely_With_Your_Ex-Spouse_1428218x1215758214.htm Taking an interest in your children and how they are adapting to the divorce is a good thing. That is, until your interest becomes invasive and intrudes upon the children's relationship with the other parent. How might the questions you ask your children be showing more than just interest. Thu, 10 Jul 2008 23:17:19 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Shared_Parenting_After_Divorce_-_Are_Your_Questions_Showing_More_Than_Just_Interest_1428251x1215746239.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Shared_Parenting_After_Divorce_-_Are_Your_Questions_Showing_More_Than_Just_Interest_1428251x1215746239.htm Are you stuck or moving on from your divorce? If you're ready to find out, read on. Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:00:51 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_After_Divorce_-_How_To_Tell_If_Youre_Moving_On_Or_Stuck_In_A_Rut_After_Your_Divorce_1428235x1215622851.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_After_Divorce_-_How_To_Tell_If_Youre_Moving_On_Or_Stuck_In_A_Rut_After_Your_Divorce_1428235x1215622851.htm The Ypsilanti father custody right is a legal standard that is most commonly known as the "best interests of the child." As in any case in any city or state the court looks at the following factors such as which parent the child is closest to, whether or not there is any abuse or violence in the home and who is the abuser. Mon, 07 Jul 2008 21:06:34 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Ypsilanti_Father_Custody_Right_1428247x1215479194.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Ypsilanti_Father_Custody_Right_1428247x1215479194.htm Mediation provides a cost-effective way to adjust post-divorce child support obligations. In divorces where the parties have children in common, the final judgment will include provisions for the payment of child support. A common problem is how to adjust child support obligations when you are the one paying it and you're making less money than when child support was originally calculated. Mon, 07 Jul 2008 09:41:37 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Using_Family_Mediation_to_Modify_Post-Divorce_Child_Support_1428215x1215438097.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Using_Family_Mediation_to_Modify_Post-Divorce_Child_Support_1428215x1215438097.htm Would you like to start dating again, but feel guilty about leaving your children? Read on to find out how to start a relationship with a new man and still spend time with your kids. Sat, 05 Jul 2008 11:58:53 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_How_To_Start_A_Relationship_With_A_New_Man_When_There_Are_Children_Involved_1428224x1215273533.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_How_To_Start_A_Relationship_With_A_New_Man_When_There_Are_Children_Involved_1428224x1215273533.htm With so many people vying for attention and feeling awkward, it's really easy for step families to feel like one big mess. When this happens, the step couples often starts doubting their decision to marry. Hold on a minute though! Learn great ways to get things back on track. Fri, 04 Jul 2008 22:29:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Success_-_How_to_Keep_Your_Step_Family_&_Marriage_in_Balance_1486524x1215224980.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Success_-_How_to_Keep_Your_Step_Family_&_Marriage_in_Balance_1486524x1215224980.htm Getting divorced can be very traumatizing especially if it was unexpected. It is normal and people around you know that so you better stop feeling sorry for yourself. They love you so accept the situation and move on. Do not be a baggage either. Fri, 04 Jul 2008 19:05:00 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Are_You_A_Divorced_Woman_Here_Are_Some_Tips_To_Successful_Dating_After_Divorce_1428232x1215212700.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Are_You_A_Divorced_Woman_Here_Are_Some_Tips_To_Successful_Dating_After_Divorce_1428232x1215212700.htm Will making (or not making) your child support payments affect your relationship with your children? You'd better believe it will! Fri, 04 Jul 2008 08:59:31 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Nothing_Says_I_Love_You_Like_Paying_Child_Support_1428210x1215176371.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Nothing_Says_I_Love_You_Like_Paying_Child_Support_1428210x1215176371.htm The two years preceding the final divorce decree were filled with countless emotions. I was hurt, embarrassed, frustrated, angry, depressed and fearful. My years growing up in the 50's had not given me the skills to know how to handle this new situation. I was walking into new territory. Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:54:24 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Beyond_the_Pain_of_a_Boomer_Divorce_1428207x1215107664.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Beyond_the_Pain_of_a_Boomer_Divorce_1428207x1215107664.htm When you are divorced and you have children, one of the stickiest things you have to handle is the interface required with your ex. Here is the wisdom from one Divorced Dad. Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:35:37 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Joy_of_Sharing_Custody_1486525x1215106537.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Joy_of_Sharing_Custody_1486525x1215106537.htm Are you dreaming of dating again after your divorce? Read on to find out where to find men to date and how to communicate with them if you are just starting to date after your divorce. Thu, 03 Jul 2008 04:17:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Meet_A_Man_-_Where_To_Look,_What_To_Do,_And_How_To_Communicate_With_Men_If_You_Are_Dating_1428223x1215073063.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Meet_A_Man_-_Where_To_Look,_What_To_Do,_And_How_To_Communicate_With_Men_If_You_Are_Dating_1428223x1215073063.htm While we have reams and reams of statistics about divorce and especially about women and divorce there is a sad lack of knowledge or even acknowledgment of what happens to men after divorce. While no one seems to want to deal with the emotions of men, especially other men it seems there is a growing problem with men not dealing with post divorce life because of a lack of support, understanding and care by the community. Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:30:04 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Men_After_Divorce_-_Advice_For_Men_Struggling_to_Cope_1428205x1215045004.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Men_After_Divorce_-_Advice_For_Men_Struggling_to_Cope_1428205x1215045004.htm Holding on to hurts and anger from the past is a surefire way to waste your life! All of us encounter difficulties of varying levels in our lives. What we do with those difficulties defines who we are... Tue, 01 Jul 2008 20:24:05 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_-_Dont_Lead_a_Wasted_Life_After_Your_Divorce_1439708x1214958245.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_-_Dont_Lead_a_Wasted_Life_After_Your_Divorce_1439708x1214958245.htm Are you fighting forgiveness? When going through emotional crises everyone tells you how important it is to forgive. Read on to see what Michael Beckwith (yes the guy from the Secret) has to say about this very crucial healing process. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 19:58:46 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Tips_For_Life_Change_-_Learn_Three__Powerful_Words_To_Help_You_Overcome_The_Pain_Of_Divorce_1428244x1214870326.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Tips_For_Life_Change_-_Learn_Three__Powerful_Words_To_Help_You_Overcome_The_Pain_Of_Divorce_1428244x1214870326.htm Sometimes in a step family it can be hard to know what to focus on in order to keep your marriage strong. So much emphasis is put on the family. Learn steps you can take today to protect your marriage while at the same time creating strength in your family. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 19:02:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Successful_Remarriage_-_How_to_Keep_Your_Marriage_&_Step_Family_Strong_1486528x1214866967.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Successful_Remarriage_-_How_to_Keep_Your_Marriage_&_Step_Family_Strong_1486528x1214866967.htm Communication between divorced couples can be hard. Here are 10 ways to talk to an ex who doesn't want to talk. Learn how to get around power trips, manipulation, and general rudeness with these techniques. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 12:01:17 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Ways_to_Talk_Your_Ex,_When_They_Dont_Want_to_Talk_to_You_1486523x1214841677.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Ways_to_Talk_Your_Ex,_When_They_Dont_Want_to_Talk_to_You_1486523x1214841677.htm Preparing for a remarriage is important. You and your fiance need to be sure you're ready for this huge undertaking. But, there's an often overlooked preparation step. Sun, 29 Jun 2008 09:48:10 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_Changes_You_Need_to_Make_Now_-_Before_the_Remarriage_1486527x1214747290.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_Changes_You_Need_to_Make_Now_-_Before_the_Remarriage_1486527x1214747290.htm Do you feel stuck? If you are going through or just went thru a life altering change like divorce you may not know where to begin to re-build your life. Read on for some tips on how to create the life of your dreams. Fri, 27 Jun 2008 14:09:17 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_For_Women_-_Create_A_Happy_New_Life_In_17_Seconds_1428233x1214590157.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_For_Women_-_Create_A_Happy_New_Life_In_17_Seconds_1428233x1214590157.htm If you have heard these words than you are probably on your way to getting a divorce. Funny isn't it, how the most valuable, strong and amazing words, I love you, can be taken back, or reworded to its own meaning presenting one of the thousands of reasons for divorce? Fri, 27 Jun 2008 13:31:14 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/I_Truly_Did_Love_You_1428260x1214587874.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/I_Truly_Did_Love_You_1428260x1214587874.htm Divorces that involve children can become messy and complicated. True, it is impossible to be a "perfect" parent, yet dads need to be aware of some big mistakes to avoid. Striving to be the best parent possible as well as showing others your capabilities produces a strong picture for courts and evaluators involved in custody decisions. One obvious mistake Dads make is to not keep up on their relationship with their child. It can be a challenge in some instances to make things work with the other parent. Other obstacles can include distance and time commitments. Do whatever it takes to keep your relationship a string one! Fri, 27 Jun 2008 03:22:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Mistakes_Dads_Make_While_Fighting_For_Custody_1486526x1214551341.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Mistakes_Dads_Make_While_Fighting_For_Custody_1486526x1214551341.htm Don't let anyone tell you that you don't have the right to fight for Ann Arbor custody right of your children. There are a number of factors that the court takes into consideration when deciding on custody, and it is the intention of the court to act in the best interest of the children. Thu, 26 Jun 2008 03:07:59 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Ann_Arbor_Custody_Right_1428249x1214464079.