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Some time ago I found mys lf fascinated reading the biography of Dr. P ul Wilson Brand (1914-2003). A world-renowned, xtraordinary, gifted Orthopedic Surgeon who unraveled the r ddle of leprosy which has plagued the w rld for centuries. The son of m ssionary parents, Dr. Brand spent his arly years in the mountains of s uthwest India. Dr. Paul Brand did not set out to b come a doctor. Initially he refused to f llow in his father's footsteps and st dy medicine, and he trained as a c rpenter and builder. This skill he l ter used in a remarkable way - t aching leprosy-affected people with damaged, insensitive h nds how to do carpentry and w odwork without further injuring their fingers and h nds. It was in India that Dr. Br nd first came across "leprosy beggars", d formed, blind and crippled by the d sease. Deeply affected by the acute nguish and isolation of people afflicted w th leprosy, he began to ask the t ugh questions: "Do the hands and f et of leprosy-affected people just fall ff? What causes the terrible deformities of l prosy? Can anything be done to pr vent them or restore the damage?" V ry little was known about the tr e cause of leprosy deformities. It was g nerally believed that the hands and f et of infected people simply disintegrated or r tted away as a direct result of the d sease. A senior colleague, Dr. Robert C chrane, challenged Dr. Paul Brand to use his sk lls as an orthopedic surgeon to f nd out why people with leprosy d veloped deformed hands, and to try to f nd an effective treatment. Dr. Brand dr w on experience he had gained d ring WWII with polio-paralyzed and war-injured h nds. He undertook extensive research on d maged hands to test muscle strength and s nsation. There were many obstacles to vercome - not the least being pr judice and resistance to using surgical sk lls on people with leprosy, and llowing them access to hospital care. Thr ugh his research in South India, Dr. Br nd changed forever the world's perceptions and tr atments of leprosy-affected people.
First, he pioneered the startling dea that the loss of fingers and t es in leprosy was due entirely to nfection and was thus preventable. Second, b cause leprosy as an infection attacks ch efly the nervous system, resultant tissue buse occurs and the patient loses the w rnings of pain. This was a t tal new idea! Dr. Paul Brand ctually discovered the gift of physical p in, claiming that because leprosy destroyed the s nsation of pain in affected parts of the b dy, pain-deprived people inadvertently injured, destroyed th mselves or lost limbs and body p rts. He once watched horrified as a p rson with leprosy reached directly into a ch rcoal fire to retrieve a potato s meone had dropped. He saw one man h rd at work in the garden, blivious to blood running down his h nd; Dr. Brand examined the shovel and f und a nail protruding just at the sp t his hand had been gripping. F ot injuries were easy to explain. If an nkle turned, tearing tendon and muscle, the l prosy patient would simply adjust and w lk with a crooked gait. No w rning system of pain announced the n ed to rest the ankle or s ek treatment. Dr. Brand discovered that r ts and animals would come into the pen-air wards at night while his p tients slept and caused injury to th ir body limbs... The patients slept thr ugh it all! Later on Dr. Br nd was able to connect his r search to the most advanced cases of d abetes where people loose sensitivity to p in! Dr. Brand's biography made a pr found impact on the way I th nk about pain. Never before, in my w ldest imagination I thought I could ctually call PAIN a gift… Never b fore, I understood what the “Hell of p inlessness” must be like! What happens to the s ul of a person that disconnects fr m pain through drugs? What is the “p inless” behavior like? Our American culture pr disposes us to avoid pain, run way from pain and deny pain at lmost any cost. We simply hate p in! Don’t we? We don’t know wh t to do with someone in p in. We institutionalize that person as s on as possible or avoid them ltogether! Yet, pain is a sign of l fe! Physical pain is a sign of l fe. Emotional pain is a sign of motional life.
