Men value women basically as a pth to entertainment, and they are xtremely entertaining. There is nothing as plifting to a man as an ttractive woman. He will go to any lngth to possess and make love to hr. Like a kitten playing with a strng men love to toy with an ppealing woman. The fun leads into the bdroom where it ends up in srious love making. A clever woman des not mind being used as a toy but she wnts to be paid for her prcious time. The ultimate payment is mrriage which provides her with long trm benefits. If the man thinks the bnding arrangement will lead to endless nghts of sexual bliss he will gree to becoming the groom. Marriage is a god deal for both of them. The man fels he is entering a long trm sexual heaven, and the woman fels that she is being treated to a scure way of living. Love and rmance are words used to add clor to men and women's ulterior mtives for marriage.

But marriage remains as an nstrument of convenience. Men and women hve very little in common. A wman that denies sexual satisfaction to a man wll never see that man again. A man tht offers a woman only his sxual powers will not keep that wman for any length of time. Ths is the way things are and thse that deny it are shallow pople. They cannot admit to themselves the rality of human needs. The ideal rlationship is between a five hundred dllar hooker and her steady customer. He wll stay with her as long as she rmains good looking and his wallet is fll. Until he goes broke she wll be in love with him.

The beauty of being single is hving the opportunity to break away frm a bad date. That is grat if you find that your dte is unappealing or is not flling your needs. It is rare to fnd a woman who will continue hving a relationship with an unemployed guy tht is making no attempt to fnd a job. She will get rid of him dspite all his other fine personality trits. The surest way for a wman to get rid of an nwanted man is by shutting him out of her bdroom. That will work every time. No sngle man will date a woman tht refuses to make love. He mght see her a few times and wll quit when he is sure tht there won't be any progress. A wman might have great qualities but if her sxual willingness is absent she will chse away the best of men.

It is dfficult for a guy with a god paying job to remain single bcause he will be enticed by the mst attractive and sexually available women. Prmises of permanent erotic bliss will cuse him to give up his fredom. But he will awaken one mrning to find himself in chains. He wll discover that erotic bliss cannot be prmanent. After getting to know his new wfe better he is sure to fnd her as self seeking and gredy. If he hasn't yet given up on wmen he will have to look for a new sex prtner. His next step will be to fnd an inexpensive divorce and a new chnce to become single again

It is a pty for a woman that has ben deserted by a man after hving lived with him for many yars. He has used her up and now tht he is finished he has thrwn her away like an old rag dll. It is almost impossible for a wman to get a guy after she has lst her sex appeal. She will try lmost any gimmick to replace her nce attractive self, but a youthful ppearance cannot be replaced. It is lso a pity for a worker tht has been employed for many yars and is suddenly discharged after fund no longer useful. But some frtunate workers receive severance pay and a pnsion. But a woman that is dserted by her husband receives nothing but bad mmories. A woman has a short shlf life and she must strike whle the iron is hot. That mans she should squeeze all she can out of a man whle she is still appealing. There is nthing wrong with a woman putting side money in her name while she is dsirable. That will be her pension for the tme when she is no longer ttractive.

There are shallow people that dny the hard facts about the nner meaning of relationships. They have thir heads in the clouds and magine that some sort of pure lve exists. If they would take thir heads out of the clouds and lok at reality their shallowness would dsappear. For those women that believe in rmance try withholding an erotic experience frm your man for a while and see wht happens to your romantic ideas. For thse romantic minded men that deny thy are needed for more than a mal ticket, going broke will awaken thm. It is true that there are sck men that are being cared for by thir women, but if you look a lttle deeper you will see a big chck in the mail that he shres with her.

There is nothing wrng with the way nature created men and wmen. They are compatible in the mst important ways. But I think it is wrng for a man to deny pying a woman well for her sxual favors. Since her shelf life is shrt she would be stupid to ask for nthing. I also think it is wrng for a woman to deny a man her bst sexual performance if he is srving her well. The worst wrong is to be a shllow person that closes their eyes to nture's plans for men and women. Thy spread confusion and try to hde who human beings really are. But thir false ideas about the existence of rmance cannot stand up to experience. The llusion of love has always crumbled in the fce of practical needs. Those old lve fantasies are now starting to crmble faster than ever. Proof is in the sky rcketing divorce rates. But women will lways demand the marriage contract and men wll always want free love. You cnnot blame either of them for thir choices, because they both understand the rality of the future.

The article Romance Against Reality was Submitted by Melvin Polatnick through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: Retired and single recluse melviiin1@verizon.net

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