Relationships : Commitment Articles from GetACoder.com

The Commitment Crisis in Today's Dating Culture

Wed, 30 Jul 2008 17:45:10 -0400

She's shocked because the sex seemed so great. She believed they hit it off when she only experienced the lyrics in a song that goes something like this, "Hit me baby, one more time!"

Discover the Signs of a Committed Relationship

Wed, 30 Jul 2008 05:28:17 -0400

Knowing what checkpoints to look for in a committed relationship is important to know because they will be the factors to let you know if the relationship will work out or not. These signs are crucial to the health and welfare of any relationship and being aware of this will make you a better person because of it.

Administering The Local Church Through Mobilization For Evangelism

Sun, 20 Jul 2008 20:38:38 -0400

Administering the Local Church through Mobilization for Evangelism Many churches are dead while many are dying as an organization. This is owing to failure in administration and failure to fulfill their purpose of existence effectively. Reflection through the historical past, patterns utilized in the first century ecclesiastical community and biblically contextualized patterns from the pastoral practice of the church through the centuries, can be very essential for formulating relevant aims and objectives to revive our dying churches and to enhance effective growth through evangelism.

A Guide to a Healthy Relationship

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 06:37:11 -0400

In today's fast changing times it is tough to find a partner who is right for you and fits into your idea of an ideal partner. Here is my guide to a healthy relationship.

Can I Trust You

Sat, 12 Jul 2008 23:22:42 -0400

Untainted, unblemished trust. In a serious relationship it is sacred. It brings peace, inside and out. To not have to worry about one's partner boldly breaking the fundamentals of what the couple has established is something money is incapable of buying.

Why Men Won't Commit to Women?

Wed, 09 Jul 2008 16:45:28 -0400

Sigh...! Why men won't commit ever? Does this question very often plague you when it comes to wanting a commitment from your man? So long you hang out with your guy without any commitment, he will never have a problem strolling around the park with you, going out for dinner, walking down to the clubs etc. but once you turn on to him with questions about the future, you will find him distancing away from you.

Is it Natural For Human Beings to Be Monogamous?

Tue, 08 Jul 2008 22:06:19 -0400

The question that I hear most often from my students is: "Is it natural for human beings to be monogamous-especially males given the excessive production of sperm. Why would nature/God give men so much sperm if they didn't need it?" The real question that my students are asking is: Is it okay, to expect and want my mate to be faithful, loyal and committed to me; while I lie and deceive them about my whereabouts and sexual rendezvous with other people whom I find attractive?

Fear of Commitment Explained - No Situation is Hopeless

Tue, 08 Jul 2008 20:45:43 -0400

In an attempt to understand a partner's fear of commitment, we seek information to help us stay hopeful but in the process of information seeking, it's too easy to be completely derailed -- and completely confused by all the conflicting information out there. I don't know about you, but much of the available information on fear of commitment is always negative and discouraging. And then there is all this use of "catch-all" phrases (fear of commitment, commitment phobia, emotionally unavailable, men/women who can't love) that really don't explain anything in depth.

Why Your Man Hasn't Married You

Mon, 07 Jul 2008 21:02:23 -0400

Men won't act when women wait around for them. Actually, they sit back and enjoy getting their egos on steroids with women who just can't leave them alone because, "I know she'll always wait around for me." That is until you become the sort of woman who'll kill him with the heels. If you're not a walker, that's why your man hasn't married you.

Pastoral Calling and the Local Church

Sat, 05 Jul 2008 08:32:30 -0400

The Christian ecclesias of the first century church were administered by local leaders. Paul had the pattern of appointing elders in the churches (Acts 14:23; 20:17). Paul gave leadership responsibility to Timothy at Ephesus and to Titus at Crete. Peter in speaking to elders of the regions of Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia and Bithynia challenged them to be shepherds of God's flock. In fact, he refers to himself as a fellow-elder and, therefore, a shepherd. He also refers to Christ as the Chief Shepherd (2 Pet. 5:1-4).

Five Action Steps For Successful Relationships

Fri, 04 Jul 2008 13:50:34 -0400

Is it based on gamble alone that couples face a very good successful relationship? Does a loving successful relationship just happen? Are couples that experience a successful relationship do things differently than those people in unfruitful relationships?

Get Your Rings From Engagement Ring Stores

Thu, 03 Jul 2008 23:00:55 -0400

When two people fall in love, the next level is usually to get engaged. It is a sign of commitment, at least in the beginning for some people. When the love is so deep you'd like to spend the rest of your life together or in some cases, at least try to.

You Are About to Learn What Most Woman Would Never Know

Thu, 03 Jul 2008 15:30:03 -0400

How to become irresistible magnet for the man/woman you LOVE? It is never too late to turn your relation into everlasting love.

Should Women Settle

Wed, 02 Jul 2008 17:23:45 -0400

Many women wind up with someone who they never thought they would be with because they got tired of waiting on that one person who can offer them everything they want and then some. They hear that their standards are too high, they are getting old, or what they are looking for isn't realistic. The ultimate question is, should women settle?

Building Relationships, Commitment, and Love - Continuing With C

Wed, 02 Jul 2008 15:43:30 -0400

An alphabetical guideline of pitfalls to avoid in building satisfying relationships, commitment, friendship, and even love. We discuss interactions (in a sense how not to behave) with those significant others in your life including that special person, whether or not you are already together. While we focus on the negative, on the mistakes that are so easy to make and not so easy to repair, we do make positive suggestions as well. This article focuses on compromise, care, and character.

Pitfalls in Building Relationships, Commitment, and Love - Continuing With C

Wed, 02 Jul 2008 04:36:27 -0400

Do Americans Seek Companionship Or Marriage?

Wed, 02 Jul 2008 04:35:12 -0400

It is a dawn of a new era where priorities and interests have changed. Unlike our grandfathers who considered marriage as the ultimate choice in a persons life, the view today is different. Many American shy away from marriage.

Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Continuing With C

Tue, 01 Jul 2008 21:30:04 -0400

An alphabetical guideline of how to get your sex life in order. We tell you what to do to improve your sex life, and perhaps your love life. Whether you are in a committed relationship or not, whether you want one or simply a one-night stand or something in between we provide suggestions, guidelines, and tips for getting what you want. While we focus on the positive, we don't ignore the mistakes that are so easy to make and not so easy to repair. This article focuses on compromise, celebrate, and credible. Stay tuned.

