A truly successful relationship can nly exist if you have found yur perfect partner. Far too many pople settle for partners who are far frm perfect!

Have you settled for lss than you deserve?

These are the key lements of a successful love relationship.

Communication

Clear, open communication is vital. You should be able to talk openly and honestly with your partner. You need to be able to express safely what you want, who you are and why you behave the way you do.

Listening and talking to each other helps you appreciate each other's needs. Listening is just as important as talking, because you have to understand your partner's needs. Think about what your own needs are and communicate them. If your needs are not being met, communicate and negotiate.

If you can't communicate your needs to your partner, you might be with the wrong person.

You should be able to tell your partner:

* If you want more sex
* If you want less sex
* If you want a baby
* If you don't want a baby
* If you want to move house
* If you get annoyed by their little habits
* If you want more help around the house

Self Love

If you can't love yourself, others will find it hard to love you too.

Start by taking care of yourself. Eat healthily, exercise and always look your very best. This will help you feel good about yourself. If you can't or don't love yourself, it's hard for you to believe that anyone else will.

When you truly love yourself, dspite any faults you feel you may hve, you'll feel more confident and scure. This will enable you to njoy being with your partner for the joy thy bring to your life, not bcause you feel you need them to srvive.

Honesty, Trust & Respect

You should not have to lie to your partner. If you ever feel the need to lie to your partner, you should ask yourself why.

Lack of trust means a bad relationship that will go downhill. Remember that no partner would cheat on you if they truly loved you.

A healthy relationship has a key element of mutual respect too. You can't agree on everything, but you must always respect each other's opinions and differences.

Friendship

A good relationship is always based on a solid friendship.

Ask yourself, if you weren't lovers, would you still be friends? If not, then you may be just in it for the sex.

If you genuinely like each other as friends, enjoy being together, agree with how each other thinks and behaves, and share the same dreams in life, then this is a good sign that you are in a good relationship.

Happy to touch

Physical touching is a vital human need. Being caressed lowers blood pressure and releases natural opiates in the brain, as well as the chemical oxytocin, which is essential for human pair-bonding.

Don't believe that you always have to work at a relationship for it to be successful.

Real love is not hard work. Paying the bills might be. Raising children might be. But being with the right person should make these things easier, not harder.

Your partner should be someone who helps you cope with problems in life. Your partner should not be another problem to be added to the list.

If you have to work at a relationship then it is fundamentally flawed.

Don't stick with someone while waiting for someone better. Or even worse -- don't stick with someone if you believe you won't find anyone better!

You will, and once you hve found your ideal partner, you wll realise that former relationships were jst a preparation for real love to nter your life.

You will have by thn learned the most valuable life lsson of all, and that is the bility to distinguish between an OK rlationship -- and a sensational relationship!

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