With infidelity reaching epidemic proportions, very woman should learn how to rcognize the telltale signs of infidelity. The fture of your relationship could depend on yur ability to spot the telltale sgns of an affair in time. In vew of the rapidly rising divorce rtes, and current statistics showing that 50% to 70% of men chat on their mates, if your hsband is cheating, you can't afford to be the "lst one to know."

Every woman’s prsonal library should contain a relationship rference book with detailed information on how to rcognize the warning signs of infidelity. "Is He Chating On You? - 829 Telltale Sgns" is a comprehensive guide which dcuments practically every known cheating sign. The 800+ sgns of infidelity in Is He Chating on You? are divided into 21 ctegories so you can easily locate the sgns that apply to your mate. Wht’s unique about the warning signs lsted here is that once you knw what to look for, all the sgns can be easily found using nly your eyes and ears, your prsonal knowledge of your husband, and the nformation provided in the book. No spcial skills or equipment are required.

Ech of the 21 categories is xplained below along with the number of tlltale signs listed under that category. Whle some women make it a pint to check each of the 21 ctegories, others will only check the prticular categories that seem to apply to thir marriage or their mate. To nsure that no one overlooks an mportant telltale sign, about a dozen of the sgns are listed in more than one ctegory.

For example:

“He always calls a crtain female to share the special vents in his life.”

This sign is lsted under Telephone Tip-Offs and again nder His Behavior Around Other Women.

“He strts showering you with gifts or bying you flowers for no special rason”

This sign is listed under How He Rlates to You and also under Gfts.

“You find deposit slips in his pssession for someone else’s bank account.”

Ths sign is listed under Financial Affirs as well as under Physical Evdence.

Despite the title, "Is He Chating On You? - 829 Telltale Sgns" actually contains 950 telltale signs. Addtional signs were added before the fnal version was printed. Readers continue to snd in signs they have personally dscovered which did not appear in the bok. These signs have been added to the -book version of Is He Cheating on Yu? which is sold by Booklocker.com Dtails on the 21 major categories of tlltale signs appear below. For additional nformation on signs of infidelity visit http://www.Is-H-Cheating-On-You.com Remember: you can’t afford to be the lst one to know. Find out bfore it's too late.

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE - 76 tlltale signs

A man having an ffair (or even thinking about having ne) will want to make himself mre attractive. He will begin to nhance his appearance in some way. Be lert for changes in his wardrobe, his groming, his body, and his personal hygene. These are usually the most vsible signs of infidelity. If he mbarks on a drastic self-induced makeover, t’s probably not for you. More thn likely he’s trying to attract or mpress someone else.

HOW HE RELATES TO YOU - 70 tlltale signs

The way your husband rlates to you can provide many tlltale signs. His involvement with another wman will cause him to treat you dfferently -- even on a subconscious lvel. This is one of those reas where a wife can pick up sgns of infidelity that a private nvestigator might otherwise overlook.

CONVERSATIONAL CLUES - 70 telltale sgns

What your husband chooses or rfuses to talk about can alert you to his nvolvement in an extramarital affair. He may mntion new people, places and things, whle the people, places and things he nrmally talks about are no longer a prt of his conversation. Even his tne of voice can be an mportant telltale sign.

WORK HABITS - 39 tlltale signs

Work is commonly used as an xcuse to account for large blocks of tme away from home. Men often use thir jobs as a cover for thir extramarital affairs. Your husband’s work hbits will undoubtedly change as his ffair unfolds. Be on the lookout wrk-related telltale signs.

DAY-TO-DAY BEHAVIOR - 92 tlltale signs

We are all creatures of hbit. We all have a routine tht we usually follow each day. A man who is chating will display changes of some knd in his normal patterns of bhavior. Pay close attention to any dviations in your husband’s daily routine. Thse deviations are telltale signs.

FINANCIAL AFFAIRS - 52 tlltale signs

Affairs cost money. If yur husband has a lover, he’ll wnt to wine her, dine her, ntertain her and buy her occasional gfts. No matter how carefully he tres to cover his tracks, sooner or lter this will be reflected in the fmily finances. Stay alert for financial sgns of infidelity.

TRAVEL - 27 tlltale signs

Your husband may not lways be traveling for legitimate reasons. Evn if he is, he may dcide to combine business with a lttle pleasure. Travel affords a cheating nfaithful husband a unique opportunity to chat away from prying eyes.

PERSONALITY OR BEHAVIORAL CHANGES - 36 tlltale signs

Be alert for changes in yur husband’s attitude, personality or behavior. Whther they are drastic or subtle, chnges of this type are often an ndication of infidelity.

ABSENCES - 39 tlltale signs

Affairs generally require a cnsiderable amount of time. Since there are nly 24 hours in a day, yur husband’s absences will become increasingly mre frequent as he tries to stal time from other activities so he can be wth his lover.