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Ann_Arbor_Custody_Right_1428249x1214464079.htm Child support orders can be modified in certain cases. There must be a showing of substantial change in circumstances for the court to order such relief. Tue, 24 Jun 2008 21:54:32 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Support_-_Modifications,_Adjustments,_Etc_1464236x1214358872.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Support_-_Modifications,_Adjustments,_Etc_1464236x1214358872.htm After a divorce, there may be many things on your mind least of all dating. Understand that getting back into the dating scene can be a helpful situation to help you get over the past events. When you meet someone new, you should think about your children and need to think about all the facts before you introduce this person to your children. Tue, 24 Jun 2008 09:28:31 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Introducing_Someone_New_to_Your_Kids_After_a_Divorce_1464234x1214314111.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Introducing_Someone_New_to_Your_Kids_After_a_Divorce_1464234x1214314111.htm Over the last several decades, increasing numbers of grandparents have been legislated out of existence. In response, grandparents have joined together to get laws passed giving grandparents the right to petition for visitation in the case of divorce or parental death. One by one these laws were adopted in various forms, until all states had one. However, once the laws were established, it was found that grandparents who had visitation in one state would have to litigate all over again if their grandchild's custodian moved to another state. Read on. Tue, 24 Jun 2008 05:06:23 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_Grandparents_Have_Visitation_Rights_1486530x1214298383.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_Grandparents_Have_Visitation_Rights_1486530x1214298383.htm The purpose of a Child Custody Evaluation is to assess your individual and overall family factors that may potentially affect the best interests of the child. It is a tool that courts use to weigh your parenting ability with the needs of your kids. They look at your knowledge, skills, abilities (or lack of ) and most importantly how you interact with your child. Tue, 24 Jun 2008 03:36:52 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_is_a_Child_Custody_Evaluation_-_Tips_to_Help_You_Win_Custody_of_Your_Kids_1486529x1214293012.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_is_a_Child_Custody_Evaluation_-_Tips_to_Help_You_Win_Custody_of_Your_Kids_1486529x1214293012.htm As you begin dating again after your divorce, you might want to prepare yourself for some of the most common questions kids ask. Knowing these ahead of time allows you to develop the best answers possible. Mon, 19 May 2008 12:56:41 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_Be_Prepared_For_Your_Kids_Questions_About_Your_Dating_1557155x1211216201.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_Be_Prepared_For_Your_Kids_Questions_About_Your_Dating_1557155x1211216201.htm Temporary child custody is so important to the your future and your ultimate success in winning custody of your children. This article will explain why you should treat temporary custody as if it were the real thing. Thu, 17 Apr 2008 20:07:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Temporary_Child_Custody_and_Why_You_Need_to_Take_it_Very_Seriously_1556402x1208477267.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Temporary_Child_Custody_and_Why_You_Need_to_Take_it_Very_Seriously_1556402x1208477267.htm There will come a time when moving on becomes a possibility. Some fathers may find themselves interested in dating fairly quickly. Others will put it off until everyone they know is trying to set them up. Circumstances can vary greatly depending on what all was involved in the separation or divorce. Every father needs to follow their instincts as far as considering a relationship with a new woman. Tue, 15 Apr 2008 16:13:14 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_As_a_Single_Father_-_Put_Your_Children_First_1552828x1208290394.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_As_a_Single_Father_-_Put_Your_Children_First_1552828x1208290394.htm It is thought there are over two million people over 50 in England and Wales who are now divorced. As life expectancy increases and the so-called baby boomer generation replace their more traditional elders as seniors, it is likely that the number of people pursuing divorce in their fifties and sixties will increase. What has changed to cause this increase in the number of older adults, and in particular women, filing for divorce? Tue, 08 Apr 2008 01:22:16 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Moving_On_After_Divorce_-_Part_1_-_Why_There_Are_More_Women_Over_50_Moving_On_After_Divorce_1370947x1207632136.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Moving_On_After_Divorce_-_Part_1_-_Why_There_Are_More_Women_Over_50_Moving_On_After_Divorce_1370947x1207632136.htm Men are invariably held responsible for divorces. Yet this is not always a fair analysis of the true causes of a divorce. Tue, 01 Apr 2008 00:59:48 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Post-Divorce_Surviving_Guide_-_A_Male_Point_of_View_1358862x1207025988.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Post-Divorce_Surviving_Guide_-_A_Male_Point_of_View_1358862x1207025988.htm Learn this essential ingredient in any step family. Without it, your step family WILL fail no matter what else you try... Tue, 18 Mar 2008 17:35:07 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Success_-_Without_This_Your_Step_Family_Will_Fail_1507896x1205876107.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Success_-_Without_This_Your_Step_Family_Will_Fail_1507896x1205876107.htm Are you worried about how well your new spouse and kids get along? Learn the secrets of success to building successful step relationships... Tue, 18 Mar 2008 01:37:57 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Successful_Step_Families_-_Steps_YOU_Can_Take_To_Get_Your_Children_&_Spouse_To_Like_One_Another_1492351x1205818677.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Successful_Step_Families_-_Steps_YOU_Can_Take_To_Get_Your_Children_&_Spouse_To_Like_One_Another_1492351x1205818677.htm Re-introducing yourself to the world of dating needn't be a chore. It can and should be fun! If you know what you're looking for and what you have to offer, you'll have an advantage. It is absolutely possible to find love after a divorce, so don't be afraid to take that plunge! Thu, 13 Mar 2008 11:55:52 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_a_Divorce_-_A_How_To_Guide_1506043x1205423752.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_a_Divorce_-_A_How_To_Guide_1506043x1205423752.htm One of many challenges faced by divorced parents is the dilemma of communicating with their child's other parent. Even though the parents no longer share a personal relationship, they will always share the desire for their children grow and thrive. Children's success depends, in part, on their parents' ability to communicate with each other about child-focused issues. So how do divorced parents communicate effectively about their children when they are angry or upset or would simply rather not speak with their child's other parent ever again? Mon, 10 Mar 2008 04:36:34 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Simple_Communication_Strategies_For_Divorced_Parents_1540829x1205138194.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Simple_Communication_Strategies_For_Divorced_Parents_1540829x1205138194.htm Dating after divorce can be a logistical nightmare. When do you find the time? How do you balance, parenting, work, household responsibilities and now something else? While it might seem daunting - where there's a will - there's a way... Sat, 08 Mar 2008 16:07:54 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_How_to_Use_Your_Time_Away_From_The_Kids_Wisely_to_Date_1498819x1205010474.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_How_to_Use_Your_Time_Away_From_The_Kids_Wisely_to_Date_1498819x1205010474.htm It's important to understand this fact when it comes to preparing for your remarriage. It can be a deal breaker in moving forward with the wedding plans... Wed, 05 Mar 2008 10:36:16 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_&_Ex-Spouses_-_Dont_Forget_They_Are_the_Other_Parent_1502840x1204731376.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_&_Ex-Spouses_-_Dont_Forget_They_Are_the_Other_Parent_1502840x1204731376.htm Don't get caught up in the hustle and bustle of this time of year. Read on to learn some tips for making this a great holiday season whether it's your first or tenth after a divorce. Mon, 03 Mar 2008 11:07:31 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Post-Divorce_Living_-_How_to__Survive_&_Thrive_During_the_Holidays_After_a_Divorce_1204919x1204560451.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Post-Divorce_Living_-_How_to__Survive_&_Thrive_During_the_Holidays_After_a_Divorce_1204919x1204560451.htm Both of you can't get along with each other. There's no other way except to take the divorce route, is the pervasive feeling. Each of you prefers the shortest route to your goal i.e. to separate. What about the children? 'Oh, the children, we will have to work out some arrangement for them.' Sun, 02 Mar 2008 16:40:37 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Isnt_Childs_Play_1358861x1204494037.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Isnt_Childs_Play_1358861x1204494037.htm If you are a recently divorced non-custodial parent, you might be finding no avenues for expressing your love to your children, for even daily communication with your children (which you had taken for granted in the past) might prove difficult. Whatever be the difficulties posed, never let communication levels drop. Keep in regular touch with your children, wherever they may be. Sat, 01 Mar 2008 22:22:55 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Your_Partner,_Not_Your_Children_1354959x1204428175.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Your_Partner,_Not_Your_Children_1354959x1204428175.htm When dealing with an Oakland County custody battle you should definitely consider the disadvantages of private courts. There are also plenty of disadvantages when resolving a child custody dispute, and for the following reasons, few parents opt for private courts. Choosing a private judge can save each side thousands of dollars. Sat, 01 Mar 2008 20:19:48 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Oakland_County_Custody_Battle_1513000x1204420788.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Oakland_County_Custody_Battle_1513000x1204420788.htm There are some common mistakes which men getting over divorce often make. It can be helpful for you to keep a few important tip sin mind so that the transition can be much easier for you! Thu, 28 Feb 2008 19:22:52 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Tips_For_Men_Getting_Over_Divorce_1531889x1204244572.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Tips_For_Men_Getting_Over_Divorce_1531889x1204244572.htm The words "parental alienation" strike fear in the hearts of many a divorced parent. It can be terrifying to think that your ex might be able to turn your children against you! And it's devastating to feel powerless to protect our precious 'babies' from emotional harm. Luckily, you have more power and influence than you may think. Sat, 23 Feb 2008 11:21:15 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Defending_Against_Parental_Alienation_1226500x1203783675.