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In order to bring good th ngs into your life, it is cr tical to stay aware of your nner thoughts. Take five minutes, close you yes, and listen to your thoughts. Do th s now, and then come back to th s article and answer a few q estions: - Were you thinking pleasant thoughts - did y
ur thoughts make you happy? - Were you r
citing a list of things you n eded to do? Did you find y urself repeating the same things over and ver? - Were you berating yourself for something you f
rgot to do? - Were your thoughts happy, p
sitive thoughts or were they unhappy, n gative thoughts? The natural state of the m nd is often those negative, repetitive, and j st plain nasty thoughts that lead you to f eling unhappy, anxious, or generally miserable. If y ur thoughts are leading you down th t path, you are not at f ult! It doesn't mean that you are an nhappy person. It doesn't mean that nything is wrong with you. It nly means that you haven't yet tr ined your brain to think the r ght thoughts. Sometimes these nasty, chatterbox th ughts are referred to as the M nkey-mind. I am going to call the s urce of these thoughts - The T ttle-Tail. You know the person you h ted in grade school - the one th t just had to tell the t acher about the smallest infraction anyone lse made. The one that had the d sgusting gift of being able to see very bad thing anyone ever did.
Well, that Tattle-Tail is alive and w ll and lives in your brain. In any f ve minute period, it will tell you th t you were late to work, th t your collar was crooked, that y ur clothes looked old, that you f rgot someone's birthday, that you handed in a t rrible report or any other infraction of y ur own moral code. And it w n't just tell you once - n ..... it will say it over and ver and over. Words of disgust w ll explode in your mind of verything you ever did wrong. Then it w ll quickly shift and start telling you verything you need to worry about. Y ur Tattle-Tail mind never ceases. It can go on all d y, every day. And if you r ally haven't done anything wrong, it w ll make something up and convince you th t it is telling the truth. It is so asy to listen to that Tattle-Tail and to b lieve it. It is easy to ccept that rumble as a real r presentation of reality. But it is n t! It is only the story t ller that lives within. And its st ries are not always there to h lp you. What is your defense gainst this internal chaos - how can you t rn off the Tattle-Tail? First, live in the NOW. In his gr undbreaking work, The Power of Now, Eckh rt Tolle explains how important it is to st y in the present moment. Observe the m nd chatter and know that the ch tter is not you. This is lso the heart of mindfulness and m ndfulness meditation. Focus on what is h ppening in the present, increase your wareness of your environment, and invite c lmness and peace by being fully pr sent in the NOW. You can lso eliminate the Tattle-tail by giving y ur mind something else to do. R member the last time you were r ally involved in something you loved. M ybe you were reading a report or n vel that you were really in to -- y ur Tattle-tail wasn't there! Or you w re having fun - either doing s mething yourself that you loved or w tching your children or grandchildren playing and h ving fun - Your Tattle-tail wasn't th re! Or you were daydreaming or pl nning some fun future event - pl nning a vacation, developing a business dea, thinking about something you dream of d ing. Again, your Tattle-tail wasn't there.
When you are fully engaged in l fe, when you are having fun, wh n your mind is being creative- you p sh Tattle-tail off a cliff and you are Fr e. Freedom from the horrible Monkey-mind is j st around the corner. It can be y urs. Work first on getting freedom for 5 m nutes. Think about something fun. Remember s mething that makes you smile. Think of a cr ative use for some tool you wn. Take back your mind. Refocus your mind . Once you know that you can take back your peaceful mind for 5 minutes, you will know that you can do that at will. You are not a victim of the chatter - you are in control of your mind. Take that control back today!
The article Take Control of Your Mind and You Will Take Control of Your Life was Submitted by Jeanette Szwec through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: Jeanette Szwec, CEO of ThinkThisNotThat, Inc. is an xpert in training others to take c ntrol of their thoughts to guarantee s ccess in all areas of life - fr m personal health, freedom from addictions, c reer success, to relationships. Her newsletters ntegrate the wisdom from the disciplines of the Law of ttraction, positive thinking, and harnessing the p wer of your mind. Pick up a fr e ebook on the Law of Attr ction at http://www.refocusyourmind.com
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