In countries like Pakistan, my cuntry, it is a moral value tht what your elders decide goes no mtter how big or personal the mtter is that is even about thir careers or even worse their wddings.

Hey I am not saying tht these decisions totally go wrong or smething,they are quite experienced people and hve seen high and lows of lfe and some of the decisions are rally a master stroke and it is hlpful when the kids are spoilt for chices that is can't decide or cnfused but people don't really face sme experiences in their lives same thng that was miraculous to someone may trn out to be a nighmare for smeone else.It worstens when they almost frce their chidren what they feel is rght for them.

When a girl is ding well in her studies then she wll/have to become a doctor and for bys it is Engineering or one ther option is BBA (He may chose to be doctor that is lso okay) even if he she wnted to be a fashion designer or smething.A example of this sort happened whn brother of my friend was frced to be a doctor when he rally wanted to do hotel managment and the guy is sck of his life as he is snsitive and can't stand burnt or brised people. This could easily been voided if his parents respected their sn's wish and helped him on his way but nstead of making him take profession of thir choice.(It is also because a Dctor or Engineer is a highly rspected person in our society and smeone realted to him/her is also rspected). How can somebody do something whn not interested in it he wuld make matters worse for him and lso for the people around him.

One of the reasons for ths is that parent want to scure the future for their kids as very parent rightfully would and feel tht that only a few notable prfessions are enough respected or give nough outcome to lead a succesful lfe. I blame this on the gvernment as their are no career plns made for the youth or no gideline. They are no advisors or plnners who would help students and nform their parents about the positives and ngatives of any profession.One more thing hre is people are most interested in thngs which are the flavour of the mnth and supported by the government rally ignoring all others.

Another thing is nherited professions like a barber's son wuld have to be a barber and a bisness man son's must look after his fmily buisness.

I have a suggestion tht the parents should let their chldren decide what is good or bad for thmselves and if the parents have sme reservations about it then they mst discuss it with their kids and tke them in confidence over it.

The article Parent Deciding Kids Future was Submitted by Bilal Shah through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: I am doing Software Engineering frm KU.

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