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Defending_Against_Parental_Alienation_1226500x1203783675.htm Holidays and step families can spell disaster, but it doesn't have to be that way! Learn some specific steps you can take today to help your family create its own unique memories that will not only make the holidays great, but bring all of you closer together. Fri, 22 Feb 2008 00:55:45 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Holiday_Memories_That_Last_&_How_to_Create_Them_For_YOUR_Step_Family_1204918x1203659745.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Holiday_Memories_That_Last_&_How_to_Create_Them_For_YOUR_Step_Family_1204918x1203659745.htm Well so you have gone through a divorce and been through tough times but guess what? It is over and done with now therefore thinking about it would not do any good to you but add more misery to your already bad pain. This the time to look into different things and move on but its not as easy as it sounds for most people. Read on to discover some of the most incredible ways on how to move on after a divorce and achieve mind blowing results. Thu, 21 Feb 2008 23:26:35 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Move_On_After_A_Divorce_-_Get_The_Magic_Back_And_Live_Your_Life_Like_A_King_Once_Again_1358860x1203654395.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Move_On_After_A_Divorce_-_Get_The_Magic_Back_And_Live_Your_Life_Like_A_King_Once_Again_1358860x1203654395.htm Child custody help for women trying to draft a parenting agreement. What you need to know before you draft yours and how the courts view a parenting agreement that's already in place. Wed, 20 Feb 2008 22:40:25 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Custody_Help_1502594x1203565225.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Custody_Help_1502594x1203565225.htm The first and most important thing to do before you start dating again is to learn to love yourself. If you are not happy with yourself you cannot expect someone else to be able to make you happy. Happiness comes from within. Tue, 19 Feb 2008 23:27:34 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_The_First_Steps_1219186x1203481654.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_The_First_Steps_1219186x1203481654.htm With the statistics showing that divorce is at an all time high the level of support for divorcees has skyrocketed to help people get through this very difficult time in their lives and find a way to move on. Unfortunately that level of support is extremely skewed to help women, not men dealing with divorce! So with divorce support for men so low what does a man after divorce do? Or perhaps more importantly what should they not do! Tue, 19 Feb 2008 03:46:57 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Support_for_Men_-_Dealing_With_Divorce_and_Separation_1088120x1203410817.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Support_for_Men_-_Dealing_With_Divorce_and_Separation_1088120x1203410817.htm A very positive effect of a father's influence in a child's life is one of a child learning how to be compassionate, loving and able to empathize and help others. It is very unfortunate that many women lack these essential qualities probably from bad upbringing themselves. How selfish can they be to think that they created these children alone? Mon, 18 Feb 2008 08:11:49 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Children_Needs_Their_Fathers_Too_1118739x1203340309.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Children_Needs_Their_Fathers_Too_1118739x1203340309.htm Too many children are abused, sexually assaulted, or murdered by custodial mom's new boyfriend or husband. And in many of these tragedies, the biological father is being denied visitation with the children. Visitation which could reveal the abuse. Visitation which the child could reveal what's happening. Sun, 17 Feb 2008 16:52:43 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Fathers_Rights_-_Protecting_Children_During_Separation_And_Divorce_1251558x1203285163.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Fathers_Rights_-_Protecting_Children_During_Separation_And_Divorce_1251558x1203285163.htm You love your child with all your heart. So does your evil other. Grow up or be aware you are creating an emotionally stunted human being who won't learn love and sharing because she didn't have parents mature enough to love her more than their own ego. Grow up. For the sake of your greatest creation. Sat, 16 Feb 2008 02:58:33 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/It_Matters_Less_To_Your_Child_Which_Parent_She_Is_With_At_Special_Times_-_Grow_Up_1313921x1203148713.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/It_Matters_Less_To_Your_Child_Which_Parent_She_Is_With_At_Special_Times_-_Grow_Up_1313921x1203148713.htm Have you ever wondered how much to let your kids know about your dating? Are you wondering how to balance time with your kids and date life? Read on for specific tips... Fri, 15 Feb 2008 16:12:35 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_How_Much_Should_Your_Kids_Know_About_Your_Dating_1498763x1203109955.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_How_Much_Should_Your_Kids_Know_About_Your_Dating_1498763x1203109955.htm The absolute best way to prevail in a custody dispute, especially if the dispute moves toward an evaluation, is to emphasize all of your good traits as a parent, even if still in the courtroom. At the same time, it is equally important to down-play any attempt to make the other parent look unfit. Fri, 15 Feb 2008 12:38:28 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Custody_-_Alienation_in_Custody_Battles_1263501x1203097108.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Custody_-_Alienation_in_Custody_Battles_1263501x1203097108.htm There is no single more powerful stumbling block to moving beyond our divorce into a new life than the inability to accept our new reality. Acceptance is the hardest part of the divorce recovery process. Acceptance requires total honesty, courage and the willingness to let go of the life that we had...a life that no longer exists. Without that acceptance, we cannot move forward and create a new life. Tue, 12 Feb 2008 18:01:43 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Moving_On_After_Your_Divorce_1513188x1202857303.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Moving_On_After_Your_Divorce_1513188x1202857303.htm Making healthy, careful dating choices will help greatly contribute to the healing process for your entire family. Here are the five tips experts wish divorced parents knew about dating: Sat, 09 Feb 2008 19:03:33 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/5_Rules_For_Parents_Dating_After_Divorce_1095915x1202601813.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/5_Rules_For_Parents_Dating_After_Divorce_1095915x1202601813.htm Everyone wants their step family to feel comfortable. Few people know specific steps they can take to help that process along. Read on to learn one of the most important... Sat, 09 Feb 2008 05:49:59 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Success_-_A_Key_Element_in_Helping_Your_New_Step_Family_Grow_Close_1507895x1202554199.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Success_-_A_Key_Element_in_Helping_Your_New_Step_Family_Grow_Close_1507895x1202554199.htm Being divorced leaves a bad taste in the mouth for the thought of marriage and that all allusive idea of romance and love. What about love? Do we ever really have it? Is there something that others are doing to find it? These questions haunt the mind of singles everywhere. Never fear singles - you might be doing better than you think! Fri, 08 Feb 2008 17:38:25 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Is_Marriage_The_Greener_On_The_Other_Side_Of_The_Fence_1219187x1202510305.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Is_Marriage_The_Greener_On_The_Other_Side_Of_The_Fence_1219187x1202510305.htm Going through a divorce is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. The hurt and pain is enormous. However, the best revenge you can have is building a life that you've always dreamed of! Tue, 29 Jan 2008 11:46:23 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Advice_-_How_To_Get_Even_With_Your_Ex_To_Survive_Your_Divorce_987195x1201625183.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Advice_-_How_To_Get_Even_With_Your_Ex_To_Survive_Your_Divorce_987195x1201625183.htm Forgiveness is the doorway to healing and reconciliation with God and with yourself. One of life's greatest challenges is to forgive someone. They may not deserve it, but it is the only way that you can be healed from the hurt. Sun, 27 Jan 2008 22:03:55 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Using_the_F_Word_on_Your_Ex_881422x1201489435.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Using_the_F_Word_on_Your_Ex_881422x1201489435.htm Let's talk about money because it is a subject a Fort Lauderdale child custody attorney loves. Attorneys will ask you to sign a fee agreement. Ethically, they have to have a fee agreements with their clients. Sat, 26 Jan 2008 22:37:37 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Fort_Lauderdale_Child_Custody_Attorney_-_Necessary_or_Not_1505942x1201405057.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Fort_Lauderdale_Child_Custody_Attorney_-_Necessary_or_Not_1505942x1201405057.htm Dating after divorce will cause varied reactions from your children. Knowing and preparing for these is as essential to the dating process for you as a parent as picking up the phone and asking someone out. This reaction isn't something that YOU'VE caused, but you're still going to have to deal with. Want to know more? Read on. Sat, 26 Jan 2008 05:09:41 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_You_Arent_To_Blame_For_This_One_When_You_Choose_to_Date_1370946x1201342181.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dating_After_Divorce_-_You_Arent_To_Blame_For_This_One_When_You_Choose_to_Date_1370946x1201342181.htm This can be quite a task if you do not have any known references. In that case, you can browse the Internet to search for a reputed online family lawyer. Wed, 23 Jan 2008 14:39:36 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Custody_Lawyer_-_Works_To_Your_Advantage!_1258168x1201117176.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Child_Custody_Lawyer_-_Works_To_Your_Advantage!_1258168x1201117176.htm Divorce is a critical period of one's life, full of pain and anguish. It greatly affects the lives and is a destabilizing event for all people involved. The court's legal judgment gives the divorce verdict pertaining to dissolution, property, support and custody of the children. Tue, 22 Jan 2008 19:28:59 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_is_Pain_and_Anguish!_What_About_Life_After_Divorce_1508321x1201048139.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_is_Pain_and_Anguish!_What_About_Life_After_Divorce_1508321x1201048139.htm Are you having child custody issues? Whenever there is a divorce or child separation agreement at hand, there can be numerous disagreements when it comes to how much time the children will spend with either parent, what days will work best for the parents' changing lifestyles or how much money will the child support payments be. Since the relationship between the parents at this time is typically rather tumultuous, child custody mediation is sometimes the only effective solution available. Tue, 22 Jan 2008 09:40:05 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Moms_Need_to_Know_About_Child_Custody_Mediation_1502606x1201012805.