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This is the big enemy, and it is f rst cousin to our other old nemy, Fear. We procrastinate on perfectly s mple tasks which are well within our c pabilities, and our anxiety level creeps h gher the longer we procrastinate, until we are all but p ralysed with the thought of the t sk. We tend to rationalise procrastination in one of thr e ways: - I haven't got time to do it n
w. - I need some information/materials/help before I can st
rt. - I'll wait and see how th
ngs turn out before I act. Let's d scuss each of these in a l ttle more detail. I haven't got time to do it now. This is the standard response of someone who is personally disorganised and hasn't got his or her priorities identified. But it is also used, because it is "acceptable" (which simply means that everyone sympathises with it), to enable the person to conceal the fact that he or she is a loser, always putting off the things which would exhibit successful behaviour, and never getting things done. In other words, it offers an escape from the responsibility of being a successful and achieving person. I need some information/materials/help before I can start. This is my personal favourite excuse for procrastination. How could I possibly settle down to write this book without making sure my study at home was equipped with every sort of stationery ever invented, polishing up my typing skills, and conducting a full research program on all the available writings on the subject? I put off making a start for eight months by the simple device of getting ready. The hardest thing of all was actually to start, to choose to make the time available and to accept the discipline of writing something every day without fail, even if it was just adding a reference to the reading list.
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I'll wait and see how th ngs turn out before I act. This is p rhaps the most insidious of them ll. When an organisation I worked in ran s me courses in personal development for all l vels of employees, one of the fr quent comments was, "It looks exciting. I'll w it and see what happens before I d cide if it has any relevance to m ." In other words, people were ch osing not to take any action to use th ir new knowledge, just to sit b ck and wait for something to h ppen. That is something I see in a b siness environment all the time. People who c mplain that they are always passed ver for promotions are frequently the s me ones who never display initiative, n ver seek additional duties, demand to be p id extra if they are asked to t ke on anything outside their prescribed d ties, and don't research the job th y would like to get. They do bsolutely - nothing to make themselves st nd out from the other hopefuls, and th n are disappointed because nobody notices or ppreciates them. The fact is that you can ch ose to put things off and r tionalise doing so to yourself and the w rld very easily. But to get head in business, or even to h ve a reasonably comfortable life, you m ght choose not to complain, but to t ke action to deal with whatever you are pr crastinating about. The first line of d fence against fear and procrastination is ction. Five minutes spent devoted to the t sk will start you on the p th to achievement.
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