Couples Relationship Assessment - Section 7 - Now and Forever - Loving Your Life Together

Tue, 01 Jul 2008 09:51:59 -0400

As you progress through the final section, you might find yourself wondering how you can internalize all of the information presented, transfer the knowledge, and practice it in your daily life. Many enter marital therapy, coaching, couple's workshops or other programs and seminars with high hopes and good intentions. Too often, they feel frustrated, disillusioned and betrayed when promises fall by the wayside.

Choosing a Life Partner

Tue, 01 Jul 2008 01:03:41 -0400

How to choose a perfect life partner? This question comes once into lifetime in front of each and every guy or girl. Although the answer is not as easy as the question seems to be, it is very tough to decide the perfect partner for life.

What Men Think About Commitment

Mon, 30 Jun 2008 17:01:29 -0400

It's happened to many women, and has probably happened to you - how a man suddenly withdraws and stops getting in touch with you right you talked to him about settling down. It's a baffling experience, especially when you remember how he used to fawn and beg you to have him in your life. Have you ever wondered what men really think about commitment?

Relationships Lacking Support Are Doomed to Failure

Sun, 29 Jun 2008 03:40:57 -0400

One of the key components of a relationship is the support that two people provide for each other, yet it is typically one of the most overlooked aspects of choosing the perfect mate. A relationship that is built upon mutual support will overcome just about any obstacles that two individuals encounter along the way. Support can take on many forms, but in the broadest sense, it is the willingness of two people in a relationship to lift and encourage each other to be the best that they can be.

Living Together

Sun, 29 Jun 2008 01:15:00 -0400

Moving in with your partner and living together is a big step. You need need to think out how you are going to manage everything from bills to cleaning.

Pitfalls in Building Relationships, Commitment, and Love - Starting With B

Wed, 25 Jun 2008 07:22:17 -0400

Commitment Phobia - Is There a Cure?

Wed, 25 Jun 2008 01:07:59 -0400

Commitment phobia can be a nightmare in relationships for both parties. But perhaps there is another way to look at the issue that might make the pattern of falling in and out of love easier to break than you imagine.

How To Figure Out Whether Your Partner Would Commit In The Long Term - Catch It Before It's Too Late

Mon, 07 Apr 2008 04:56:15 -0400

Things might seem just perfect right now but there might be a time in the future where your relationship might go down the drain due to lack of commitment on your partners behalf. No matter how good or great it might seem it's always good to think in the long term. You see unless you know your partner completely and are absolutely certain about him or her than only you should think in the long term. But how can you find out whether your partner would commit in the long term or not? Read on to discover how and achieve the desired results.

8 Powerful Signs That Show Your Man Is Ready To Settle Down And Get Married To You

Sat, 08 Mar 2008 01:21:29 -0500

There are eight powerful signs you want to look for if you want to find out if your man is ready to settle down and get married to you. If you do not see these signs in your man, and you are ready to settle down, then you know it is time to have that serious conversation about where your relationship is headed. Then decide if you want to continue dating your man or find one that is ready to settle down.

Talk the Finance Talk Before Walking the Commitment Walk

Tue, 26 Feb 2008 11:24:00 -0500

Are you walking down the aisle into debt? Or did you talk about finances as you prepared for the wedding day.

5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together

Wed, 20 Feb 2008 16:34:56 -0500

Love does NOT conquer all. Do you have what it takes to keep a successful relationship for the long term? Read this and find out.

Parting Before Til Death Do Us Part - The Challenges of Sustaining Relationships in Today's World

Thu, 07 Feb 2008 13:48:45 -0500

Once upon a time one could make a commitment "til death do us part," and actually consider it a meaningful promise. Sadly, relationships today are far more fragile, more likely to break under the inner and outer forces that butt against them over the course of time. Why do marriages and other committed relationships fail? And what are we to do with that information? Read on.

Signs of a Commitment Phobic Man - Spot Him Early

Thu, 07 Feb 2008 12:46:35 -0500

Some men simply can't commit and it can really make you suffer in the long run if you are in a relationship with a commitment phobic man. Therefore it is very important to spot him early and work on all possible solutions. Commitment lays the foundation of any and every relationship and without commitment no relationship can survive. Read on to discover the perfect signs of a commitment phobic man.

Men and Commitment - You Told Him You Loved Him - Now What?

Sun, 03 Feb 2008 10:19:16 -0500

Told a guy you loved him and didn't get the response you hoped for? Fear not. All is not lost.

Commitment - The Essential Ingredient In Your Relationship

Sun, 03 Feb 2008 06:42:38 -0500

All couples (married and unmarried) face an enormous challenge: How to stay devoted to one another throughout the life of your relationship, even when early enthusiasm and euphoria naturally wane. Discover why commitment is essential to the health of your relationship.

Dating Relationship - Are They the One?

Tue, 15 Jan 2008 05:42:39 -0500

You want to know if the connection between the two of you is real enough to build something meaningful and lasting. To do this you must ask yourself the following question.

Can't Commit - Why Bother?

Tue, 15 Jan 2008 03:14:20 -0500

What happens when you cannot commit to a long-term relationship? Ask yourself 3 simple questions to learn about why you cannot commit.

What ABOUT Family Values?

Sat, 12 Jan 2008 09:34:07 -0500

The concept of family values has lost its meaning because of religious and political pandering. This article explores the true meaning of family values.

Ten Commitments to Preserve Your Relationship

Sun, 06 Jan 2008 23:35:47 -0500

How do you build a trusting, happy, romantic relationship that lasts a lifetime? Learn about 10 practical tips how to stay committed to the growth of a loving relationship forever.

Ambiguity Called Relationships

Wed, 02 Jan 2008 02:29:22 -0500

Long term partnerships work on the grounds of trust, sincerity and mutual understanding. Commitment to work out the relationship and devotion to ones partner can never fail to cast notice on the other partner's attention. Infidelity and two-timing cannot be tolerated in love. Partners must take care to stay away from temptation least they loose the trust of the partner. Maintain correct tone, volume and use of words keeping in mind it does not hurt the partner in any way.

