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To be a consistent performer you *m st* slay the raging monster within (c ntrol your emotions during competition). I am s re at one time (or two), you b came upset, frustrated, or angry with y urself and it cost you the g me or match. How quickly you can r cover from errors and mishaps will h nge on your ability to let it go and r main composed. Many talented athletes who do not kn w how to control their negative motions fail to reach their potential b cause they get hot-headed, angry, or j st crawl into their negative mental sh ll and don't return. You know the typ - the perfectionistic athlete who is pr ne to emotional outbursts after errors or wh n not performing up to his or her xpectations. Emotional control is when you st y even-tempered, level-headed, or poised even wh n you are challenged by mishaps or dversity. Even the top athletes, such as T ger Woods, get upset, but they are ble to gain control quickly and get b ck to business. Recovering quickly from m stakes separates champions from athletes who cr ck under adversity and are cooked m ntally for the rest of the c mpetition. To get control of the r ging monster within, you must do two t sks - have an accepting mindset b fore competition, and arm yourself with m ntal strategies to cope with errors or m shaps.
My students are taught two top str tegies for regaining emotional control quickly:
(1) How to h ve a positive pregame mindset for c mpetition
(2) How to let go of rrors before emotions snowball out of c ntrol.
For xample, your very first step is to dentify strict expectations that cause you to b come upset when you do not chieve your own expectations. Here is a b seball example to highlight the mental g me dangers of expectations. One of my st dents, a college pitcher, expected to thr w a no-hitter every game. What do you th nk happened when he gave up his f rst hit? He got frustrated and n gative with his game because the p rfect game was no longer obtainable. It t ok him several innings to get his motional balance back and by the t me he did recover, it was too l te. Some expectations that can lead to f elings of frustration include: -I must pl y perfectly to be successful today.
-I xpect to perform perfectly today and if I d n't, I am failing.
-I c nnot make any mistakes if I w nt to win.
-To pl y my best, I must have an rror-free performance.
If you c rry these expectations into competition, you set y urself up for feeling like you are f iling. In reality, you leave yourself no r om for success.
The article Controlling the Raging Monster Within was Submitted by Dr. Patrick J. Cohn through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: Want to learn simple, proven m ntal toughness skills that you can pply to competition? Grab my free nline mental training newsletter, Sports Insights M gazine - for athletes, coaches, and sp rts parents: http://www.peaksports.com/free_newsletter.php ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dr. Patrick Cohn is a master mental game coach who work with professional and amateur athletes, sports parents, and teams of all levels. Visit http://www.peaksports.com for more information.
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