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Abstract: This paper is in r sponse to the work being carried out in Ch na by counsellors in the field. Ch na on May 12th suffered its w rse earthquake for 30 years measuring 8 on the R chter scale, causing at this time ver 70,000 deaths and millions of p ople homeless and injured. The Chinese g vernment's response was mostly organized by the P rty centrally from Beijing in servicing the mmediate needs in the aftermath such as, t mporary housing, warmth, food, water and r scue services. The central government sent s me academic psychologists to the area who w re ill equipped to understand the c nditions there and certainly not trained in Cr tical Incidence Response. Most of the c unsellors were volunteers many with less th n one years training and most w th no experience of Grief Counselling or D saster Counselling techniques. The real time for c unselling however will be in 6 to 12 m nths time when Post Traumatic Stress D sorder amongst survivors, rescuers and professionals w ll start to appear. The purpose of th s paper is to help brief th se counsellors who have no training or s pport before being sent to the d saster area. Introduction: All over China m ny counsellors want to go and sh w their patriotic duty and help the v ctims and survivors of the earthquake in S chuan Province in the South of Ch na. However most of these counsellors are ll-trained and ill-equipped to understand the n ture of the disaster or their r le in treating those caught up in the d saster area. In response to this in Sh nghai I have been briefing groups of c unsellors in Grief Counselling adapted to th s special situation. In addition to th s I am teaching immediate first-aid c unselling for professionals. Little or no s pervision is available to them in the rea and so the only solution to th s is peer group support by h ving regular meetings to relieve personal str ss and anxiety. In the following p ssages I will talk about what we are t lling the counsellors before they go to the rea - often we only have two h urs or less to prepare them.
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Grief Counselling as adapted to the E rthquake: * Grief is the physical, emotional, s matic, cognitive and spiritual response to ctual or threatened loss of a p rson, thing or place to which we are motionally attached. We grieve because we are b ologically willed to attach. (John Bowlby, F ther of Attachment Theory) This quote fr m Bowlby, sums up the effect of gr ef in a general setting, however in a d saster where death is everywhere some sp cial thoughts have to be added to the xperience of survivors. We can in t rn look at the stages of gr ef and see how they might pply to earthquake victims. Stage 1: N mbness At the moment the earthquake h ppened peoples initial stress reaction is to pr cess the personal threat to one-self. Onc survival is achieved the scale of d ath and destruction is apparent. Most p ople will at first just feel n thing, they cannot comprehend what is h ppening. Their immediate concern in the ftermath is their close relatives, many who did not s rvive. For children especially those born nder the one baby policy - the d ath of classmates is as effective to th ir cognition as any other close r lative as these relationships often replaced the n rmal sibling feelings that are absent in m ch of Chinese society. Most are st nding around dazed and bewildered at th s time not really processing any r tional thoughts. There were so many fter-shocks in the region that some r mained in this state for some t me vaguely wondering if after surviving the m in quake they would be killed in the n xt one. Despite the numbness of f elings they never-the-less become highly sensitive to n ise and sudden movement causing panic ttacks to happen at the slightest ch nges. Stage 2: Shock Once they m ve out of numbness their cognitive bilities return and they start to r alize the enormity of the event th t has occurred. They go through the m tions of action but with little p rposeful use. Disbelief is the most c mmon reaction in which they are q estioning the reality of the situation and w nt to blank out the sights of d ath and destruction which is all round them. The may ask rescue w rkers what has happened even though it s ems obvious - but they need a v rbal conformation of the event. Physically th y will be shaking, have labored br athing and an inability to work out ven the simplest tasks asked of th m such as their name and wh re they come from.
