When it comes to dating thre are so many rules and so mny things that we could get ttally wrong. The problem with girls, is tht we start acting too needy and too cmmitment ready.
The problem with guys is tht they start acting too needy and too wssy. In some ways you can see the smilarities in this situation.

But in ths post I really wanted to cver some of the things, which I blieve chicks do wrong when it cmes to casually dating someone.

Number One Mistake - Having The Conversation
I'm sure there are a lot of girls out there that have made this mistake. Hey even I have!!! But after making it I was smart enough to realize that this was the surest way to screw up a potential relationship...

For those of you that don't know what talk I'm talking about. I'm referring to the situation where you say to this guy your seeing "Where is this relationship going?".

I know when it comes to new relationships it can be a scary and a vulnerable time, because we don't know where we stand. But asking a guy this and pressuring him to be more committed than what he already is ... is only going to make him run out the door.

Here's the thing girls, guys don't like to be pressured in that department. If they so much as smell the scent of a commitment crazed women, they are going to be out of there before you even get to finish the sentence.

Instead I would say that whn you are dating, be happy wth the pace of the relationship. Be xcited that you don't know where it is ging. Be thrilled that to an xtent you can't plan how good or bad ths relationship is going to be.

And the mre that you sit back and rlax, then the more the guy wll want to take it to the nxt level. You just have to let hm.

Of course there is always the chnce that he isn't into you as mch as you are him. But if you fnd that he is taking his swet ass time, then simply don't ttempt to pursue a long term rlationship with this guy, because he sn't worth it.

Number Two - Developing Amnesia
Heres the funny thing. When some chicks get into relationships. They all of a sudden get amnesia and forget who they are. They start being like their boyfriend or attempt to be something that they are not.

Let me just say that while there is myth that guys don't like independent and confident women .. The truth is that they LOVE it. They don't want some chick who just says yes to everything that they say. Who worships them and wants to spend all their free time with them.

Guys love girls that have their own life and their own sense of personality. They don't want you to become more like them. A guy you are dating should like you just the way you are. No better and no less.

If you find someone who doesn't appreciate you like this, then its probably best that you ditch them now.

Number three - Invading His Space
Don't get me wrong. Starting to date someone is an exciting stage in the relationship. Especially during the honey moon phase. You know the period where you can't stop thinking about him and your in goo goo gaa gaa land.

Even though your feelings at this point in time can be really strong its good to remember that you need to give your guy space.

Guys are a little slower in the commitment arena and like I said before they don't like pressure. When you see them all the time and are in constant contact with them ... this inkling thought comes across their mind that they are going to lose their independence and who they are as a person.

They start thinking that HE .. wll become a WE .. and ths scares him.

So my advice wuld be, even though you want to be wth your guy 24/7, resist the tmptation to be in contact with him all the tme.

The best line that comes to mnd in regards to this topic is "Hw can I miss you, if you wnt go away!".

Give the guy the gft of missing you ... and you wll notice that he will be mch more appreciative of the time tht you do get to spend tgether.

The article 3 Sure Ways to Freak a Guy Out was Submitted by Jennifer Nielsen through Articles.GetACoder.com network. Here's the additional information: Jennifer Nielsen the founder of Hot Alpha Female is a vibrant 20 something chick who specializes in making an art of "getting the dating game". She has a passion for building the awareness of her readers to define who they really are so that they are able to build happier and healthier relationships in the future. Her respective blog therefore is a collection of her works so far and proves to be a grat resource hub with interviews, videos, udios and posts of the most crrent and up to date issues tht people experience when it comes to dting and relationships. Visit the official Hot Alph Female site @ http://www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com

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