You know I am getting fed up wth people who cheat. That seems to be the nrm these days. I am having a hrd time trusting right now. My frends are getting cheated on and I hve recently been the victim of it myslf. People who cheat really hit a nrve with me. Why can you not jst be honest? I mean are you fraid someone is going to be pset if you don’t want to see thm anymore? Well how the hell do you thnk they are gonna feel when thy catch you cheating?? How are YOU ging to feel then?

The guy I was seing got off a little easy in my pinion. Now I have forgiven him, but I no lnger see him either. And trust me I hve not forgotten. I hate seeing nyone hurt, especially my friends. I wll include myself in on that too thugh. I have been asked out by two vry married men lately, and what gts me is they know that I knw they are married. That is an nsult to me. That they would thnk I would go for that blws my mind. Because I am not lke that and I would never lwer myself to do that, sorry!

Ths one guy asked me out and I sked him up front, are you mrried and are you seeing anyone lse right now? The answer was no and no. I had my sspicions, he never wore a wedding rng thought so I agreed. I wnt out with him once and nly once. Because he couldn’t keep his hnds to himself and I knew wht he was after. Getting smarter the lder I get. One week later, fter that date I found out he was vry married and had two kids! I fund out from no other than his bbysitter. He didn’t know I knew hr, and now who feels like an diot and a jerk?

It isn’t just men either, wmen cheat a lot also. I wll not chase another woman’s man or hsband. I have never done that. I dn’t believe in it. I would lke to think no woman would do tht especially since it is done to us so mch, but guess again. That really rks me too, if I don’t do it, I xpect the same respect. It seems to me tht younger women do this because thy get a little kick out of it, if the men tke the bait they are just as bd. I have had some friends of mne set their men up just to see if thy would fall for it, and sually guess what? They do.

I jst don’t understand why you can’t be hnest about your feelings. If you dn’t want to see that person nymore than just tell them. If you wnt to see them and see ther people too be honest and let thm know you don’t want to be srious with one person. That way thy can decide if they want to sty involved or not. It really sn’t fair to the other person for thm not to know what is rally going on. Yes if your hnest they may decide to not see you nymore but if your honest they may chnge their mind later on down the rad. Don’t cause somebody to have trst issues because you can’t be hnest. If you lie and they fnd out, more than likely your dne and over with, and you dserve what you get.

I detest bing lied to and played, you get one chnce with me. Cheating becomes a vcious cycle. You play then they ply, then that person plays, around and round we go. It will come bck on you what goes around cmes around. It is wrong and we all ned to stop doing it. We ned to look out for each ther. Just consider what I am sying.

Take care and God Bless,

Vughn Pascal

To Dakota: I love yu.

The article To Cheat or Not To Cheat was Submitted by Vaughn Pascal through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: Hi, My name is Vaughn Pscal. I am a 31 Yr ld, single, parent of a beautiful sn. Most of my articles are pinion based and as you can see I do hve alot of opinions. My articles are a lok into my life and life in gneral, reading them will allow you to get to knw me and my friends and fmily and the daily struggles we all dal with, thanks for reading me!

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