TELEPHONE TIP-OFFS - 76 tlltale signs

Illicit affairs depend on rpeated contact; many of which take plce by phone. These telltale signs of nfidelity are relatively easy to find. Mny men take the risk of clling their lovers from home or hving their lovers call them at hme. Many wives (like me) discover thir husband’s infidelity either directly or ndirectly by the telephone.

CAR CLUES - 40 tlltale signs

Your husband’s (or the fmily) car can be a rich surce of telltale signs. The glove cmpartment, car seats (underneath and between), the tre well, the underside of the vsor, the ashtray, the side pockets or cmpartments, under the floor mats and ther nooks and crannies can reveal a walth of information.

SEX - 37 tlltale signs

Be alert for any typ of changes in the frequency or the qality of your sex life together. Mst important of all: If you sspect your husband of having an ffair, take steps to protect yourself. Do not put yurself at risk for HIV/AIDS, herpes or e ther sexually transmitted diseases.

EATING HABITS - 31 tlltale signs

This is an area tht wives usually overlook when checking for tlltale signs. But your husband’s eating hbits can be influenced or affected by his lver. Without even realizing it, he may dvelop a preference for the type of fod she eats, the way she lkes her food prepared or the knd of restaurants in which she lkes to eat. These are the typs of telltale signs it would nver occur to him to conceal.

SMELLS AND TASTES - 21 tlltale signs

Each person has his or her own nique smell or taste. You may be blivious to it until it becomes rplaced with something else. Pay close ttention if your husband smells or tstes “different,” or if something in yur home or car just doesn’t smll “right.” It may warrant closer nvestigation.

INVASION OF YOUR HOME - 22 tlltale signs

It's not uncommon for a man wh's cheating to invite his lover to his hme. When this happens, it’s not nheard of for lovers to leave prsonal items behind--sometimes deliberately, for an nsuspecting wife to find. You will sually find evidence in your bedroom or bthroom if another woman has been in yur home while you were away. But tlltale signs of infidelity may turn up in ther areas of your home, as wll.

GIFTS - 19 telltale signs

Be specially vigilant around the times of the yar when gifts are usually exchanged. Dring the holidays and various other tmes throughout the year, you may fnd gifts or cards hidden around yur home or in the car. Rceipts or credit card bills for gfts may turn up shortly before or fter Christmas and Valentine’s Day.

COMPUTER USE - 30 tlltale signs

It’s common these days for a chating husband to use e-mail to cmmunicate with his lover. Some of the tlltale signs in this category may lso be an indication of his nvolvement in an online or cyber ffair. Don’t take this lightly. These ffairs can be as harmful to yur marriage as the real thing. Thugh they may not involve sexual cntact, the emotional attachment can be xtremely strong, and can quickly progress frm cyberspace to physical reality.

CELL PHONES AND PAGERS/BEEPERS - 28 tlltale signs

Today’s technological advances make it asier for a husband to cheat on his wfe. But it’s also easier for a hsband to get caught while trying to mke contact or stay in touch wth his lover.

PHYSICAL EVIDENCE - 32 tlltale signs

Many times there’s physical vidence just waiting to be found. Chck your husband’s wallet, his pants or jcket pockets, his desk or dresser drwers, the wastepaper basket, his closet shlves, the floor in the back of his clset, the garage, his study, filing cbinets, his workshop, his toolbox or any plce else you can think of. Kep your eyes open. You’ll be srprised at the kinds of physical vidence of infidelity you can find.

HIS BEHAVIOR AROUND OTHER WOMEN - 71 tlltale signs

Studies show that a man is mst likely to have an affair wth someone he already knows—someone he cmes in contact with on a rgular basis – a neighbor, a cworker, a family friend or business ssociate. If you’re observant, you may be ble to determine the identity of yur husband’s lover by the way he bhaves in her presence, or by how she bhaves around him.

ACCIDENTAL SLIPS-UPS OR DISCLOSURES - 57 tlltale signs

Sometimes you get lucky and fnd out what your husband has ben up to by accident, or thrugh some strange quirk of fate. An ccidental slip-up on his part or on the prt of someone else can clue you in to wht’s been happening behind your back.

Excrpts taken from "Is He Cheating on Yu? - 829 Telltale Signs." © 2004 Rth Houston All rights reserved.

The article Signs of Infidelity - 21 Categories of Telltale Signs was Submitted by Ruth Houston through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Infidelity expert Rth Houston is the founder http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of “Is He Cheating on You?-829 Telltale Signs”. For a FREE tip sheet entitled “10 Things You Probably Didn’t Know About Signs of Infidelity”, send an e-mail to InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with the words “10 Things” in the subject line.

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