The Woman After God's Heart

Mon, 24 Dec 2007 09:04:07 -0500

Who is she, where is she, where does she live? Has anyone seen or heard of her? Does she actually exist? Is she human, robot or alien? Is this reality or myth?

Stunning Ways To Spice Up Your Relationship - Achieve Mind Blowing Results

Thu, 20 Dec 2007 09:36:08 -0500

Almost all relationships go through a bad patch yet some survive while others don't. After a while the magic does not seem to be what it used to be and love tends to diminish. There comes a time when you feel agitated by everything your spouse does. Most people no longer tend to feel comfortable in such a relationship and decide to part ways. But do you think parting ways would make you happy? The real answer is no. You will always face the same situation in your future relationships as well. So what is the solution to all this? Read on to find out some of the best ways to spice up your relationship and bring the magic back.

Designing Relationships for Trust

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 14:27:59 -0500

People yearn for relationships they can trust. They want to be able to depend on people. They want relationships characterized by ease, clarity and harmonious cooperation.

Taking the Ex Factor Out of Your Present Relationship

Fri, 14 Dec 2007 19:04:27 -0500

One of the most trying factors in any relationship is competing against the ex. Before you decided to commit yourself to one person for a relationship, take some time to determine whether or not the ex factor remains within your system. If you have not gotten rid of the ex factor, chances are that you will find yourself comparing your current mate's behaviors and attitudes with your former partner. If you compare to hard and scowl too much, you may find yourself alone or find your mate giving you the cold shoulder.

How To Share Power In A Relationship - The Five C's Of Co Creation

Fri, 14 Dec 2007 09:37:01 -0500

The evolutionary edge for humanity is sharing power. As a species we are gradually moving from using our power in self-centered adversarial ways to sharing our collective power for the mutual benefit of everyone concerned. We are shifting from a paradigm characterized by me or them to me and them. We are just beginning to tap into the power of co-creation.

Have You Ever Stayed In Your Wife's Office Till 4AM?

Fri, 14 Dec 2007 05:04:52 -0500

It was my breaking of record. Have you ever stayed in your wife's office till 4am? I just did a few days ago. It was initially madness as it was my first time doing that. However, when I come to think about it, it was a good chance for me to observe for myself why she is so busy all the time.

Men As Pets

Thu, 13 Dec 2007 06:14:08 -0500

Women attempt to find "successful" relationship with men encounter obstacles of men not wanting the same thing. Relinquish the desire to have men as "mirror image" and enjoy men as pets. List of pets are provided.

Relationship Commitment - A Healthy Relationship Starts with You

Wed, 12 Dec 2007 03:02:03 -0500

Keeping a relationship is difficult especially if you are not in tip-top shape emotionaly or physically. For a healthy relationship with your partner, you must have a healthy mind and body.

Signs That He Is Going To Propose

Tue, 11 Dec 2007 17:17:23 -0500

Here are some signs that you may see in your significant other before he proposes. Are you wondering if you are about to become an honest woman?

Working Relationships

Sun, 09 Dec 2007 18:20:02 -0500

You and your partner are embarking on what could be the best of voyages, but there is a plethora of sacrifices lined up ahead. Understanding your partner is probably the most challenging of all the things being highlighted right here. You will learn to tolerate your partner's high emotional state of mind, and you will deal with control at a different level, that is, your own.

Men, Commitment, and You

Fri, 07 Dec 2007 03:34:23 -0500

Do you tend to attract guys who disappoint you? Who don't call when they say they're going to call? Show when they say they're going to show?

I Feel He Would Much Rather Be Elsewhere Than With Me - He Keeps Looking At Other Women

Tue, 04 Dec 2007 01:33:55 -0500

Many men who are in relationships look at and flirt with other women, how do you deal with it as a partner? Women also lose confidence as they put on weight after pregnancy and other life events. How do you cope with these problems?

Why Men Won't Commit

Wed, 28 Nov 2007 18:12:01 -0500

Many women think men won't commit. Not true. They easily make commitments all the time. Now here's how to make one commit to YOU.

How To Get Him To Commit To You

Sat, 24 Nov 2007 22:51:12 -0500

Let's face it, getting a man to commit himself completely to you and forsake intimate relationships with other women is a tall order for any man. It takes a special woman to get a man to devote himself completely to one woman. Can it be done? The answer is, Yes.

Did He Stay In a Holiday Inn Express Last Night?

Sat, 24 Nov 2007 17:36:58 -0500

Does your husband watch the Discovery Channel's "Man vs. Wild?" How about "Into Alaska with Jeff Corwin?" If so, you better beware!

He Never Knew What CommitMEANT

Sat, 24 Nov 2007 00:16:27 -0500

Why do men struggle with commitment? Women everywhere want to know the answer. Men make relationships more about turning on than tuning in and make desire more important than design. Find out why men need to turn their focus from the nighttime to the lifetime and make relationships more about LEG-A-CY than how much LEG-I-SEE.

Dating and Relationship Advice - Men Leave Women Who Pressure For Commitment

Fri, 23 Nov 2007 14:28:01 -0500

Women often wonder why did he leave? What did I do? Most women and guys too want a mutually satisfying relationship. Harmony peace and getting along with one another is what a lot of people strive for. If your goals for your relationship are not the same, you will experience problems.

Commitment - Why It Is So Hard To Achieve In A Relationship

Wed, 21 Nov 2007 11:25:14 -0500

Commitment can be one of the hardest things to achieve in a relationship. When we can't commit we assume this is because our partner is lacking in some way. However, the truth is that it is our own insecurities and beliefs that prevent us from committing. This article shows how we can set about healing commitment issues.

How To Be In A Healthy Relationship?

Wed, 21 Nov 2007 06:53:54 -0500

There's no way you can have a healthy relationship if you don't trust each other. But its tough to trust someone when one isn't being honest. Jealousy is part of relationship, but how you react is what matters most.

Commitment - The Daunting Word In A Relationship

Tue, 20 Nov 2007 13:00:46 -0500

Falling in love is not hard on the knees anymore but sometimes the knees need support. Are you willing to commit to support one another through thick and through thin? If not then why find what could be your hidden fears and apprehensions of a blissful life.

