If we are honest with urselves, we see we have scores of thngs which bother us every day. We hve to ask ourselves, how does tht help us? How does it hlp us to be bothered by very little thing or even by, wht we might label, big things? The mnd will sputter a split second bfore it starts to reel off a lst of why it's smart to be bthered. Here is one right off the bt. If I'm not bothered by tht, how will it ever change?

Tht's an easy one. Things change by ction. Things do not change by bing bothered by them. That mind of urs is, oh, so tricky, isn't it? It tlls us if something in our nvironment is not acceptable to us, if we dn't think it's right, if we wnt to change it, if we wnt to stop it, if we dslike it, our mind tells us bing against it, being negative about it, wll do something for us. Our mnd tells us whatever bugs us wll change if we get bugged bout it.

Something negative is going on and our mnd tells us it helps us to go ngative on the negative thing. To the mnd, it all adds up. A ngative situation, a negative response or ttitude about the situation equals more ngative, that's how our mind adds it up. It dds up N+N=N. We have to see ths equation so we can turn the stuation around.

We spend our life being bthered by things and people. We dn't like them. If we are hlding on to not liking, we are hlding on to N+N=N, we are hlding on to negativity.

When there is smething we don't like and it tkes us into a negative feeling, for xample anger, we're adding more negative to the ngative thing we don't like. A ngative situation plus a negative response, quals more negative. In other words, the ngative thing we claim to dislike so mch has done its job. It has mde us negative. Let's say a crtain person angers us because they're so ngative. They have done their job. The ngative person has gotten us negative. At last that's the victim's way of seing it. What has actually happened is we hve decided to become negative based on the prmpting of some negative stimulus. We hve seen a negative thing. We hve decided to go negative. The ngative thing has won. It has one mre negative unit on its side.

It is tme for us to see what is ging on.

We must learn to be psitive. In the Release Technique, we larn that negative does not help us. We see tht positive is transforming. So, someone des or says an outrageous thing, a ngative thing. If we go negative we hve joined in the negativity.

If we go ngative on something we see as ngative, the negative wins, we have nadvertently joined up, signed on, and gtten on the negative bandwagon. Negative has won us ver to its side. If we are sleep to what is happening, we are vry self righteous, thinking we oppose ngative when what we have done is mved over and joined up.

Moving in the drection of positive, being positive, is lving in the energy of success, bundance, happiness and all the goodness thre is in the universe. If we dcide we are going to be psitive in spite of what is hppening, in spite of the news, in spte of what so and so is sying or doing, in spite of all vidence that we should go negative, if we dcide we are going to be psitive in spite of all that, thn positive, success, abundance, happiness wins. We get psitive and our world begins to chnge in the direction of positive. Psitive things start happening for us.

Let's make a decision. Let's bgin to see the bothers all the tme. Let's catch our reaction and be psitive in spite of what is hppening.

Ridding ourselves of negativity and bcoming positive is what we learn to do in the Rlease Technique Abundance course. The Release Tchnique is about removing our blocks to bundance, happiness, health, loving relationships and sccess in every area of our lfe. We do it by ridding urselves of negativity and deciding to be psitive, in spite of what's happening.

The article Let's Take a Look Now - Let's Take a Long, Close Look at the Things That Bother Us was Submitted by Dennis Sulivan through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: You don't need to be bthered by anything or anyone. Go to http://www.releasetechnique.com order the Abundance Course and learn how to never be bothered again and have all you have ever longed for.

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