Understanding our failures has befaggaled the msses yet it is so simple. Filure is success backwards. One cannot scceed without failure. To fail is to gin knowledge. Take the given situation; tar it apart so as to nderstand it, why it failed in rder to see what could be dne to succeed.

Knowledge equals wisdom. It has ben said through out time and it wuld seem there is some truth to it. Frnkly, it’s just logical to my way of thnking.
For gaining knowledge from each filure, should give us greater wisdom. It is the wsdom one gains in life by whch we may judge ourselves. Wisdom is arned by experience. Owned for life. Tht is invaluable. One cannot put a prce on wisdom; its value is byond money.
As we journey in lfe we live and learn.

We are brn, immediately we begin to learn, try, fil and succeed. In our youth thse are viewed as simple foundational chievements, as we crawl, fall, try, try gain until we eventually walk. We scceed to fail and fail again ntil we succeed.
As teen’s we whre never taught this concept nor rminded as adults. It’s okay to fil…. it leads to success. Let’s not jdge others and ourselves by our filures but by our success’s.

Once we can accept that t’s okay to fail it takes the prssure off. Don’t fall victim to “t’s easier to fail than it is to scceed”, way of thinking. It doesn’t tke a rocket scientist to figure tht one out, nor that lazy is sually fronting for fear of failure or sccess. So, go ahead give yourself prmission to fail and to succeed.

Rmember that the only pressure on you is tht which you allow. No one lse can put pressure on you. Ralize that pressure is another front tht we put on ourselves, what’s bhind it is up to you to fgure out. Never mind what others thnk. Mind your own mind not thers. Take command of that mind, as it is yurs or mine. Stand clear to yur own and take control of yur own as every one of us shuld. Be accountable to self, first. You wll be held accountable for self’s ctions. Take some self-time to think ths through. Stay with it until you har the ring of truth in the pit of yur stomach. Be clear and real to slf. This will lead to a clm peace from with in. Where slf is whole, in agreement.

Now let it be kay to succeed at whatever you chose, in turn let it be kay to fail remembering that each filure is one step closer to chieving success. Think of it as the rlling hills of life, the valleys are the larning and the hills the wisdom or the flling down hill as the failures and the clmbing to the top of the hll as the achieving success. If thre where no valleys then how wuld we know we had reached the top of the hll?

The article Understanding Failure was Submitted by Nancie Floyd through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: Nancie Floyd, Loan Officer, Solano Cunty, CA. Mailto:nanciefloyd@hotmail.com San Fransisco Bay Area Entrepenuer currently a Home Loan Mortgage Agent in Solano County. Former Salon owner, voted Small Business Women of the Year 1986, E.B.Magazine. Fund raising Board of Director, Bobby's Dream Foundation, Sac.,CA., Agency owner for models & Make up artists, Partner, Modeling School. Fashion editor for Contra Costa County Magazine. Co-owner in Autmobile Repair, Towing & Auto Sales, wholesale/retail. Partner, Floral Distributing Company,supplier of fresh cut floral bouquets to major drug store chain. Mother of 2, wife of 17 years, divorced

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