Untying the Knots

Mon, 19 Nov 2007 17:08:53 -0500

No, this is not an article about dissolving a third marriage! This is about untying the knots that we make in our minds. Whenever we tie ourselves to someone or something, we make a knot. Over time, these knots accumulate, and our minds become nothing but large balls of tangled twine.

How Do I Know He Is The One - Which Questions Should You Ask?

Sat, 17 Nov 2007 15:14:54 -0500

Being in love is wonderful. There's nothing like it. But when it comes to start making decisions about commitment, sometimes you have to follow your head, not only your heart.

Marriage Relationships - Discover 10 Keys Of Commitment For A Successful Relationship

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 17:32:01 -0500

Do you know how everybody goes through difficult times in their marriages? Why are some relationships able to weather storms and other relationships fall apart? There is no easy answers to this question. There are multiple factors involved in having a successful relationship, but one key is commitment. Read on to discover 10 keys of commitment.

Does Monogamy Lead to Infidelity?

Tue, 13 Nov 2007 21:11:01 -0500

Learning how to incorporate your spouse into your everyday life so that you won't succumb to the temptations to stray! This will help you avoid the pain and shame of infidelity.

Life Changes Fast - Are You Ready?

Thu, 08 Nov 2007 20:45:07 -0500

Life comes at you fast sometimes. Illness and unemployment can certainly test a marriage's limits. See if you could handle what we went through in our first 5 years of marriage.

Little Known Social Skill Tips and Tricks

Sun, 04 Nov 2007 03:30:26 -0500

Developing social skill involves knowing how to conduct person to person communication. It involves a speaker, and a listener who can give, receive and interpret messages.

Ambivalence in Relationships

Thu, 01 Nov 2007 08:53:39 -0400

Discussion of ambivalence in intimate relationships. Exploration of relationship dynamics when partners are ambivalent. Lack of intimacy and honesty in relationships resulting from ambivalent dynamics.

Until Death Do Us Part - The Sacred Oath

Wed, 31 Oct 2007 21:02:30 -0400

This is an article for couples who are thinking of spending their lives together and about their vows of Holy Matrimony. Most do not realize the seriousness of their promises made during the wedding, and tend to fail when it comes to keeping the promises made in the early phase of courtship during the course of their life together. Marriage is a serious enterprise and vows should be consider as a sacred oath.

How To Cohabitate And Survive

Sun, 28 Oct 2007 00:00:05 -0400

Just 5 years ago, the U.S. Census revealed that 4.85 million couples were cohabiting, up more than 1,000% from 1960, when there were 439,000 such couples. Recent studies found that more than half of newlyweds lived together, at least briefly, before walking down the aisle.

How To Get Back With Ex - Maturity Matters

Sat, 20 Oct 2007 21:07:01 -0400

How Maturity Is One Of The Most Important Things For Relationships

It Takes Two - It Takes Work

Sat, 20 Oct 2007 11:35:55 -0400

So how do you keep your relationship going? How much effort does it really take? Do I have to stop being 'me'?

What Committment Is

Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:22:12 -0400

This article states, "What is commitment? It's our budget for our lives and loves." For those who are interested in increasing their commitment budget, the article describes the four factors that enter into the commitment equation. It explains how to recognize them, how they relate to each other, and how each one affects the outcome of our commitments.

What are Social Skills?

Fri, 12 Oct 2007 07:51:23 -0400

Social skills are described as definite approaches applied by an individual to carry out social functions effectively and eventually be regarded as socially acceptable.

7 Essential Adult Social Skills for Success

Thu, 11 Oct 2007 13:02:50 -0400

Adulthood is that phase in your life when you are expected to be independent. It is therefore important that you are equipped with adult social skills. You may be living alone or considering marriage right now.

Post-Reward Events - Does it Matter?

Sat, 06 Oct 2007 09:55:01 -0400

We ask, pray, and work for various things, but at times hardly give a thought to the end result. By this what I mean is that when at times we get rewards (or gifts) for which we are not prepared. What is the consequence? We are able to utilize the gift to its maximum, and sooner or later, we turn to either lose interest, or lose the reward or gift itself. So what should we do? Read along fellow readers? The answer is already with you?

Romantic Ways To Propose

Tue, 02 Oct 2007 11:24:07 -0400

There are many ways that you can propose. Unfortunately not all of them will be out of the park home runs. There are ways that you can try to hit a grand slam though and I hope that I can help. Here are some of my tips on romantic ways to propose.

Tips For Romantic Ways To Propose Success

Mon, 24 Sep 2007 21:39:54 -0400

Tips for romantic ways to propose. Follow these tips to give you ideas on proposals and also how to make them a success.

Promise Rings

Fri, 21 Sep 2007 23:03:51 -0400

Explains promise rings and their unique meanings for couples, compiled by a leading provider of eternity rings, diamond rings, platinum rings and gold rings.

Keeping The Romance Alive

Sun, 16 Sep 2007 11:16:35 -0400

I am sure that most of you will agree that it is not always easy to keep the romance alive in a relationship. Despite this however, a good friend of mine has just told me about the way in which he welcomed his girlfriend back from a weeks holiday abroad. It certainly puts me to shame and in this article I will write about the great lengths he went to, ideas which I hope will inspire other men in their quest of keeping the flame of romance alive.

Why Men Are Afraid of Commitment (And How To Help)

Tue, 11 Sep 2007 17:50:35 -0400

After a relationship ends, women ask what went wrong, again and again. In this revealing article we see that often it has nothing to do with the woman. The article explores some patterns and needs that cause men to run from relationships. It also offers specific guidelines and advice to help. Women will learn about male psychology and men will be better able to understand themselves.

What Keeps a Man Faithful

Sun, 02 Sep 2007 06:13:12 -0400

Many women wonder why their man or ex-man cheated on them. Especially when they put their heart and soul into a relationship just to feel empty and alone in the end. Well, this article explains a man's thoughts from the perspective of a man.

Combating Commitment Phobia

Mon, 13 Aug 2007 20:58:26 -0400

Commitment phobia often comes about after witnessing painful breakup as a child, or going through it oneself. However, a fulfilling love life is available to sufferers - it's all a case of learning how to change the way you feel about those memories.