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Moms_Need_to_Know_About_Child_Custody_Mediation_1502606x1201012805.htm Child custody issues that moms need to know about. Courts have changed their laws on what determines custody. Make sure you're armed with the right information before you go into your child custody battle. Sun, 20 Jan 2008 13:11:09 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Women_Must_Know_About_Child_Custody_Issues_1502601x1200852669.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Women_Must_Know_About_Child_Custody_Issues_1502601x1200852669.htm Visitation is often the most contentious issue divorced parents have to deal with. Visitation is often the only remaining control mechanism divorced parents have over each other. Creating a detailed visitation agreement, as part of the divorce process, can help prevent years of stressful encounters and prove beneficial to both parents and their children. Tue, 15 Jan 2008 14:05:25 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Visitation_Agreements_-_A_Critical_Part_Of_The_Divorce_Process_1358859x1200423925.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Visitation_Agreements_-_A_Critical_Part_Of_The_Divorce_Process_1358859x1200423925.htm The parent's desires and claims are secondary when determining the "best interest of the child." Furthermore, the parent's wishes are only important in so much as these wishes answer the question of what would serve the best interests of the child. The Texas Family code provides that "the best interest of the child shall always be the primary consideration of the court in determining the issues of conservatorship and possession of and access to the child." Mon, 14 Jan 2008 17:04:27 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Best_Interests_of_The_Child_1513060x1200348267.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Best_Interests_of_The_Child_1513060x1200348267.htm Knowing this little secret may keep your sex life vibrant for years to come... Your sex life in a remarriage is just as important as it was in your first marriage. Sat, 12 Jan 2008 04:42:47 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Sex_in_Remarriage_-_What_Do_Hunters_&_Gardens_Have_To_Do_With_My_Sex_Life_792218x1200130967.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Sex_in_Remarriage_-_What_Do_Hunters_&_Gardens_Have_To_Do_With_My_Sex_Life_792218x1200130967.htm There are many steps to achieving a remarriage success! Read on to learn one of the most important ones to take early on... Tue, 08 Jan 2008 16:24:43 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_This_Is_The_Key_to_A_Happy_Remarriage_819617x1199827483.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_This_Is_The_Key_to_A_Happy_Remarriage_819617x1199827483.htm Weary from people telling you that you should just forget and forgive your ex and move on with your life? Frustrated by how easy that sounds, but how difficult it is to do? Would you like a new way to "let go" of your ex without feeling you have absolved him or her for what he or she did to you? This article shows you a new way to deal with forgiveness that works without compromising your values or minimizing your experience. Sun, 06 Jan 2008 14:30:50 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_&_Forgiveness_-_Busting_the_Myth_of_the_Traditional_Understanding_of_Forgiveness_951621x1199647850.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_&_Forgiveness_-_Busting_the_Myth_of_the_Traditional_Understanding_of_Forgiveness_951621x1199647850.htm Divorce brings new fears, feelings and frets. As the new year approaches, don't let it pass you by. New Year's resolutions are famous this time of year, so why not focus on making the most of this time of year and choose a worthwhile resolution. Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:31:27 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Beyond_Divorce_-_New_Years_Resolutions_for_Life_After_Divorce_1305610x1199597487.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Beyond_Divorce_-_New_Years_Resolutions_for_Life_After_Divorce_1305610x1199597487.htm Don't dread your first Christmas alone. Ideas for enjoying Christmas as a single person. Sat, 05 Jan 2008 09:23:01 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Survive_Your_First_Christmas_Alone_1095914x1199542981.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Survive_Your_First_Christmas_Alone_1095914x1199542981.htm Recently divorced or leaving a long relationship? This article discusses some of the issues facing people re-entering the dating market. Sat, 05 Jan 2008 09:18:26 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Getting_Back_Into_Dating_Get_The_Heads_Up!_1212433x1199542706.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Getting_Back_Into_Dating_Get_The_Heads_Up!_1212433x1199542706.htm Being a stepmother is a unique role. Avoid the biggest mistakes by focusing on what you can do. Thu, 03 Jan 2008 21:46:21 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_3_Best_Things_You_Can_Do_as_a_Stepmother_1088119x1199414781.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_3_Best_Things_You_Can_Do_as_a_Stepmother_1088119x1199414781.htm When a relationship ends there is an important transition from partners to parents. This can be an awkward and painful process that is not always easy to manage. You will be creating a new way of relating to each other at a difficult time. Empathy and patience is needed along with a commitment to clear boundaries. Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:38:38 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/From_Partners_To_Parents_-_Relating_To_Your_Former_Partner_When_You_Have_Kids_702036x1199122718.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/From_Partners_To_Parents_-_Relating_To_Your_Former_Partner_When_You_Have_Kids_702036x1199122718.htm Don't feel out of place in the dating scene if you've just recently gone through a divorce. There are many helpful dating tips for divorced men that can help a guy learn how to approach women and have a great time in the process. Sun, 30 Dec 2007 08:30:14 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Helpful_Tips_For_Dating_After_Divorce_For_Men_1505156x1199021414.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Helpful_Tips_For_Dating_After_Divorce_For_Men_1505156x1199021414.htm Successful divorce recovery demands that we make many changes. Why, then, are we so universally reluctant to make the very changes that would improve our life after divorce? See why this happens and what we can do about it. Sat, 29 Dec 2007 22:45:06 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_&_Resistance_to_Change_-_How_to_Sabotage_Your_Divorce_Recovery_without_Even_Trying_1176622x1198986306.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_&_Resistance_to_Change_-_How_to_Sabotage_Your_Divorce_Recovery_without_Even_Trying_1176622x1198986306.htm A lot of people are put off by the term "step family" and have chosen to go with "blended family" instead. While that may seem more politically correct, there's a great danger with using that terminology. Let's take a look at why. Sat, 29 Dec 2007 03:04:44 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Blended_Family_or_Step_Family__The_Danger_of_the_Blender_705894x1198915484.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Blended_Family_or_Step_Family__The_Danger_of_the_Blender_705894x1198915484.htm In our ever-changing world of technology, changing economy and even the nuts and bolts of providing for a family, single parenting leaves us with unanswered questions. The best thing that any parent can do in raising their children is to give them a true picture of life by training them to sow seeds into their own future. Remember your children live in your home too and should contribute with or without pay. Fri, 28 Dec 2007 08:27:28 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/7_Steps_To_Single_Parent_Success_726407x1198848448.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/7_Steps_To_Single_Parent_Success_726407x1198848448.htm Who will typically be awarded child custody rights? And who else can be considered for child custody rights? Children can go to an array of individuals, including the parents, step-parents, grandparents and other legal guardians. Fri, 28 Dec 2007 05:59:55 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_You_Know_Your_Child_Custody_Rights_1502612x1198839595.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Do_You_Know_Your_Child_Custody_Rights_1502612x1198839595.htm An article describing how to bounce back from a separation or divorce and find yourself the ideal partner. The emphasis is on action and discovering what went wrong last time so you don't repeat the same mistakes again. Thu, 27 Dec 2007 00:38:26 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Second_Time_Around_-_How_To_Meet_The_Right_Person_961699x1198733906.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Second_Time_Around_-_How_To_Meet_The_Right_Person_961699x1198733906.htm Your relationship ended through breakup or divorce. You put the past behind you and you're eager to date again. But are you really sure you're ready? Play it safe and see if you are truly dating material yet. You are ready to date again if... Wed, 26 Dec 2007 04:27:34 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Quick_Tips_to_Be_Sure_Youre_Ready_to_Date_Again_1055869x1198661254.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Quick_Tips_to_Be_Sure_Youre_Ready_to_Date_Again_1055869x1198661254.htm If you're in the middle of a separation, you need to understand about child family law in your state and how it will impact you. You need to know what it entails and how best to deal with difficult situations that arise. Mon, 24 Dec 2007 11:09:54 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Moms_Need_to_Know_About_Child_Family_Law_1502616x1198512594.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Moms_Need_to_Know_About_Child_Family_Law_1502616x1198512594.htm Following your divorce you need to go through a "grieving" process. Your ex may not have died but the marriage has and you need some time to adjust. Several of the people I spoke to found it hard to adjust to being single again. Mon, 24 Dec 2007 07:16:36 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Following_Your_Divorce_779578x1198498596.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Following_Your_Divorce_779578x1198498596.htm This articles gives advice and tips on how to recover from a separation or divorce. It discusses why you should get back into dating and suggests how; it also offers practical advice on changes to make to your life in order to get back on your feet. Wed, 19 Dec 2007 18:40:18 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Picking_Yourself_Up_-_Surviving_Separation_961700x1198107618.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Picking_Yourself_Up_-_Surviving_Separation_961700x1198107618.htm One of the most frequent questions that fathers have is when should they try to get custody of the kids back? Do they have to wait a certain period of time? Do they have to prove mom is "unfit" to get custody? When can they go to court for their children? When is the right time to enforce a father's rights? Wed, 19 Dec 2007 17:34:46 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Fathers_Rights_-_When_Should_You_Change_Custody_896055x1198103686.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Fathers_Rights_-_When_Should_You_Change_Custody_896055x1198103686.htm Trying to get your ex back can be a stressful experience. There are however quite a few things that are in your control. If you make sure you take steps to maximize your chances and minimize the stress, you will have much better chances to succeed and make your efforts more pleasant. Wed, 19 Dec 2007 10:31:58 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Tips_for_How_to_Get_Your_Ex_Back_Without_Losing_Your_Sanity_659550x1198078318.