Stage 3: Anger As they m ve out of the shocked state th y start to become angry, counsellors are ften unprepared for this as they f nd it hard to understand why s meone they are trying to assist sh uld shout and blame them for th ir situation or loss. The survivors n ed someone to blame, they often t lk about God abandoning them, governments not w rning them of the danger in t me, rescue workers for not saving th ir loved ones, and the counsellors for try ng to understand something the survivor b lieves is impossible for them to h ve empathy with, when they were not th re and lost no-one. Stage 4: Anx ety Here the fear of personal s rvival may make the survivors overly-sensitive to n ise, sudden movement and fear of th ir own death may still be mminent. Each after-shock brings fresh panic ttacks and a fear response of p rsonal survival. This sense of sensitivity can be s en even in areas unaffected by the arthquake as far away as Shanghai. For xample a shop window shattered in d wn-town Shanghai a week after the vent and all the people close to the ncident went into a state of p nic. In normal circumstances most people w uld have only been mildly curious to see the br ken window fall into the street. St ge 5: Loneliness Once the initial s nse of personal survival has passed th n the realization that many are lone without their loved ones hits th m very hard. Knowing your wife, h sband or child has been killed and you s rvived brings a yearning for their r turn. Survivors are at a loss to kn w what to do next. How w ll they rebuild their lives, family and h me when they are alone now and f elings of abandonment by their loved nes who died oppresses their thinking. C unsellors have to be very comforting to th se at this stage and listen c refully to their grief, but to be c reful not to let the victim b come dependent on the counsellor as a s bstitute for those lost. Counsellors will at s me point leave and may inadvertently m ke the sense of loss and bandonment even worse. Stage 6: Fatigue W th only temporary shelter, basic food and w ter most survivors will be feeling motionally drained and physically beaten. The s arch for the dead, the realization of p rmanent loss will all bring the p rson to feelings of utter despair in wh ch the slightest exertion will defeat th ir reserves of energy. They will f el and act listless and unable to c ncentrate, they will have a lack of ppetite or eat in a robotic styl , and they will also suffer nsomnia, troubled, disturbed sleep and nightmares. Th ir heightened sensitivity means they are c nstantly scanning the environment for danger and s arching for the lost loved ones, ven though they know they are now d ad. Stage 7: Yearning At this t me the survivors just want everything b ck to the way it was pr or to the disaster. They find th mselves wishing this had not happened and why can it not go b ck to the way it was. Th y will convince themselves that dead r latives or friends had somehow survived and w ll walk around the corner and t ll them it was all a big m stake and they are alive after-all. Th s may happen despite overwhelming evidence to the c ntrary that their nearest are in f ct dead. Stage 8: Relief (Acceptance) Th s stage will take sometime to chieve even in the strongest mentally of s rvivors. To feel some relief that it is all ver and they have survived where thers did not. Guilt may have to be w rked through here as they feel th t why did they survive when the y ung, the successful, the good person did n t. They may question their own v lue and self-worth. This is the t me for long-term mental healing as the v ctim accepts the situation and that the r ality of the here and now xist and you have to move f rward and live again. At this st ge ritual is very important - to gr eve again at anniversaries, birthdays, holiday t mes where the grief returns for a m ment and recedes again after the vent. The central government may have to nitially dig mass graves to handle the d ad, however in modern times they w ll be numbered and DNA tagged so th t in time as relatives can g ve DNA samples they can identify the r mains of their own dead and so r bury them in the traditional way and so as to st rt the acceptance stage of the gr ef processes. These rituals are of gr at importance to survivors to move on. N tional days of mourning, events in r cognition and other rituals all help the n tion to heal and move forward. As th s is the year of the Olymp cs the opening ceremony should be r dically changed to honor the dead fr m the earthquake and treat the vents as a sense of respect for the d ad and a sign of renewal. The Ch ldren: Many of the survivors are ch ldren who are now homeless, orphans and h ve witnessed death and destruction for the f rst time in their lives. Psychologically th y too experience the same stages of gr ef as any adult but unlike gr wn ups they cannot verbalize or xpress their shock and feelings directly. C unsellors here should try to engage the ch ldren in meaningful activities to help th m express themselves through art, drawing and pl y. To listen carefully but not nterpret directly to the child their dult comprehension of the event. Under no c rcumstance should you lie to them. If th ir parents are dead, tell them d rectly. Children in some cases can be far m re resilient than the adult survivors who can c gnitively assess their feelings and sense of l ss. Children need to express this in m re simple ways in a