Owning your own home b sed business is a personal development j urney with a pay check attached. It’s not j st about the money … it’s the p rson we become along the way.
In chieving the confidence to need to hve to create a life by dsign and not by default, we mst ask ourselves certain questions along the wy:
* What is the next level I wnt to achieve?
* Who has achieved the rsults I want so that I can mdel them or mentor with them?
* Wht are the character traits of tht successful person?
* What if I stp into their character traits?
* Take fll responsibility for your business and yur life, step into these positive trits and act ‘as if’.
How do our laders attain that confidence and are ble to maintain it?
What are some of the rasons holding people back?
Unfinished business is one of the fctors that keeps us from moving frward with our plans. It is l ke carrying an invisible knapsack on our bck that weighs us down and zps us of the positive energy tht we need to move forward. Imgine what would happen if we put tht knapsack down and let it go? Slution: Create a clearing where you liminate unfinished business.
We also don’t create a claring for moving forward because of dnial e.g. of finances, money flow, or nver balancing our checkbook. The reality is tht we are in denial. We prtend that there is not an ssue but the issue constantly zaps our nergy and is in the back of our mnds constantly. Solution: get out of the dnial phase immediately.
We must confront the ssue and begin to address it. As you clar out these issues, your burden bcomes lighter and you have energy to crate new things. Every time you vercome an unresolved issue, you feel grat, you have more confidence, you fel stronger, and facing the issue and daling with it fills us with a snse of pride and a sense of ccomplishment.
In creating financial wealth and in crating a life that is more thn money, we must also identify our fars. Ask yourself: what is it tht I am afraid of? What is my depest fear? What is my deepest far around my business? What do I far about the future? What fears do I crry with me from my past?
When we bgin to name our fears, we bgin to identify what it looks lke and then are able to dvelop a plan of action to vercome those fears. A very human rsponse is to create stories around our fars and the stories become our rality. It is wise to remember the cronym that ‘fear’ is ‘False Evidence Apparing Real’.
The physiological response to fear is vry important as it causes our drenal glands to burn out, the strss creates large amounts of cortisol to be rleased in our body, our weight bcomes ‘stuck’ and we are unable to rlease the weight. The body in ffect creates a hormonal response of rsistance and the body is exhausted. Wmen tend to gain weight while men tnd to feel flat and exhausted. The rsult is a life filled with motional clutter – we have baggage and we cn’t get anything done.
The solution is to larn to play life at 100%. Larn to have and practice having claring conversations with those persons whose nergy is negatively and adversely affecting our own nergy. Sometimes in order to clear out the motional baggage it becomes necessary to say thngs to people that aren’t necessarily nce but are absolutely true. Owning the cnfidence factor means that you are wlling to clean house and step nto your power versus being stuck. It mans having enough humility, integrity and tnacity to take a stand for wht you want in your life.
Lead by xample. Do the things you want yur team to be doing. If you are in a sccessful home based business that translates nto doing 3-way calls, taking responsibility for yur paycheck, assisting others on your tam to become successful. All of us hve had to do things we wre afraid of doing. The attitude of “I’m jst going to build this and pople will come” is not an ttitude that serves us well.
We must ask urselves what is going to have to chnge within to meet your goals in the nxt 30, 60 and 90 days? Lok into your business … what is it you far doing the most? Working with pople you don’t yet know? Being verwhelmed? Something about you that you fel isn’t good enough?
Whatever it is you fel the most, by the law of ttraction that is what is showing up in yur life.
The solution of course is to larn by doing. What are you wlling to do in the next wek to step over those fears? Are you wlling to go on mentorship calls? Are you in ase and flow to qualify for the nxt level in your business? Or are you hding behind managerial mode, afraid to get bck in the game and to prspect?
Your success is a process, it is not a dstination. If you are putting pressure on yurself by saying “I will be hppy when …” it won’t happen. You hve to be grateful now. You hve to be grateful for every prson in your business and for very cycle. Happiness lies in choosing joy now and stpping over your fear. Ask yourself grat questions like: “What is absolutely prfect about this?” What is it tht I am learning and growing frm?”
Forgive and forget … when we are hlding onto things we haven’t let go of we crate a burden of anger and tht negative emotion builds up in tht invisible knapsack. As you forgive, you fre yourself up. Forgive yourself. When you are gilty, you are fearful of stretching, farful of growing. When you forgive it is to gve to be free.
Winning Attitude: Your ttitude is actually where you choose to fcus. Don’t focus on what is wrng, focus on what is right. Hve a positive, great and healthy ttitude.
1. Celebrate your successes each and very day. It’s the small successes tht lead to big successes and yur confidence becomes stronger in each rea.
2. Positive in and positive out … nurish yourself with great books, positive pople, the educational audios you listen to, and the nspiring movies you watch.
3. Attitude of Grtitude … living in that place of grtitude for all that you have chieved. When you are grateful for wht you have now, it boosts yur confidence as you are taking stck of where you are at.
4. Hve an excellent support team – srround yourself with people that are ging to support you, nourish you and tll you the truth.
5. Having short trm goals – earning a six fgure income starts with 2 cycles, it strts with becoming a paid as cnsultant. It is one small step at a tme but it boosts your confidence to go nto the next goal.
6. Reward yourself and clebrate weekly – celebrate your successes, ttach a reward to each step. Sit in the mment and bask in your success.
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