Is Being A Codependent The Sign Of A Bad Relationship?

Tue, 07 Aug 2007 09:40:54 -0400

Codependents are people who exhibit far too much caring for people who depend on them. Is this the sign of a bad relationship?

Living Together Before Marrying Is A Bad Idea

Tue, 07 Aug 2007 00:37:44 -0400

Many men who living together never ending up marrying because many men simply don't feel the need to. If you look at it from a man's perspective, he is basically getting everything (and probably more than) a wife would give him without marriage, so why should he even bother? There is a comfort zone mostly for men who live with women they're not married to. There is no actual (or legal) commitment. He can leave whenever he wants with much less guilty feelings than if it was his wife.

Love, Sex & Relationships - Monogamy is Unnatural & Responsible Non-Monogamy Can Save a Relationship

Fri, 20 Jul 2007 14:05:16 -0400

With responsible non-monogamy, a couple accepts that owning the rights to each other isn't love, but possessiveness. What about the possibility of one of them falling in love with someone else and abandoning the other? This can happen in any relationship because you don't need to sleep with someone to fall in love with them. Furthermore, it seems that when two people are destined to meet and fall in love they will, regardless of whether or not they are single or involved.

Men Must Never Commit To An Exclusive Relationship Early On Even If She Is The Only One You Want

Tue, 17 Jul 2007 15:46:29 -0400

Many times when two people get involved in a committed relationship rather quickly it is simply because they think they don't want to see anybody else. More often than not the relationship becomes a committed relationship because the woman asked for it to be exclusive. The man simply agreed because he didn't want to be with anyone else anyways.

Pre-Nups - The Way Forward?

Mon, 16 Jul 2007 19:01:17 -0400

Love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage - or so the song goes. But these days it seems marriage ends up being a draining experience both financially and emotionally. I bet Paul McCartney regrets the day he ever went down on one knee...

The Average Male - Myths and Truths - Part 3 - Commitment and Marriage

Mon, 16 Jul 2007 02:48:37 -0400

Men are not afraid of relationships, far from it. What they are afraid of might surprise you and you might be surprised how eager they are for those long term commitments.

Love, Relationships & Reincarnation - Power of Love & Forgiveness Won't Allow You to Cheat Fate

Sun, 15 Jul 2007 18:29:35 -0400

You can't cheat fate. Of course, the couple could stay together if they really wanted to, but it would likely feel unnatural (if they were honest with themselves) and potentially cause a lot of stress if the relationship was over on an emotional level.

Freedom is a Four Letter Word

Thu, 12 Jul 2007 18:57:56 -0400

What cues did your teen love give you about your own insecurities? When the commitment phobe showed his or her spots, did you ditch your wish for a boy or girl hero and walk away? Maybe freedom IS a four letter word. (Excerpt from Help Is On Its Way)

Strong Man Or Weak Man?

Thu, 12 Jul 2007 07:33:23 -0400

How would you be considered by society are you a strong man or a weak man? Is this perception that society has of you is it true?

Save Your Marriage Now - Make a Pledge to Give up Controlling Your Spouse

Tue, 10 Jul 2007 08:00:57 -0400

If you seriously want to improve your relationship, begin by making a pledge to give up control of your spouse and embrace self-control. We know we can only control our own behavior, but we still try to control our spouse. Change your habit of control today.

Finding Your Commitment to Yourself!

Mon, 09 Jul 2007 09:12:45 -0400

I found out that you can not make people happy. Happiness must come from within a person. I could possibly please someone- however each person must want to be happy. I know someone that says over and over again. "You got to want to be happy!" He will ask you first- do you want to be happy? You must answer the question for him or he will persist in asking the question before attempting to please you.

Why He's Afraid of Proposing

Fri, 06 Jul 2007 21:54:21 -0400

To most women, the thought of a proposal is sweet and magical, the stuff of storybooks. But believe me when I tell you this ladies, to your guy, the whole experience-from asking your parents, to buying the ring, to the actual moment-is one nerve-wracking, teeth-chattering, bone-chilling experience.

Stage 3 - After the Storm - Readiness for True Commitment(E)

Thu, 28 Jun 2007 21:50:21 -0400

Peace again, at last, after the turbulent times which engulfed the relationship. If you have come out on this positive side, you are likely to be much wiser, with renewed love and respect for each other. But, sadly, there might be some hurt which has lodged itself in the memory and could sabotage future connections between couples.

What It Really Means When Your Partner Cheats

Thu, 28 Jun 2007 01:24:51 -0400

Why do people who seem to be in a perfectly happy relationship cheat on their partner? How could they even consider loving another when they already have it so good? While it may seem easy to simply call them an idiot and immoral, there's more to it than that. Cheating is the symptom, not the cause... Read this article to discover the real reasons people cheat.

One minute guide to wedding invitation wording

Wed, 20 Jun 2007 23:19:16 -0400

Writing a wedding invitation used to follow a very formal format, but now days it is more of a relaxed process. This having been said, there are still guidelines to follow for writing well received invites for your potential guests. The steps can be broken down into ten areas that will take you no more than a minute of your time to review and you will be on your way to organizing your invites with proper wedding invitation wording.

5 Stages of Committed Relationships

Mon, 04 Jun 2007 14:19:10 -0400

All relationships are unique, but research shows that most long-term committed relationships follow the same evolution. Learn the tasks and challenges that committed couples experience throughout the life of their relationship. Try to become one of the 5% of couples who actually make it to the fifth stage!

Why Mr. Charming Witty And Dynamic Can't Love You Or Commit To You

Wed, 30 May 2007 18:55:07 -0400

If he is twenty-something, well, he's too young and still has to feel things for a woman, but if a thirty-something plus man tells you he's never felt such emotion before, Honey, sit up and remove those romantic blinders off. Take a closer look at what you don't want to see...

Make Sure You Commit To Another Person For The Right Reason

Mon, 28 May 2007 23:12:34 -0400

The question of committing to an exclusive relationship with another person is one of the most trouble issues in modern dating. Although generally men are the ones who are more reluctant to commit, progressively more women find themselves facing the same dilemma - to commit or not to commit. This article explores the right and the wrong reasons to commit, understanding which will likely help you make the right decision.