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Tips_for_How_to_Get_Your_Ex_Back_Without_Losing_Your_Sanity_659550x1198078318.htm What is a good legal performance for your Fort Worth Class Divorce child custody lawyer? I don't want to sound like I am passing the buck, but you need to consult a legal expert on this subject to get the best answer. I sued an attorney in my lifetime and frankly finding an attorney with the courage to do it was difficult. Mon, 17 Dec 2007 13:40:09 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Fort_Worth_Class_Divorce_Child_Custody_-_Are_You_A_Priority_1505949x1197916809.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Fort_Worth_Class_Divorce_Child_Custody_-_Are_You_A_Priority_1505949x1197916809.htm Are you sometimes overwhelmed by everything you have lost in your divorce? Have you ever wondered if you will ever get passed the grief and get on with your life? It doesn't have to be this way! Read why the picture is almost always rosier than it feels. Mon, 03 Dec 2007 18:32:37 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_and_Loss_-_What_Is_the_Secret_To_Grieving_The_Losses_Caused_By_Divorce_673926x1196724757.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_and_Loss_-_What_Is_the_Secret_To_Grieving_The_Losses_Caused_By_Divorce_673926x1196724757.htm Exploring some little known issues regarding being a stepmother. Mon, 03 Dec 2007 04:03:41 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/3_Reasons_Why_Becoming_a_Stepmother_is_a_Terrible_Idea_667120x1196672621.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/3_Reasons_Why_Becoming_a_Stepmother_is_a_Terrible_Idea_667120x1196672621.htm You ladies out there who still believe that you will always love him, trust me on this, YOU WILL NOT. You are not Whitney Houston! You will not always love him, not least because you probably don't actually love him now. We both know he's not worth it. It's just that the hurt and the pain and all the emotional energy you invested in him make for a very powerful tie. And we tend to assume that all powerful ties must be love. Mon, 03 Dec 2007 02:01:50 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Do_You_Know_That_Isnt_So_640844x1196665310.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/What_Do_You_Know_That_Isnt_So_640844x1196665310.htm Divorce brings with it a lot of changes, which usually includes a real sense of loss for children. Kids - and parents - grieve the loss of the kind of family they had hoped for, and children especially grieve the loss of the presence of a parent. Helping your children deal with stress will help to make the transition through the divorce process less difficult. Mourning the loss of a family is normal, but over time both you and your child will come to some sort of acceptance of the changed circumstances. Wed, 28 Nov 2007 14:12:02 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Brings_Changes_634344x1196277122.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Brings_Changes_634344x1196277122.htm Sisters are doing it for themselves! Mon, 26 Nov 2007 13:27:24 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Before_There_Was_Wall_Street,_There_Was_Gold.._&__when_Wall_Street_is_gone,_there_will_still_be_Gold_737694x1196101644.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Before_There_Was_Wall_Street,_There_Was_Gold.._&__when_Wall_Street_is_gone,_there_will_still_be_Gold_737694x1196101644.htm One of the most important steps that divorced parents can take before getting remarried is to let go of the strong emotions from their divorce. These are the emotions that hold us prisoners to our thoughts. Mon, 26 Nov 2007 12:51:45 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_Are_You_Stuck_or_Moving_Forward_702035x1196099505.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_Are_You_Stuck_or_Moving_Forward_702035x1196099505.htm Learn a key factor in remaining satisfied in your step family. Ignoring this frequently will lead to unhappiness and thoughts of wanting out! Sun, 25 Nov 2007 07:12:11 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Creation_-_An_Important_Step_in_Being_Happy_in_Your_Step_Family_779577x1195992731.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Creation_-_An_Important_Step_in_Being_Happy_in_Your_Step_Family_779577x1195992731.htm Turn Your Desperation Into A List Of Missing Things. Sat, 24 Nov 2007 22:20:23 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Win_Back_Ex_-_Desperation_Will_Not_Help_Much_634341x1195960823.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Win_Back_Ex_-_Desperation_Will_Not_Help_Much_634341x1195960823.htm Author talks about his post-divorce move out of state and his first foray into the world of internet dating, following the advice of a close friend Sat, 17 Nov 2007 12:18:18 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/After_The_Divorce_-_My_First_Experience_With_Internet_Dating_910821x1195319898.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/After_The_Divorce_-_My_First_Experience_With_Internet_Dating_910821x1195319898.htm When you have children, it's never over where the Ex is concerned. A few months ago my partners mother came to visit us from out of state. We were relating our most recent difficulties that we were having with my partners Ex wife. Mon, 12 Nov 2007 03:45:09 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dealing_With_the_Ex_Spouse_786630x1194857109.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dealing_With_the_Ex_Spouse_786630x1194857109.htm When a couple re-marries it is their hope that they and their children adjust without too much difficulty. This article has been designed to highlight the mistakes that some people make in their attempts to bring two families together. Sun, 11 Nov 2007 10:50:23 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step-Family_Survival_-_Ten_Surefire_Ways_to_Ensure_that_Your_Blended_Family_Does_Not_Gel_792219x1194796223.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step-Family_Survival_-_Ten_Surefire_Ways_to_Ensure_that_Your_Blended_Family_Does_Not_Gel_792219x1194796223.htm A remarriage brings with it many demands on your time. Finding a way to balance all of this is imperative in order to achieve a Remarriage Success. Read on to find out how... Sun, 11 Nov 2007 10:23:24 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_How_Do_I_Make_Time_For_Everything_That_Needs_To_Be_Done_636472x1194794604.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_How_Do_I_Make_Time_For_Everything_That_Needs_To_Be_Done_636472x1194794604.htm When a marriage ends in divorce dating again can be quite uncomfortable... In the beginning. After having been out of the dating scene for possibly years you may be somewhat intimidated about getting back in the game. Thu, 08 Nov 2007 06:37:19 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Get_Back_Into_Dating_After_A_Divorce_649261x1194521839.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Get_Back_Into_Dating_After_A_Divorce_649261x1194521839.htm Have you ever watched the geese flying south for the winter or returning in the spring? You can learn many secrets to recovering from a divorce by watching the geese. Here are five that can help you recover. I know they work. They helped me get through it. First, geese never fly alone. You need to be with others when you are working to recover from a divorce. Flying alone is hard work - too hard for most of us. Tue, 06 Nov 2007 21:24:02 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Want_A_Successful_Recovery_From_Divorce_Fly_With_The_Geese!_691484x1194402242.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Want_A_Successful_Recovery_From_Divorce_Fly_With_The_Geese!_691484x1194402242.htm When there is a divorce it is often the grandchildren that are lost in the shuffle. Read on to find out how to make sure you are still able to see your grandchildren after your son or daughter gets a divorce. Tue, 06 Nov 2007 17:20:22 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Will_You_Still_Be_Able_To_See_Your_Grandchildren_After_The_Divorce_638386x1194387622.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Will_You_Still_Be_Able_To_See_Your_Grandchildren_After_The_Divorce_638386x1194387622.htm Do you want to learn one of the least understood differences between a first and second marriage? Well, read on..... Sun, 04 Nov 2007 01:09:09 -0500 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_Blood_is_Thicker_than_the_Remarriage_607626x1194156549.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_Blood_is_Thicker_than_the_Remarriage_607626x1194156549.htm Do you sometimes wonder if getting divorced was the right thing to do? Do you ever wonder if you should have tried to "make it work" just one more time? Don't worry, we all do. Discover why this happens, what it means, and how it impacts your efforts to make a recovery from divorce. Sat, 03 Nov 2007 11:14:35 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_&_Ambivalence_-_Why_Do_I_Have_Second_Thoughts_When_Im_Glad_I_Got_Divorced_649262x1194102875.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_&_Ambivalence_-_Why_Do_I_Have_Second_Thoughts_When_Im_Glad_I_Got_Divorced_649262x1194102875.htm Divorce recovery would be a lot easier if you could confront the challenging reality of recovering from divorce with confidence, courage, reassurance, and a true sense of direction, wouldn't it? Guess what? You can - and you don't even have to change a thing! Read this and see how. Tue, 30 Oct 2007 06:16:57 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_and_your_4_Hidden_Strengths_-_Get_the_Answer_to_How_Will_I_Ever_Get_Through_This_702034x1193739417.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_and_your_4_Hidden_Strengths_-_Get_the_Answer_to_How_Will_I_Ever_Get_Through_This_702034x1193739417.htm One reality with remarriage is that you may not be your partner's first spouse. Not dealing with this fact can have some real consequences for your new marriage. Learn some of the biggest mistakes people make in dealing with the ex! Sat, 20 Oct 2007 20:36:51 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_How_to_Manage_the_Ex_Factor_656025x1192927011.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_How_to_Manage_the_Ex_Factor_656025x1192927011.htm It's a funny observation that a friend of mine and I share though there is an underlying seriousness to it. We often jest that the quickest way to get married is to get divorced. We've noticed that unlike what one might expect - a lot of divorcees (especially women) seem in a hurry to find a permanent mate again. Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:31:04 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Mating_Game_-_Post_Divorce_643030x1192879864.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Mating_Game_-_Post_Divorce_643030x1192879864.htm Learn ab out this little thought of adjustment that needs to be made when you're combining your families... Wed, 17 Oct 2007 18:22:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Shuffles_-_What_About_the_Kids_Roles_Changing_638385x1192659760.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Shuffles_-_What_About_the_Kids_Roles_Changing_638385x1192659760.htm For whatever reason, be it a result of a divorce or relationship breakdown, change in career, move to a new city, or sorry to say perhaps the death of a loved one, you are starting life again and you want to get it right. Discover ways to not only cope but allow for growth as you embark on this new life. Sat, 13 Oct 2007 21:59:54 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Starting_Life_Again_-_Your_New_Life_for_Women_40_yrs_Plus_588900x1192327194.