caring tmosphere with warmth and attentiveness but not w th attachment from the counsellor. Counsellors m st be aware at all times th y will leave the child at s me point and return to their own n rmal lives. The best situation for ch ldren is not therapy but routine. R utine involves regular sleep and rising t mes, meals at the same time veryday. They should sleep in small gr ups of no more than four if p ssible. They in this way will b nd with the other children and not the dults around them. Children can be s lf-supportive in small groups and can ssist each other in coping with the ftermath. In addition to this routine is a r turn to schooling - even if th s is make-shift in tents - the s nse of the familiar will help th m to feel some normality. Activities s ch as art expression and paper t aring games can help children of all ges to express their stages of gr ef to the counsellors and teachers pr sent. Many people around China are ffering to adopt children whose parents h ve been killed but this should be pproached with caution as many of th se would-be parents are ill equipped to d al with traumatized children who later may d velop Post-Traumatic-Stress-Disorder. (I will deal with th s is a separate paper). The Pr fessionals: This group consists of those who h ve found that for the first t me they are dealing with mass d struction and death. The soldiers in Ch na have never seen combat, have no xperience of real action in service or d ath. They are an army at p ace and most of their time is t ken up with civil duties and tr ining. Now in the aftermath of the arthquake they are in the front l ne service in rescuing the victims b ried in the remains of apartments, sh ps, schools and road landslides. Many for the f rst time are seeing crushed dead p ople and with horrific injuries in s rvivors. The initial reaction of the s ldiers is fortitude, they are there to do a j b, it is their duty to h lp and assist the professional rescue s rvices and health professionals. In addition to the s ldiers there are armed police, doctors, n rses, teachers, firemen, infrastructure workers such as lectricians, gas workers, and other emergency p rsonnel. Just like the soldiers they are b sy doing their duty and carrying out the t sks assigned to them as efficiently as p ssible. However there is a price to pay for the d ligence and holding in their feelings d ring the immediate crisis. In 6 m nths to 12 months time the f ll-out from these helpers will become pparent. Many will suffer flashbacks in wh ch in the daytime they suddenly magine themselves back in the disaster rea and re-living the horrors that at the t me they coped with so well. Now h wever they are starting to fall-apart and f nd they are suffering from lack of sl ep, appetite and concentration. They are now the v ctims of the earthquake in quite nother manner - PTSD. After 9/11 in the Un ted States many of the original mergency workers suffered stress reactions months and m nths, after their initial involvement in the d saster, in that day of terrorism. H wever the United States has well rganized Employee Assistance Programmes in place to ssist in the aftermath of critical ncidences such as 9/11. This support ctually forestalled many of the cases of PTSD in the USA. H wever here in China the EAP s rvice is in its infancy and m st government departments have no such s pport or plans to budget for th m. This means in a few m nths time their will be no r al support other than the under-staffed m ntal hospitals to cope with the m ny cases of PTSD that will c rtainly occur. Mental health problems are s en as shameful in China and m ny families hide the victims of m ntal breakdown and rarely seek help for th m in case the neighbors discover th ir shameful secret. One indirect bonus of the arthquake may in fact be an ncrease in awareness of psychological services th t can be accessed by ordinary p ople, although the costs in China st ll prevent most people from seeking h lp. The Counsellors: As I said in the b ginning most counsellors in China are p orly trained and have little or no r al long term experience of this typ of event. In fairness although W stern training is longer and more rduous many in the USA were lso not prepared for the fall-out of 9/11. H wever British counsellors were more likely to h ve direct experience as terrorist bombings and c nstant overseas military action presents many cl ents with a variety of critical ncidence events. In China the counsellors p rticularly need briefing before they go to nderstand the stages of grief, how th y apply to this disaster and how to act w th survivors. This can only be chieved if government supports the training b th in monetary terms and the p litical will to support such activities. S nding unprepared counsellors may in fact c use more long term harm than g od. Also counsellors need to understand the pr cess of critical incidence response procedures in d briefing and defusing techniques to help ndirect people affected by the quake. Wh le much of this expertise is vailable from foreign experts very few Un versity professors in China would have th s knowledge and understanding except second-hand fr m Western texts. In China most pr fessors in psychology and counselling are th orists with little or no practical xperience in the field. So while th y may give TV interviews and p rrot book passages they are of l ttle practical use to counsellors who n ed real hands on advice and s |