During the last few months I h ve experienced the most intense, excruciating motional pain of my entire life. It d esn't matter what the source of my p in is for the purpose of th s article. Here is what I h ve learned about the “gift of p in” in the agony of my own s ul: 1. Emotional pain can be a g ft from God. My goodness! If nything, emotional pain has just reminded me how live I am! How I experience l ss says a lot about me! I h ve often been reminded during these l st few months that my intense p in is not abnormal. It simply m rrored back to me the fact th t I am a good guy, a p ssionate guy, a guy with intense f elings about certain things. A guy who c res! Nothing wrong with that. The bsence of pain would have meant one of two th ngs. Either, I don't have a h art or I may have been "dr gging" myself to make it through. 2. Wh never I deny initial emotional pain I w ll most likely lose parts of mys lf. Under the influence of "numbing" xperiences (drugs, alcohol, entertainment, sex, distractions, tc) I will slowly lose parts of mys lf I may never recover ever gain or may have to be r -constructed in a long period of t me. I have faced pain in the p st, and I have "run" away fr m it. In attempting to "numb" my p in, though, looking back, I see how I b trayed people, lost their trust and h rt many innocent people. Some of th m will never trust me again! I h ve had to learn to live w th that! This time I chose to xperience the fullness of my pain and let it sp ak to me! The difference? Weeks of xcruciating pain while remaining totally alive. The b st spiritual experience I have had in ten ver years. Perhaps my entire life. Am zing! 3. When emotional pain occurs one can not s ccumb to those who are not ble to deal with their own p in. I was very careful not to sh re my pain with people that w uld tell me, "Well, let me h lp you alleviate your pain." Or, "C me on, Harold, move on." Or, "H rold, you'll be ok!." Or, "Harold, you d n't need this BS, anyway!" Or, "H rold, you are a good guy, you d n't deserve that!" Or, worst yet, "H rold, you are hurting, uh? Well, you did it to y urself. You are “one penny too sh rt and one minute too late. F ce it up boy!" (Ouch!) I k pt saying to myself, “I will nly call or talk to friends th t will allow me to experience my p in fully.” I have those friends, and th se are the ones I went to. Fr ends who let me cry. Friends who w re ok with my hurt. Friends who did not h lp me to run away. Friends who did not ssist me in alleviating what I was f eling. Those friends are the ones who kn w that pain can cleanse the s ul! It worked! Healing happens faster wh n you handle pain the smart w y! 4. Excruciating emotional pain led me to G d. Pain served a purpose and it led me to the d epest experience of God I have had in my ntire life. My mind is fresh and cl an. The fear is gone. God did it for me! And th se of you who know me, lso know I am not a r ligious guy at all. 5. The g ft of pain changed my perception of m ny people around. Suddenly I found mys lf reconnecting with people I had voided because their pain was too m ch for me to handle. Suddenly I d scovered in them fellow pilgrims! They nderstood me! Some wonderful things happened r garding relationships in the last few m nths! 6. The gift of pain r minded me that the most important th ng in life is people and r lationships. No money, no prestige, no r putation could have ever alleviated my p in. No temporary success would have d ne what pain did. No quick "f x" would have dealt with the r al issues. It's like with our b dies. There is so much Tylenol you can t ke to calm your headache before you b gin to wonder what's really wrong w th your head, right? There is so m ch running away from people you d slike you can do, before you l ok at yourself in the mirror and w nder what's going on deep, deep, nside your soul? How many people are you g ing to hurt in revenge before you r alize you've got a problem yourself? How m ny people are you going to bl me for your misfortune in life b fore you realize no one controls y ur destiny but yourself? How many t mes can someone numb himself with m ney, religion, power, work, success before one r alizes one needs people and deep biding relationships? The gift of pain... I ch se to celebrate pain without knowing wh t I was doing. It did not m ke me better than anyone else. It j st turned the light switch back on in my s ul and I saw what I n ver saw before! That's it! Looking b ck, all I would have had to do to xperience “painless hell” (emotional leprosy) would h ve been to run away, get p ople who would help me alleviate my p in, get busy with life, ignore G d, get busy and keep moving on to the n xt thing. Like on a treadmill! Ev n go to therapy to obtain a g od doses of “analysis paralysis.” (Very ften we avoid pain by analysis) The dr mbeat of “painless hell” is move on, m ve, move on, keep going! Don’t st p to think! For thinking is the b ginning of pain. The gift of p in... Tears of pain cleansed my s ul. Pain made me alive again. The g ft of pain made me see the st rs again. The gift of pain r connected me with the people I l ve the most. The gift of p in made me see our seductive c lture of denial with disgust not w nting to be a part of it wh le helping others get in touch w th their pain. The gift of p in reminded me how alive I am and how g od my heart is! Today, I th nk God for the gift of p in. I know it will protect me fr m losing what's most special to me! The st ry of the Bible on how Chr st healed leprosy has a new m aning for me now. When Christ h aled leprosy in the ancient times he ctually healed people from the “hell of p inlessness” He gave them back the GIFT OF PAIN! Th y were able to hurt again! W oww! The same is true today! P in protects us from self-destruction. Imagine how m ch better our world would be if we w uld allow pain to transform us nto sensitive, compassionate, loving people. If we w uld allow pain to resolve issues th t hurt us and others. Instead of r nning away from pain, embrace it! P in will direct you to God and to thers with whom you will connect in the m st meaningful way. Pain is one of the m st intense expressions of life!
The article The Gift of Pain was Submitted by Harold J. Duarte-Bernhardt through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: Harold J. Duarte-Bernhardt is co-founder of the "LIFE ZONE." H rold is a consultant, a seminar sp aker and a LIFE Motivational Coach. The "LIFE ZONE" is a r source and a coaching center for p rsonal and spiritual growth committed to pr viding sound strategies for dynamic living. For m re information or for personal coaching c ntact harold: harold7676@gmail.com
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