The Unity Candle and Other Ceremonies of Commitment

Fri, 18 May 2007 18:08:25 -0400

There are, in Protestant weddings, more than a few different traditions allowing the bride and groom to show their families a symbolic representation of their union and devotion to each other. The unity candle is one of those very traditions, steeped in only a few decades of history, but incredibly popular in today's wedding ceremonies.

Why You Should Not Commit To Someone In The First 3-6 Months Of A Relationship

Mon, 14 May 2007 15:00:03 -0400

Here are some guidelines to help you at each stage of your relationship. Do not feel frustrated if say you are at stage two of your relationship but still haven't found out things that you should have at stage one. Just make sure that you try to find out those things before you move to the next stage.

Commitmentphobia

Sun, 29 Apr 2007 18:02:14 -0400

Commitmentphobia is the term used to describe a person who deeply fears relationship commitment. It is more often associated with men, but women may also suffer from commitmentphobia. The commitmentphobic develops an exaggerated fear of being confined. This fear begins to show itself once she enters a close relationship where there are long-term expectations and responsibilities.

So You Want to Date Without a Commitment

Thu, 26 Apr 2007 22:53:20 -0400

Congratulations on deciding on a no strings attached relationship. Just date and have fun without the worries of what the future holds. First things first, make sure the person you're planning this relationship with knows you're not looking for a commitment, just to have a good time. If your partner understands this is what you're looking for and agrees, then it looks like you have yourself the perfect situation for a good time that works for both of you. How do you effectively communicate the desire to have a no commitment relationship?

How Do You Know For Sure He Or She Is As Spiritually Committed As They Say They Are

Fri, 20 Apr 2007 09:05:40 -0400

How do you know when to bring up spiritual matters with a man or woman you just met or just started dating? And how do you know he or she is where they say they are spiritually?

10 Warning Signs He Is Not Committing To You Anytime Soon

Tue, 10 Apr 2007 13:36:52 -0400

When you are madly in love with a guy it is easy to ignore all the hints he is giving you that tell you don't expect commitment anytime soon. Most guys are pretty honest about commitment but many women stay in the relationship hoping that he will come around in time.

Relationship Success - The ABCs of Successful Relationships

Wed, 04 Apr 2007 18:57:44 -0400

Do you wonder if your relationship could be better? Are you looking for fresh ideas to improve your relationship? Journey through the alphabet and learn 26 ways to have a successful relationship.

Understanding Commitment in Relationships

Sat, 17 Mar 2007 07:05:00 -0400

Are you looking for more commitment in your relationships, do you feel you're not getting the level of commitment from you partner that you're seeking? Do you want to understand why you might feel out of balance in your relationship? This article looks at the true meaning of commitment in relationships.

Dating To Have Fun With No Commitment!

Sat, 10 Mar 2007 02:02:28 -0500

Looking to date with no commitment? Find out how you can date someone without being committed.

Is It OK to Have Sex for the Sake of REALLY Good Sex� With No Relationship Commitments?

Thu, 08 Feb 2007 10:24:03 -0500

The Question: I recently broke up with my boyfriend and father of my 2 year old daughter. I'm 35 and he's 28. He is now seeing a 22 year old girl for the use of her truck - I believe. He says that he still loves me (maybe just for the sex) and we have continued to have sex since breaking up. He is, however, very irresponsible in a relationship. The sex is great between us and I have a hard time turning him down because I do still love him. I think that I may want him back because I can't stand to see him with someone else or to think that he is sleeping with another person.

Should I stay with him just for the sex? Or should I make him make a choice of getting no sex unless he's willing to make the relationship work between us? What should I do?

Fear Of Commitment And How You Can Defeat It Or Help Someone You Know or Love

Sun, 17 Dec 2006 07:13:02 -0500

If you are fighting "commitment phobia," you will identify with one or more of the most common fears men and women have about the commitment. And if you are in a relationship with someone struggling with making a decision as to whether to move on or not, you can show him or her that you are sensitive to his or her fears by helping him or her discover and confront his/her fears.

Commitment - Where Did it Go

Sun, 10 Dec 2006 17:23:16 -0500

This analysis of modern relationships takes a look specifically at commitment. Gives comprehensive reasoning for the lack of commitment in relationships today.

Atlanta Singles Dating: Rule Five for Conscious Dating - Be Commit-able

Tue, 05 Dec 2006 01:47:34 -0500

Are you commit-able? Read on to discover why this is a good thing.

Eternity Commitment: The 21st Century Alternative to Marriage: Never be Divorced!

Wed, 29 Nov 2006 15:31:55 -0500

Learn why marriage is in crisis in America. Protect your assets if your marriage fails. Can outlandish Divorce settlements occur in America? Paul McCartney's scenario and financial losses from divorce can happen in America. Read why.

Are You Ready For A Committed Relationship

Fri, 17 Nov 2006 06:26:48 -0500

If you desire a long lasting, healthy, and fulfilling relationship with a partner whom you can share life with, then you need to arm yourself with the knowledge....

Man and Commitment - Why Men Are Afraid of Making Commitment In A Relationship

Sat, 04 Nov 2006 03:29:34 -0500

We all must be knowing by now, that men do afraid of commiting to a long term relationship. But exactly, why they do that? We conduct a survey and what we found is-

Committed Relationships

Sat, 21 Oct 2006 23:02:36 -0400

My guides are insistent I write this article. Thou Shall Not Covet applies to people as well as possessions.

Honestly Open About Your Past And God Committment With Marriage-Minded Internet Inquirers

Sat, 14 Oct 2006 02:53:32 -0400

Until then, I didn't think that the "Great Gal'' that I had married - four months previous - and I had any problems. To cinch my custody battle suit I had married my 2nd wife after a she-lived-with-me relationship of 4-years. Although I didn't allow myself to "Really" love her - we married because I wanted my son (I was then 5-years divorced from my 1st wife to whom I had been previously married for 9 years).

I knew that our obvious stability (me owning a new home, 3-art stores ~ her owning an answering service, the publishing company, and she very much "In love" with me) would assure the court mine was the best environment for my son. LOL. This incident followed my victory in court - the following week.

Anyway, at the end of or 1st session, the Dr. gave us some papers to fill out by which to determine our compatibility - while we were at home that next week. We were told to discuss our real feelings - likes and dislikes goals and aspirations, even our dreams with each other - which we faithfully did.