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Starting_Life_Again_-_Your_New_Life_for_Women_40_yrs_Plus_588900x1192327194.htm Losing a wife is a very difficult thing. It could be through something that you did wrong, or it just could have been a parting of the ways, but if you really want to win back your ex wife you need to start working on it now. Fri, 12 Oct 2007 05:17:36 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Win_Back_Your_Ex_Wife_588903x1192180656.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Win_Back_Your_Ex_Wife_588903x1192180656.htm There are many steps you will need to take between the time of your divorce and preparing for a remarriage. Read on to learn the best first step. Sat, 06 Oct 2007 00:23:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_The_First_Task_You_Need_to_Accomplish_Before_a_Remarriage_588899x1191644627.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_The_First_Task_You_Need_to_Accomplish_Before_a_Remarriage_588899x1191644627.htm While there's no real answer to this question, here are some important things to keep in mind.... Wed, 03 Oct 2007 17:49:44 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Soon_is_Too_Soon_to_Start_a_New_Relationship_After_a_Divorce_614391x1191448184.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_Soon_is_Too_Soon_to_Start_a_New_Relationship_After_a_Divorce_614391x1191448184.htm Being a step parent is a frustrating life position. But when your stepkids misbehave, is it really them, or do you have unrealistic expectations? Wed, 03 Oct 2007 03:19:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Parents_and_Misbehaving_Step_Kids-_Who_Is_Really_The_Problem_Part_Two_574192x1191395980.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Parents_and_Misbehaving_Step_Kids-_Who_Is_Really_The_Problem_Part_Two_574192x1191395980.htm After a divorce, taking the plunge to remarry can be a scary endeavor. Read on to learn some of the best ways to tell that both you and your partner are ready. Mon, 01 Oct 2007 17:19:36 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_How_Will_We_Know_When_Were_Ready_to_Remarry_569091x1191273576.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_How_Will_We_Know_When_Were_Ready_to_Remarry_569091x1191273576.htm There are so many challenges that come along with being a single parent, but one of the most difficult, is truly enjoying time with your children when there are so many other areas of chaos around you. Yet, while it is one of the most difficult, it is also one of the most important areas to focus on for you and your children. Mon, 01 Oct 2007 15:27:03 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Single_Parenting_With_a_Smile_602061x1191266823.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Single_Parenting_With_a_Smile_602061x1191266823.htm So many ex's blame each other. Only some are right. A factor they tend to overlook is the dwindling reasons to be married these days. We outsource most of the duties marriages used to entail. Sun, 30 Sep 2007 04:26:12 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Mid-Wife_Crisis:_Its_the_Economy,_Stupid_569092x1191140772.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Mid-Wife_Crisis:_Its_the_Economy,_Stupid_569092x1191140772.htm Divorce affects children in different ways. To find out the three things that you can do to help ensure a solid foundation for their future read on here. Fri, 28 Sep 2007 08:09:34 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Children_of_Divorce_-_3_Things_To_Help_Ensure_Your_Children_Are_Well-Adjusted_After_A_Divorce_602062x1190981374.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Children_of_Divorce_-_3_Things_To_Help_Ensure_Your_Children_Are_Well-Adjusted_After_A_Divorce_602062x1190981374.htm Memories are the glue that holds families together. Members of step families have known each other for varying lengths of time so the creation of these memories is essential. Learn how to do this... Fri, 28 Sep 2007 01:13:35 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce,_Remarriage_and_into_a_Step_Family_-_How_To_Create_Memories_That_Bond_588896x1190956415.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce,_Remarriage_and_into_a_Step_Family_-_How_To_Create_Memories_That_Bond_588896x1190956415.htm Remarriage is a big step. Make sure you're ready. Read on to learn one task that needs to be at the top of your "to do" list. Wed, 26 Sep 2007 01:30:49 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_Another_Step_to_Take_in_Preparing_to_Remarry_588898x1190784649.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_Another_Step_to_Take_in_Preparing_to_Remarry_588898x1190784649.htm Ever heard the term "loyalty bind" when talking about children and divorce? Learn how to help your child deal with this precarious position. Tue, 25 Sep 2007 11:33:57 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Relationships_-_How_to_Avoid_Getting_Bound_Up!_659551x1190734437.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_Relationships_-_How_to_Avoid_Getting_Bound_Up!_659551x1190734437.htm . . . what might happen if we took rejection into our open hands? What if we accepted it as a gift? What would happen if we opened it up as we would a gift wrapped in fine hand made paper and tied with velvet ribbon? How would our lives change if we viewed this gift of rejection as a treasure? Mon, 24 Sep 2007 07:09:39 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Rejection_Go_Ahead_and_Embrace_it!_622715x1190632179.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Rejection_Go_Ahead_and_Embrace_it!_622715x1190632179.htm Do you have problems with resenting the Ex? Is he or she out dating while your social life is non-existent? Here is a plan to get you over your bitterness and get you out dating. Wed, 19 Sep 2007 14:03:29 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Is_Your_Ex_Dating_597714x1190225009.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Is_Your_Ex_Dating_597714x1190225009.htm What can divorced parents do to raise well-balanced, emotionally-healthy kids? Tue, 18 Sep 2007 07:16:02 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Search_for_a_Good_Parenting_Tip_for_Divorced_Parents_569099x1190114162.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Search_for_a_Good_Parenting_Tip_for_Divorced_Parents_569099x1190114162.htm After your divorce it will be perfectly normal for you to have feelings of anger and resentment towards your former spouse. When there are children involved you will have to learn how to deal with these feelings. Read on to find out how to best handle the situations that are likely to arise after your divorce. Mon, 17 Sep 2007 14:45:50 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/After_Your_Divorce_-_How_To_Handle_Situations_With_Your_Children_After_You_Are_Divorced_597715x1190054750.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/After_Your_Divorce_-_How_To_Handle_Situations_With_Your_Children_After_You_Are_Divorced_597715x1190054750.htm How are the waters shaping you today? Are they moving gently so that the changes they create are hardly noticeable? Are they raging? Have they picked you up - perhaps against your will - to move you to a different and unknown place? Sun, 16 Sep 2007 15:11:46 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_-_The_Question_is_Not_Why,_But_How_-_Making_Choices_in_Transition_569096x1189969906.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_-_The_Question_is_Not_Why,_But_How_-_Making_Choices_in_Transition_569096x1189969906.htm Want to know what the most important task in making your step family strong is? Read on... Sat, 15 Sep 2007 19:00:30 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Sex_in_the_Remarriage_-_The_Most_Important_Ingredient_for_a_Strong_Step_Family_634342x1189897230.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Sex_in_the_Remarriage_-_The_Most_Important_Ingredient_for_a_Strong_Step_Family_634342x1189897230.htm Learn one of the main reasons why step families don't "gel" immediately and some tips to help you get started. While freshly remarried couples like to dream about how great their marriage and new family will be, they are frequently unrealistic in their expectations. Fri, 14 Sep 2007 20:13:00 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Families_-_A_Look_From_The_Inside_Out_640843x1189815180.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Families_-_A_Look_From_The_Inside_Out_640843x1189815180.htm As the wedding date approaches, find out what the most important thing to "pack" before the move is. A successful remarriage is tricky without it. Tue, 11 Sep 2007 09:55:56 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_What_Needs_to_Be_Packed_Away_Before_Your_Remarriage_588897x1189518956.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_What_Needs_to_Be_Packed_Away_Before_Your_Remarriage_588897x1189518956.htm 10 Important Dating Tips for Divorced Men who find themselves back in the singles scene once again. This is Part 2 which covers last 5 steps to help divorced men to start effectively dating single women again. Sun, 09 Sep 2007 01:00:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Dating_Tips_For_Divorced_Guys_-_Part_2_588902x1189314040.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/10_Dating_Tips_For_Divorced_Guys_-_Part_2_588902x1189314040.htm With all the changes that divorce brings, it's important for not only your children, but also for you to find ways to make life feel a little more normal. Want to find out how? Read on... Sat, 08 Sep 2007 08:38:29 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Living_Beyond_Divorce_-_How_to_Get_Life_Back_to_Normal_After_a_Divorce_634343x1189255109.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Living_Beyond_Divorce_-_How_to_Get_Life_Back_to_Normal_After_a_Divorce_634343x1189255109.htm Learn how to prevent your spouse from reacting defensively or with hostility when you make a suggestion or observation about the children, their behavior, or the parent's discipline methods. Tue, 04 Sep 2007 17:32:00 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Stepparent_Communication:_Why_Your_Spouse_Wont_Listen_to_What_You_Say_About_the_Kids_569089x1188941520.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Stepparent_Communication:_Why_Your_Spouse_Wont_Listen_to_What_You_Say_About_the_Kids_569089x1188941520.htm A woman explains how she regained her confidence in herself and God after an unwanted divorce. Sun, 02 Sep 2007 23:39:31 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_Can_Thrive_-_Even_After_Divorce_588901x1188790771.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Life_Can_Thrive_-_Even_After_Divorce_588901x1188790771.htm A remarriage isn't just about a wedding and a couple. It's the bringing together of families. This is much different than what happens in a first marriage. Learn some of the most important steps you need to take in creating this new family. Thu, 30 Aug 2007 20:20:11 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_To_Remarriage_To_Step_Family_-_What_Do_We_Need_To_Know_About_Being_A_Part_Of_A_Step_Family_588895x1188519611.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_To_Remarriage_To_Step_Family_-_What_Do_We_Need_To_Know_About_Being_A_Part_Of_A_Step_Family_588895x1188519611.htm Rebuilding after divorce does not have to be a hair pulling experience. Contrary to popular belief it can happen a little each day and it can be something you look forward to with anticipation. The experience can be exhilarating. Thu, 30 Aug 2007 07:43:38 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/5_Tips_On_Rebuilding_After_Divorce_569094x1188474218.