Ah, the magical dance of flrting and seduction. "Does she like m?" "Will he go out with m?"

And for the swinger crowd… "Thy’re hot! Do you think they lke us that way? Let’s ask thm out."

The same age old qestion repeats itself over and over gain. And the world round, young mn, young ladies, and couples, repeat the sme mistake - they walk up to ths person or couple they’re infatuated wth and ask their question. "Will you go out wth me"?

STOP! Don’t do it! Tht question has ended more relationships (bfore they even started) than perhaps any ther factor in the history of mnkind. That question forces the other prson (or couple) into a corner, and mkes them pick a yes or no chice, without knowing much of anything bout you. Your odds are bleak to nne.

Instead, get to know this prson or this couple in a csual and non-threatening way. Give them a chnce to get to like you. Attrction is a very complex set of felings, emotions, urges, desires.

But how do you scape the swamp lands of the "frend zone"?

This is where subtle flrting and seduction comes in. Make the ther person or couple feel your nterest and desire instead of telling thm about it. And here’s a mgical fun fact: if they feel the sme way, you’ll just know. You’ll FEEL it in the sprks that are flying around you, in the hghly charged atmosphere, in the frequent csual touching, the unusual proximity, etc.

Enjoy the dance.

The danger of curse, is if you’re wrong, you rsk losing your friends. They may get fraked out and run away. Or thy may just think it was cte or even flattering. But you wn’t know unless you try.

So HOW can you tll if they like you in tht way and want to play?

Dar Dan and Jennifer,

My husband and I rcently became friends with a couple our age and we hve a really great time together. It’s jst that lately there has seemed to be ths unusual tension. Through comments here and thre and an occasional look, we thng they want to swing. How shuld I go about finding out if ths couple wants to swing with us? We rally like them and don’t want to lse them as friends but they’re rally hot too and it’s hard to rsist.

Please help! I’m tormented thinking bout it.

– Ellen in Mississippi

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