How to "Make" Him Commit

Wed, 11 Oct 2006 14:06:25 -0400

What is the one secret guys absolutely do not want you to know? How to get them to go to the next level in a relationship, whether it's from casual dating to a committed relationship or living together to marriage. Dating will never be the same.

Why Men Are Afraid To Commit

Sun, 10 Sep 2006 21:54:30 -0400

That said, given a choice most men do what they want and what they believe is in their best interest. If you have to coerce a man to commit to you, you are definitely with the wrong man. A man would not commit to a relationship unless he is convinced that

Relationship: Commitment Errors

Sat, 26 Aug 2006 07:02:57 -0400

For many of us commitment means getting married and staying together forever until we no longer exist. The idea of commitment has changed over time though, and many people avoid getting involved with such an idea.

Couples Relationship Assessment Quiz - Part 1: Conscious Commitment

Fri, 18 Aug 2006 00:34:40 -0400

Do you feel like you are committed enough to making your relationship successful? Or do you want to make sure you and your partner have a relationship filled with safety, friendship, trust, respect, admiration, joy, passion, and love? The first step in the process to Co-Create a Conscious Relationship is to make a conscious commitment to your partner, your relationship, and to yourself. Establishing a sense of confidence, safety, and trust and a feeling of unity concerning the journey you are beginning is critically important. This assessment will take a thorough look at just how committed you are.

10 Signs a Man is Not Ready to Commit

Fri, 11 Aug 2006 14:31:46 -0400

We've all heard the conventional wisdom that a man should pursue you, should show an interest in being with you, should take you out and wine and dine you. But, once you get past all these 'qualifications', how do you know when a man is really ready to commit - to you?

Pre-commitment and Cohabitation

Wed, 09 Aug 2006 13:58:00 -0400

Today's couples seem confused, and today's relationship professionals seem confused about today's couples. Couples want a committed relationship but fear failure, so they live together as a first step to minimize risk. However, living together actually increases risk because they are acting committed without having made a real commitment.

What Is Commitment in Relationships?

Fri, 28 Jul 2006 15:15:30 -0400

The question of when a relationship is committed is a source of much confusion and debate. We live in a time when the marriage rate is going down, the co-habitation rate is going up, and the majority of first-born children are now born to unmarried parents. This article sheds some light on this question for couples and individuals challenged by different perceptions of the status of their relationships.

Why Be Committed to a Non-Commitment

Sat, 15 Jul 2006 12:06:52 -0400

Have you ever been in a relationship where you've spent lots of time together, you've talked to each other several times a day, you've shared your secrets and inner most thoughts, you've spent many nights together, and you were sure he was "the one." Then suddenly he refers to what you think of as a "relationship" as a "friendship." You then realize that what the two of you have has not been solidified. You may have never had "the discussion". You know what I mean, the one where he says he only wants to be with you and you say you only want to be with him, and from there the two go away with understanding that you are in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

Five Steps to Overcoming Commitment Phobia and Creating a Loving Life-Partner Relationship

Sun, 09 Jul 2006 17:18:34 -0400

While "commitment phobia" usually refers to the fear of the unknown, or the fear of repeating a painful past experience, singles can also have commitment phobia when challenged by their fears of what they may have to give up, or lose. These five steps will help relationship-oriented singles see the gains inherent in overcoming their commitment phobia and focus on creating a loving, life-partner relationship.

Men Overcoming The Fear Of Emotional Committment

Fri, 23 Jun 2006 22:05:01 -0400

What does it take to be a real man? It's not what you think. In fact it means addressing and embracing a part of you that you've likely been avoiding most of your life, your emotional inner life.

Relationships - Shying Away From Commitment

Wed, 21 Jun 2006 12:45:44 -0400

We have come along way now. It is time for him/her to commit to our relationship. Why its not being done is a surprise for me. How long shall we continue like this now? I have said that I want to marry, but I am not getting any firm commitment from him/her. I am worried about the future now.

Dating, Marriage, Love & Relationship Advice: The Dance of Commitment

Mon, 05 Jun 2006 15:05:53 -0400

If you are single, dating, or trying to get to "I DO" and spend too much time hurting and not enough time loving this may be the most important love relationship advice you could ever receive. Here's how to spot the signs of a hopeless case, using little known relationship tips.

Conquering Commitment Phobia

Fri, 02 Jun 2006 21:13:08 -0400

Conquering the fear of commitment, or "commitment phobia," involves managing the risks inherent in attempting any new endeavor. Learn these "risk management" techniques to get you closer to creating a loyal and gratifying life partnership.

Fear of Commitment

Thu, 01 Jun 2006 01:37:48 -0400

Do you want to be in a relationship but have a fear of commitment? Do you keep picking the wrong people? Discover the underlying cause of a fear of commitment and what to do about it.

Committed Relationships: Use Them to Grow Towards Self-Understanding and True Love

Sat, 20 May 2006 22:07:27 -0400

Society generally considers that relationships owe us happiness and bliss ever after. While happy couples do exist, divorce statistics indicate a great majority simply is not happy after the first glow dims. This less appealing reality actually holds the key for a true loving relationship that is free of dependence on the other. In a nutshell, transformation is what relationships are all about.

Relationship Commitment

Mon, 08 May 2006 08:25:00 -0400

Relationship commitment. A lifelong goal for some, and others, a thought that puts shivers down their spine. While many would love to settle down and grow closer to someone over a period of years, the thrill of the chase is much more satisfying for everyone else.

Committed Couples: Keep That Spark Alive!

Wed, 05 Apr 2006 12:10:25 -0400

In our demanding world filled with multiple priorities, responsibilities and distractions, everything and everyone else seems to be more important than attending to our most intimate and special relationship.

Committed Couples: Repairing Hurt Feelings and Shaken Trust

Thu, 23 Mar 2006 22:33:12 -0500

There may be occasions during your relationship when you hurt your Honey's feelings or s/he hurts your feelings. There may be those rare times that your beloved does or says something that shakes your trust or you do or say something that shakes his or hers.