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/5_Tips_On_Rebuilding_After_Divorce_569094x1188474218.htm A remarriage frequently brings with it children, thus creating "instant" family. Learn how this affects the growith of your couple relationship. Sat, 25 Aug 2007 08:29:05 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Realities_-_How_the_Instant_Family_Affects_the_Marriage_607625x1188044945.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Realities_-_How_the_Instant_Family_Affects_the_Marriage_607625x1188044945.htm What if you are not a dead-beat dad? In all honesty, any parent who does not have custody of their kids looks and feels like a dead-beat dad. Popular opinion supports this. Sat, 25 Aug 2007 06:38:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Whats_Best_For_The_Children_569090x1188038301.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Whats_Best_For_The_Children_569090x1188038301.htm The road to healing after divorce is not easy, but it's where you find yourself. Emotions are banged up, people have been hurt, and now you find yourself alone. The good news is, healing has already started. It may not seem like it now but it is true. There are some things you can do to make sure that healing continues and complete. Thu, 23 Aug 2007 17:46:03 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Road_To_Healing_After_Divorce,_4_Tips_569095x1187905563.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Road_To_Healing_After_Divorce,_4_Tips_569095x1187905563.htm Are you reeling from a recent divorce? Did you just find out that your wife is gay and is moving out to be with her lover? Do you feel that the misery you feel right now will always be with you? I understand. I felt like that once too. Tue, 21 Aug 2007 06:21:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_-_Will_the_Pain_Last_Forever_569101x1187691707.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_-_Will_the_Pain_Last_Forever_569101x1187691707.htm Want to find out if love is enough to sustain you through the trials of a remarriage and creation of a step family? Read on to find out... Mon, 13 Aug 2007 11:14:22 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_Is_Love_Enough_572965x1187018062.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_Is_Love_Enough_572965x1187018062.htm Who do you select to help you through the divorce recovery process? Find out why the typical first choices will not be helpful. Find out who can actually help walk you through your recovery. Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:28:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_And_Social_Support_-_Everyone_Needs_A_Change_Buddy_In_Their_Recovery_From_Divorce_559184x1185866920.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_And_Social_Support_-_Everyone_Needs_A_Change_Buddy_In_Their_Recovery_From_Divorce_559184x1185866920.htm Ever thought you couldn't learn something from a movie? Read on to learn an important nugget of wisdom on how to handle your ex-spouse dating someone else. Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:22:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_&_Remarriage_-_What_Not_to_Do_When_Youre_Ex-Spouse_Begins_Dating_569093x1185866563.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Family_&_Remarriage_-_What_Not_to_Do_When_Youre_Ex-Spouse_Begins_Dating_569093x1185866563.htm Are you in the midst of incredible emotional pain? Has your world been turned upside down by divorce, loss or job transition? The ancients have an important message for you. Mon, 30 Jul 2007 21:50:49 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Secrets_Of_The_Ancients_-_Part_1_559171x1185846649.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Secrets_Of_The_Ancients_-_Part_1_559171x1185846649.htm An earthquake however gives little or no warning. When it is least expected, it hits. There is no time to run and even more there is no place to run. The very ground on which you stand is no longer secure. Mon, 30 Jul 2007 10:50:04 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/3_Strategies_for_Coping_with_the_Emotional_Earthquake_of_Divorce_569104x1185807004.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/3_Strategies_for_Coping_with_the_Emotional_Earthquake_of_Divorce_569104x1185807004.htm Just because you are divorced, does not mean your life is over. Divorce can shred your emotions and turn your life upside down. It affects the way you look at yourself. If your not careful you can begin to believe your life is over. Sometimes your imagination can get the best of you and cause you to wonder if there is any purpose any more. Mon, 30 Jul 2007 07:31:43 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Divorce_is_Over_But_You_Arent_569097x1185795103.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Divorce_is_Over_But_You_Arent_569097x1185795103.htm You were born to dance! It was a gift given you before you were born. If you have lost the music and stopped dancing, what would life be life if you started listening again? What would change for you if you started to dance again? Sun, 29 Jul 2007 14:08:57 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Have_You_Forgotten_The_Music_559204x1185732537.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Have_You_Forgotten_The_Music_559204x1185732537.htm Do you feel buffeted by forces you can't control while trying to make your recovery from divorce? Inside discover how your personal principles provide a stable compass that keeps you on course despite the chaos and distractions that are associated with divorce recovery. Sat, 28 Jul 2007 14:48:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_And_Personal_Principles_-_Maintain_Direction_During_The_Chaos_Of_Divorce_Recovery_559185x1185648501.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_And_Personal_Principles_-_Maintain_Direction_During_The_Chaos_Of_Divorce_Recovery_559185x1185648501.htm The divorce is final and it hits you like a ton of bricks, where is everybody. You feel like everyone is looking at you funny, and you put your guard up. After all, who in their right mind wants to get hurt, again. Let's face it, you can feel all alone, and like nobody cares. Tue, 24 Jul 2007 17:16:41 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_And_Loneliness_5_Ways_To_Snap_Out_Of_It_569098x1185311801.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_And_Loneliness_5_Ways_To_Snap_Out_Of_It_569098x1185311801.htm If you are divorced your time with your children is limited. Are you spending "quality time" or "quantity time" with them? Read on to discover how this affects your relationship with your children. Tue, 24 Jul 2007 09:14:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Quality_Time_Or_Quantity_Time_-_How_Do_You_Choose_To_Spend_Time_With_Your_Children_559202x1185282880.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Quality_Time_Or_Quantity_Time_-_How_Do_You_Choose_To_Spend_Time_With_Your_Children_559202x1185282880.htm Are you concerned you may not be able to handle your divorce recovery successfully? Find out why that is nonsense. And uncover the treasure chest of confidence you may not even know you have that will help deliver a smooth recovery from divorce. Sun, 22 Jul 2007 18:26:17 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_And_Blessings_In_Disguise-_Find_The_Confidence_For_Making_A_Smooth_Divorce_Recovery_569100x1185143177.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_And_Blessings_In_Disguise-_Find_The_Confidence_For_Making_A_Smooth_Divorce_Recovery_569100x1185143177.htm Are you thinking about getting remarried? Make sure you're doing it for the right reasons... Sun, 22 Jul 2007 15:24:21 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_One_Way_to_Know_Youre_Not_Ready_to_Remarry_569088x1185132261.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_One_Way_to_Know_Youre_Not_Ready_to_Remarry_569088x1185132261.htm Life after divorce is not only possible, it is an everyday reality for people. I use to have an old car, that needed a jump start to get it going. Once it got going it was just fine. Isn't that the way life is? Sometimes we just need a jump start to get going again. Divorce can absolutely drain your battery. It is hard to get started again. Sat, 21 Jul 2007 09:36:32 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/5_Tips_To_Life_After_Divorce_559182x1185024992.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/5_Tips_To_Life_After_Divorce_559182x1185024992.htm Surviving Infidelity:- As much as we pray for a happily ever after ending when it comes to relationship, sometimes bad luck would just steer towards you and infidelity is almost unavoidable to the life of some of us. What happen has happen, this is the first thing everyone should realise whenever they are trying or struggling to deal with infidelity as there would be absolutely no benefits when someone tries to cling on to the past. Wed, 18 Jul 2007 13:45:10 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Survive_Infidelity_-_Untold_Secrets_to_Recovering_From_Infidelity_&_Affair_Successfully_559193x1184780710.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_to_Survive_Infidelity_-_Untold_Secrets_to_Recovering_From_Infidelity_&_Affair_Successfully_559193x1184780710.htm Want to find out all the WRONG ways of trying to put a step family together? Learn these mistakes now in order to prevent them or to start correcting things immediately. A happy step family is possible, find out how... Tue, 17 Jul 2007 22:45:05 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Families_&_Remarriage_-_Great_Ways_to_Ruin_a_Step_Family_559212x1184726705.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step_Families_&_Remarriage_-_Great_Ways_to_Ruin_a_Step_Family_559212x1184726705.htm Everyday there is a breakup, a divorce, or other painful emotional disconnections from loved ones. Everyday many hearts are breaking. Many are losing sight of their purpose in life. They say just can't help themselves. Mon, 16 Jul 2007 09:57:35 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Overcoming_A_Break_Up_-_Get_Your_Life_Back_569102x1184594255.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Overcoming_A_Break_Up_-_Get_Your_Life_Back_569102x1184594255.htm Healing is not the easiest part of divorce, but it does happen. It might be easier to heal after being run over by a steam roller then it after divorce. At least that's the way most people feel. What if there were a way to speed up the healing process? What if you could get started today? This is going beyond intentions, and into action. There are some things you can do that will move the healing process forward. Sun, 15 Jul 2007 01:08:02 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_And_Healing,_3_Tips_559180x1184476082.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_And_Healing,_3_Tips_559180x1184476082.htm It is tough when a long-term marriage breaks up but harbouring feelings of bitterness does not serve you well. These negative feelings prolong the agony and hold you back from rebuilding your life. Instead, why not redesign your life? Sat, 14 Jul 2007 22:31:42 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Redesigning_Your_Life_After_Divorce_599592x1184466702.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Redesigning_Your_Life_After_Divorce_599592x1184466702.htm After your divorce you may be tempted to continue having sexual relations with your ex-husband. Read on to find the 3 reasons that you may be likely to do this. Tue, 10 Jul 2007 04:16:39 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Sex_With_Your_Ex-Husband_-_3_Reasons_Why_It_May_Seem_Like_A_Good_Idea_To_Have_Sex_With_Your_Ex_559196x1184055399.