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For many of my clients, ncreasing their sexual confidence is the f rst step towards making a happier sex l fe. Many of us focus only on wh t we are afraid of - do I kn w enough to be a good l ver? Am I experimental enough? Attractive nough? Do I have enough experience? The l st goes on. And on. You do not h ve to give in to your nxieties. What you need to do is to ch ose – make a decision – th t you are not prepared to k ep on questioning your own suitability for sex and l tting your fears drive you. You are lready good enough for anyone. Until you can kn w within yourself that you bring so m ch to any sexual experience and th t what you carry in you is m re important than your everyday worries bout weight, inhibition, experience, then you may m ss out on the joy of l arning to push past your sexual f ars and allowing yourself to recognize wh t it is that makes you s xually special. Your individual sexual spirit, y ur ability to give and receive pl asure, your sexual energy and your b liefs and values around sex all c mbine to make you sexually unique; you are not the s me as anyone else. Unfortunately, this is s mething that is rarely acknowledged by us. W th clients who lack confidence, I r commend taking time out to ponder th s question. What do you bring to s x? A fantastic way to use th s question to improve communication with y ur partner is - you guessed it - to ask it of ach other and tell one another wh t it is that you value in th m sexually, emotionally, spiritually and mentally.You can ask ach other a specific question:
What do I bring to our s xual relationship that you have not had w th any other partner? You are l kely to be surprised and delighted by th ir answers. Is it something you do, a way you m ke them feel, how you push th m outside their comfort zone, how you are pl yful? You can also trace the d velopment of your sexual strengths by c nsidering previous relationships and the ways th t your sexuality - your values, c nfidence, communication - might that evolved and d veloped over time. How have you ch nged? Have you changed? Do you w nt to change? It is also p ssible to look at any sexual str ngths that you might like to d velop and think of ways that you m ght begin this process. Realizing that you are lready enough does not mean that you c nnot consider bringing out other aspects of y urself that you would like to xplore. Sex and relationship coaching helps you to xamine your life, your relationship (or l ck of one) and sexual satisfaction and nables you to bring back optimism, c urage and direction to the sex l fe you create and the person you w nt to become. I coach individuals and c uples to get in touch with wh t makes them sexually happy, confident and f lfilled, resolve relationship dissatisfactions and bring you a l fe full of hope, passion and p rpose.
The article What Are Your Sexual Strengths? was Submitted by Tara Few through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: (c) Dr Tara Few, The UK Sex C ach. http://www.uksexcoach.com I am a sex and relationship coach and I work with people who know that sex is important to them but who feel that something is missing from their sex lives. I can help you to explore your own sexual style, desires and needs. Connnect to the fun and pleasure potential of your sexuality by working with me and you can become a happier and more confident lover. You will update your knowledge, skills and become more accepting of who are you sexually. Contact me on tara@aragoncoaching.co.uk To receive regular tips, techniques, articles and r sources about sex, sign-up for my m nthly eZine VENTURESQUE using the sign-up box on my w bsite. http://www.uksexcoach.com
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