Relationship Deal-Making - Shifting Love Into a Long-Term Commitment, Part 2 of 2

Tue, 14 Mar 2006 18:00:11 -0500

Loving someone that you're dating won't always translate into a committed relationship. Because love can't survive alone and pure in a world complicated by so many other elements, shifting the love you experience with someone into a healthy, committed relationship is often quite a challenge. In Part 2 of this article series, I'll show you how to identify the "deal-breakers" inherent in your relationship and help you make the best "deal" for a life partner relationship with the one you love.

Love And Commitment = A Happy Marriage

Sat, 11 Mar 2006 03:00:37 -0500

Love is stronger when your commitment is cemented in the bond of marriage. Happiness is knowing your partner will be there when the chips are down.

Dating Tip: Getting the Commitment that Matters

Fri, 10 Mar 2006 05:03:49 -0500

Why can't you get him to commit? Check out these tips to attracting a great guy who'll love you and eagerly marry you.

5 Areas of Readiness for Successful Committed Relationships

Sun, 26 Feb 2006 15:10:23 -0500

Your life will not be "better" if you are in a relationship. We take ourselves with us wherever we go...especially into love relationships.

Turning a Relationship Around: Commitment

Sun, 26 Feb 2006 03:06:06 -0500

You must strive for total commitment to your relationships if you want them to be successful and fulfilling. You must expect and accept no less as well.

Staying Committed in Today's World

Sun, 26 Feb 2006 00:57:38 -0500

In the U.S. we inherited a model for marriage and relationships that has remained largely unchanged for over 50 years. That traditional model was never intended to integrate our individual needs with the needs of the partnership.

Relationship Deal-Making - Shifting Love Into a Long-Term Commitment, Part 1 of 2

Mon, 13 Feb 2006 07:33:24 -0500

Loving someone that you're dating won't always translate into a committed relationship. Because love can't survive alone and pure in a world complicated by so many other elements, shifting the love you experience with someone into a healthy, committed relationship is often quite a challenge. In this two-part series, I'll show you how creating a life partner relationship with the one you love is like cutting a "big deal."

Commitment: What Are We Committing and To Whom?

Mon, 13 Feb 2006 06:28:14 -0500

When we talk about love and commitment we are really talking about attaching to or connecting with people and things. When we are able to connect we feel joyful and content. Poor connections can make us feel angry, sad and truly miserable.

Commitment - Can It Be Learned?

Mon, 13 Feb 2006 01:09:11 -0500

People hook up all the time for dates and even sex but where does commitment come in? Is this all there is to it? You get a date here and there and you think that if you manage to score some booty you are lucky. But what are you really looking for? Is it commitment? Are you a committed person? If not, can you learn to be committed?

True Commitment Comes from the Heart

Sun, 22 Jan 2006 02:18:01 -0500

We seem to hear a lot these days about commitment. I hear from women that men won't commit. I hear from men that they are ready and want to commit, but can't find the right woman. I hear from others that even when you commit, it doesn't ensure that the relationship will last. And then there are those who have been burned and never want to commit again! So what is commitment when it comes to matters of the heart?

5 Essential Parts of a Committed, Long-term, Primary Relationship

Thu, 12 Jan 2006 18:35:26 -0500

The nature and structure of a committed relationship is related to the agreements and commitments each partner makes to the relationship...not to each other...to the relationship!

Why Won't Your Man Commit?

Thu, 15 Dec 2005 07:47:00 -0500

As a relationship coach, I am often asked by women why their partners cheated on them or why their men won't set a wedding date. "After all", they tell me, "we're in a committed relationship". Maybe you've been there. In every case I ask these women, "what do you call a committed relationship?"

Commitment; Footpath to Lasting Romance

Sat, 03 Dec 2005 21:28:21 -0500

"I don�t understand your hesitation. You say that you love me but you don�t want to go a step further in our relationship. What�s wrong? If you really loved me, you would climb that step."

Popular culture makes us believe that Love conquers all. We have all been exposed, as children, to a story or two, where there is a Princess and her Prince Charming who are confident that with only the strength of their love they will live happily ever after.

Relationship Advice: Commit When You Are Ready, and Not a Moment Before

Wed, 16 Nov 2005 14:06:28 -0500

Are familiar with how some people like to pressure others to commit to a relationship and/or get married? Here are some tips on when to commit and when to not commit.

Defining Relationship Commitment for Today's Couples

Sat, 22 Oct 2005 02:25:56 -0400

The marriage rate is going down and the rate of cohabitation is going up, with a higher failure rate than marriage. As more couples "shack up," confusion and problems develop about their level of commitment to each other. This article is intended to provide some clarity to an increasingly murky issue amongst today's couples.

Why Some Men Don't Want To Commit

Sun, 16 Oct 2005 09:25:38 -0400

If you are dating, engaged, or still trying to find Mr. Right, then this week's message is for you - Why some men do not want to commit or find it very difficult to commit to women they supposedly love.

Commitment To Marriage

Sun, 31 Jul 2005 07:30:09 -0400

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and find clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.

Why Men Won't Commit To Marriage

Tue, 12 Jul 2005 04:22:32 -0400

Most men who wont commit themselves to a stable relationship are often frightened to do so because of becoming hurt. Many men who wont commit find it hard to show their true emotions and feelings in a relationship. They often find themselves trying to avoid relationship subjects because they do not know how to handle the situation. Men who wont commit often tend to think that they do not need to commit to a relationship even if they have been together with their partner for many years.

Soul Mates - Finding True Love and Commitment

Wed, 11 May 2005 21:05:13 -0400

Finding your true Soul Mate is something that many people hope to do. Finding that one true love, someone that we want to be with for a lifetime, can be a difficult task. Perhaps there are a few things that we have either overlooked, over-glamorized, or misunderstood. Here are some things that you can do to attract your Soul Mate into your life.

Dinner Scooped Off the Floor - Why Men Won't Commit

Tue, 18 Jan 2005 02:51:23 -0500

Why men won't commit? You've heard the question asked or you've asked it yourself. Let this article inform and expand how you look at this explosive theme.

Are you (or are you with) a Commitment-Phobe?

Mon, 23 Aug 2004 01:44:01 -0400

We hear it all the time. "He just won't make a commitment." "She just wants some space right now." "I'm not sure if I'm ready for a serious relationship."