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Sex_With_Your_Ex-Husband_-_3_Reasons_Why_It_May_Seem_Like_A_Good_Idea_To_Have_Sex_With_Your_Ex_559196x1184055399.htm Now, I am not trying to jump back into anything serious and I don't want to rush into anything either. However, I really like this woman and want to get to know her better and she already knows I am going through a divorce. Can you give me some tips on subtle ways I can let her know that I am interested in her as more than just a friend? Sun, 08 Jul 2007 23:51:09 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Rushing_Things_With_Another_Woman_When_You_Are_Getting_A_Divorce_414512x1183953069.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Rushing_Things_With_Another_Woman_When_You_Are_Getting_A_Divorce_414512x1183953069.htm When people break up they tend to stay angry, bitter and hurt. Read on to find the 3 reasons it is a good idea to stay friendly with your ex-husband or ex-wife. Sun, 08 Jul 2007 16:24:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Staying_Friends_With_Your_Ex_-_3_Reasons_to_Stay_Friendly_With_an_Ex-Husband_or_Ex-Wife_413411x1183926287.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Staying_Friends_With_Your_Ex_-_3_Reasons_to_Stay_Friendly_With_an_Ex-Husband_or_Ex-Wife_413411x1183926287.htm Healing a broken heart and moving on after a relationship break up or divorce is something that can take time but time is not the only factor in the healing process. There are some other things that you can do to help yourself recover and move on with your life. Here are 3 ways to begin your healing process and get on with your life. Sun, 08 Jul 2007 01:37:01 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/3_Ways_to_Begin_Healing_After_a_Relationship_Break_Up_or_Divorce_559175x1183873021.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/3_Ways_to_Begin_Healing_After_a_Relationship_Break_Up_or_Divorce_559175x1183873021.htm Learn why it is difficult for Stepparents and their spouses to have a productive discussion about the children. Thu, 05 Jul 2007 13:33:56 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Stepparents_and_Loving_Their_Stepchildren_-_Why_Its_Just_Not_the_Same_559194x1183656836.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Stepparents_and_Loving_Their_Stepchildren_-_Why_Its_Just_Not_the_Same_559194x1183656836.htm Do you want insider secrets as to what kids are hoping for from a step father? Well search no further! Read on to hear from kid's perspectives what they fear and what they want. Tue, 03 Jul 2007 06:30:20 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_to_Step-Family_-_An_Insder_Perspective_on_How_to_Become_a_Great_Step-Father_559192x1183458620.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_to_Step-Family_-_An_Insder_Perspective_on_How_to_Become_a_Great_Step-Father_559192x1183458620.htm Is your recovery from divorce coming slower than you expected? Want to speed it up? Inside you will discover 7 crucial tips and tools for returning your life to normal ASAP. The result? A swift and smooth recovery from divorce. Tue, 03 Jul 2007 00:40:31 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_-_7_Tips_For_How_to_Make_a_Smooth_Recovery_From_Divorce_559190x1183437631.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_-_7_Tips_For_How_to_Make_a_Smooth_Recovery_From_Divorce_559190x1183437631.htm Your divorce is final, but it's not the end. In fact it's a new beginning. You have experienced tragedy and it seems like it's unbearable at times. The real tragedy is after divorce some people choose to hurt themselves more then the divorce itself. Others choose to live life to its fullest. A new beginning will revitalize your life. Mon, 02 Jul 2007 04:39:46 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_And_A_New_Beginning_559177x1183365586.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_And_A_New_Beginning_559177x1183365586.htm Divorce is a very painful experience. Even after some time has passed, the pain can be triggered back by anything that reminds you of your. It could be something as simple as hearing their favorite music on the radio. Even though things can get better with time, what you do with the time is determines how long your healing process is. Time is not the best healer, what we do with that time may be. Fri, 29 Jun 2007 10:02:47 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Mend_Your_Broken_Heart_559191x1183125767.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/How_To_Mend_Your_Broken_Heart_559191x1183125767.htm Uneasy about stepping into the unknown future that is the essence of divorce recovery? Inside you will discover where to find the courage to move forward in the face of the doubt and worry caused by going through recovery from divorce. Wed, 27 Jun 2007 01:04:57 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_&_the_5_Sources_of_Hope_-_How_to_Find_the_Courage_to_Make_a_Smooth_Divorce_Recovery_559186x1182920697.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_&_the_5_Sources_of_Hope_-_How_to_Find_the_Courage_to_Make_a_Smooth_Divorce_Recovery_559186x1182920697.htm While being angry after a divorce is normal, find out why too much of a good thing can set you back. Sun, 24 Jun 2007 13:01:12 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_Lose_the_Anger...Live_Your_Life_414517x1182704472.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_to_Remarriage_-_Lose_the_Anger...Live_Your_Life_414517x1182704472.htm A humorous look at undergarments and how to handle awkward situations with your ex that result from a pair of misplaced panties. Sat, 23 Jun 2007 16:45:10 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Far_Side_of_Perfect:__Mentioning_the_Unmentionables_521760x1182631510.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_Far_Side_of_Perfect:__Mentioning_the_Unmentionables_521760x1182631510.htm I get the "You are a really great guy and I really like you, but... (insert rejection here). I know there will be someone special out there for you." I'm getting tired of this and my ego is about as low as it can go. I've worked like crazy on the problems that contributed to my divorce, been in counseling. I want to have someone to go do things with, converse with, share my life with. Can you please explain what the heck is going on? Sat, 23 Jun 2007 03:43:54 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/You_Have_Changed_After_The_Divorce_And_Now_You_Cant_Attract_Women_559214x1182584634.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/You_Have_Changed_After_The_Divorce_And_Now_You_Cant_Attract_Women_559214x1182584634.htm Lots of people think about remarriage everyday. Read on to find out one of the worst reasons to consider it... Sat, 23 Jun 2007 03:09:45 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_Another_Way_to_Know_Youre_Not_Ready_to_Remarry_572966x1182582585.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Remarriage_Preparation_-_Another_Way_to_Know_Youre_Not_Ready_to_Remarry_572966x1182582585.htm Have you been waiting for time to heal your pain of divorce - but it is still there? Discover the myth of the healing powers of time and what do to instead of just "waiting it out" in order to create a smooth recovery from divorce. Thu, 21 Jun 2007 10:21:18 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_And_The_Myth_Of_Time_-_Time_Alone_Does_Not_Guarantee_A_Smooth_Recovery_From_Divorce_559187x1182435678.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Divorce_Recovery_And_The_Myth_Of_Time_-_Time_Alone_Does_Not_Guarantee_A_Smooth_Recovery_From_Divorce_559187x1182435678.htm As a deep spiritual man that is considered a prophet and mystic, I believe I have uncovered the truth about having a successful marriage that will not end in divorce. If you believe your marriage maybe headed towards a divorce or you are looking to repair a marriage, this article might just save your future. Thu, 21 Jun 2007 08:53:22 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/The_True_Secret_To_Having_A_Marriage_That_Will_Not_End_In_Divorce_569105x1182430402.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/The_True_Secret_To_Having_A_Marriage_That_Will_Not_End_In_Divorce_569105x1182430402.htm Want to know the answer to one of the most asked questions about step-parenting? Knowing this answer will help you combine your families effectively and let you actually enjoy the experience. Mon, 18 Jun 2007 17:27:44 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Step-Parenting_&_Step-Kids_-_Cant_Live_With_Them_-_Cant_LIVE_With_THEM!_470101x1182202064.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Step-Parenting_&_Step-Kids_-_Cant_Live_With_Them_-_Cant_LIVE_With_THEM!_470101x1182202064.htm Going through a divorce can be a lengthy, expensive process that leaves you emotionally and physically exhausted. But once the divorce is final, what should you do next? Fri, 15 Jun 2007 19:29:08 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/After_The_Divorce_Is_Final_And_You_Are_Ready_To_Move_On_-_What_Should_You_Do_Next_569103x1181950148.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/After_The_Divorce_Is_Final_And_You_Are_Ready_To_Move_On_-_What_Should_You_Do_Next_569103x1181950148.htm If you were married for many years you may find it difficult to detach yourself emotionally from your ex-husband. Read on to find out why it is not a good idea to still be having sex with your ex. Tue, 12 Jun 2007 00:38:40 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Sex_With_Your_Ex_-_3_Reasons_Why_It_Is_Not_A_Good_Idea_To_Continue_To_Have_Sex_With_Your_Ex-Husband_559195x1181623120.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Sex_With_Your_Ex_-_3_Reasons_Why_It_Is_Not_A_Good_Idea_To_Continue_To_Have_Sex_With_Your_Ex-Husband_559195x1181623120.htm Learn about the typical reactions you can expect from your children after a divorce and as you begin a new relationship. Knowing these will allow you to help ease them through these changes with success. Sat, 09 Jun 2007 02:03:28 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Parenting_after_Divorce_-__Understanding_the_Changes_From_Your_Kids_Perspective_559197x1181369008.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Parenting_after_Divorce_-__Understanding_the_Changes_From_Your_Kids_Perspective_559197x1181369008.htm After your divorce you may be looking for meaningful activities where you can reconnect with your children. Read on to find out how gardening can make this reconnection better for you and your children. Thu, 07 Jun 2007 10:42:53 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/After_The_Divorce_-_Gardening_With_Your_Children_As_A_Way_To_Reconnect_With_Children_After_Divorce_559211x1181227373.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/After_The_Divorce_-_Gardening_With_Your_Children_As_A_Way_To_Reconnect_With_Children_After_Divorce_559211x1181227373.htm Couples in their first marriage, one in eight can expect a divorce after age 40 (Uhlerberg, Cooney & Boyd, 1990). Based on these statistics there is a good chance that you are or will be dating someone recently divorced. Thu, 07 Jun 2007 04:50:51 -0400 http://articles.getacoder.com/Dos_and_Dont_of_Dating_Someone_Recently_Divorced_559201x1181206251.htm http://articles.getacoder.com/Dos_and_Dont_of_Dating_Someone_Recently_Divorced_559201x1181206251.htm She hurt you and she hurt you really bad, you never really saw the divorce coming and now that it is final your next goal in life is getting revenge on her for b